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DeviantlyD -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/4/2011 3:13:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise Congratulations, Farido. Is this the 19 year old virgin you sought help with in training last year? You sound really nervous, and I bet she is too! Since you have been training her for so many months online, there is a behavior of yours that she has come to know and trust. So how you treat her face to face shouldn't be any different than how you've been treating her online. And remember, she will be testing you too! Geez poise...just read the link. That is creepy. I hope the girl has some common sense. Eeep!

LiveByYourNature -> RE: 1st visit of my new 24/7 slave (9/4/2011 3:17:54 AM)
quote: HOw about meeting her for coffee first and seeing if either one of you even like each other? And then sending her back home for continual meetings over a course of time to get to know each other. Nothin like moving in before you even meet I guess though. You know, not every Dom or Sub has the money or time to be flitting about on visits, and, if you've spent several months in an online relationship with the person, where you already knew it was leading up to meeting in person and having a testing period, then the face to face meeting is not the first time you met, and, you certainly know, by then, if you like the person. The week or two of spending time together is to help you understand if that person you like is also a person you are compatible with, in real time. If the sub is going to be taking the chance on moving their entire life, pretty much, especially, something more intense than coffee is called for, by way of an initial meeting, unless they are local. Though, not so much for the kind of slave I am interested in, since "like" really isn't the point. lol

DeviantlyD -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/4/2011 3:26:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveByYourNature [snip] if you've spent several months in an online relationship with the person, where you already knew it was leading up to meeting in person and having a testing period, then the face to face meeting is not the first time you met, and, you certainly know, by then, if you like the person. The week or two of spending time together is to help you understand if that person you like is also a person you are compatible with, in real time. And how many times have you done this yourself?

SoulPiercer -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/4/2011 3:35:30 AM)
Like some of the other regulars, I too remember your name and the back story. Sooooo here is my advice. Contact your attorney and make sure your affairs are in order. Leave all of your assets to a dog, cat or bird. Make sure your new 24/7 slave girl is aware of this. Also, have your attorney draft a letter stating that if you should die by unnatural means, then your 24/7 slave girl and her REAL boyfriend/husband were responsible. Finally, since she is in her 20's, be sure you send her all the money she needs for the trip. Spare no expense. It doesn't matter how much money she asks for. Don't send checks or money orders. Send cash, by Fed Ex. Hope this helps.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/4/2011 3:41:54 AM)
zero, she never makes it past step 4

sunshinemiss -> RE: 1st visit (9/4/2011 6:31:02 AM)
good luck.

poise -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/4/2011 6:39:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD quote: ORIGINAL: LiveByYourNature [snip] if you've spent several months in an online relationship with the person, where you already knew it was leading up to meeting in person and having a testing period, then the face to face meeting is not the first time you met, and, you certainly know, by then, if you like the person. The week or two of spending time together is to help you understand if that person you like is also a person you are compatible with, in real time. And how many times have you done this yourself? I have a feeling not as often as she creates new profiles. [;)] Hello JWriter, and your 100 other ids.

xCallMeSirx -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/5/2011 6:36:22 AM)
I wonder how much money he sent her for this "flight" and did he ever see her or his money again?

DarkSteven -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/5/2011 6:48:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise Hello JWriter, and your 100 other ids. I knew you wimmins were weird about owning dozens of pairs of shoes. She's the only wimmin I know who has dozens of socks. quote: ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer Like some of the other regulars, I too remember your name and the back story. Sooooo here is my advice. Contact your attorney and make sure your affairs are in order. Leave all of your assets to a dog, cat or bird. Make sure your new 24/7 slave girl is aware of this. Also, have your attorney draft a letter stating that if you should die by unnatural means, then your 24/7 slave girl and her REAL boyfriend/husband were responsible. Finally, since she is in her 20's, be sure you send her all the money she needs for the trip. Spare no expense. It doesn't matter how much money she asks for. Don't send checks or money orders. Send cash, by Fed Ex. Hope this helps. In response to SoulPiercer's excellent post, I'd like to mention that I have a cat.

coookie -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/5/2011 1:50:47 PM)
I love cat people =)

kalikshama -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 12:11:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: poise Congratulations, Farido. Is this the 19 year old virgin you sought help with in training last year? I knew I remembered that name. Thank you, poise! Me too and my thanks as well.

Madame4a -> RE: 1st visit of my new 24/7 slave (9/8/2011 5:22:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveByYourNature quote: HOw about meeting her for coffee first and seeing if either one of you even like each other? And then sending her back home for continual meetings over a course of time to get to know each other. Nothin like moving in before you even meet I guess though. You know, not every Dom or Sub has the money or time to be flitting about on visits, and, if you've spent several months in an online relationship with the person, where you already knew it was leading up to meeting in person and having a testing period, then the face to face meeting is not the first time you met, and, you certainly know, by then, if you like the person. The week or two of spending time together is to help you understand if that person you like is also a person you are compatible with, in real time. If the sub is going to be taking the chance on moving their entire life, pretty much, especially, something more intense than coffee is called for, by way of an initial meeting, unless they are local. Though, not so much for the kind of slave I am interested in, since "like" really isn't the point. lol uhmm.. to the bold part... HUH? what? are you crazy? and perhaps there isn't money for many meetings.. but I'm going to guess there is less money for moving right back home a month later because the two people are incompatible... and to the OP ... do both of you a favor... slow the fuck down

Madame4a -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 5:24:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer Like some of the other regulars, I too remember your name and the back story. Sooooo here is my advice. Contact your attorney and make sure your affairs are in order. Leave all of your assets to a dog, cat or bird. Make sure your new 24/7 slave girl is aware of this. Also, have your attorney draft a letter stating that if you should die by unnatural means, then your 24/7 slave girl and her REAL boyfriend/husband were responsible. Finally, since she is in her 20's, be sure you send her all the money she needs for the trip. Spare no expense. It doesn't matter how much money she asks for. Don't send checks or money orders. Send cash, by Fed Ex. Hope this helps. I think I love you

ummmmNo -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 6:31:09 PM)
You are only 20 years her senior... There's no chance that something could go wrong or that she's scamming you... A serious suggestion: TRY TALKING TO WOMEN IN YOUR GENERATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have heard of young, impressionable subs being this dumb. It always makes me sad. I am nearly 23, and I can't imagine EVER doing this. EVER!

siamsa24 -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 6:37:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo You are only 20 years her senior... There's no chance that something could go wrong or that she's scamming you... A serious suggestion: TRY TALKING TO WOMEN IN YOUR GENERATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have heard of young, impressionable subs being this dumb. It always makes me sad. I am nearly 23, and I can't imagine EVER doing this. EVER! Well, I am a little over 13 years younger then my Husband and we have made things work (unscammingly) for over 8 years, we started dating when I was 19 and he was 33. I'm not saying that it will always work, but it works sometimes, we have a life, relationship, house, 2 cars, preschooler, etc to show some proof of that [:)] And quite frankly, if I had stayed in my generation I would have been totally miserable.

ummmmNo -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 6:40:39 PM)
13 years, to me, is different than 20ish years. Also, technically, you are probably in the same generation. (Generational breaks are usually/always 20 years. Google is hard.) The BIGGEST worry here is that if this is for real, a young woman is moving into a man's home blind. To me, that spells trouble. I am going to assume that you and your man met before you had all those lovely relationship-y bits.

siamsa24 -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 6:53:26 PM)
Yes, 13 years is different then 20 years, but there is a generational gap. Believe me. And yes, we did meet, and we dated for several years before moving in, then several more years before producing offspring, then several MORE years before I at last agreed to tie the knot (yeah, didn't do that until this past spring [:D]). I have to agree with you that moving in like that is an all around BAD idea.

ummmmNo -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 7:02:15 PM)
Thirteen years is quite a difference, and I am sure that it has affected y'all's relationship from time to time. (I don't mean negatively.) Heck, I call my sister ma'am, and she is 10 years my senior. (I am from the DEEP South, and she was my teacher and coach a few times, so it makes sense.) I suppose 20ish (probably 23/24) years just seems a lot to me.

LadyPact -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 7:15:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I knew you wimmins were weird about owning dozens of pairs of shoes. She's the only wimmin I know who has dozens of socks. [sm=LMAO.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif] That has got to be the funniest thing that I've read all day. Thank you for the chuckle.

ClassIsInSession -> RE: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink (9/8/2011 7:39:44 PM)
I think quite a lot of these posts are exceedingly negative and harsh. I met my now ex-wife completely through the internet. I drove 1/2 across the U.S. to explore things with her, moving in immediately, within 6 months, we were married, building a new house, I had a thriving career and we have a beautiful son as a result. We "dated" for 6 months and we were married for 7 years. While we divorced, over differences (the divorce rate being above 50% for anyone), we are still very good friends. Many of the women I've been with over the years have been considerably older or younger than me. The "generation gap" as you call it doesn't have to be a problem, in fact, it can often be an asset allowing differing perspectives to life and the world. As far as I'm concerned, if the 2 (or more for that matter) are consenting adults, and have decided the choice is the right one to make at the time they make it, more power to them and best of luck. More often than not, the problems that come about in relationships have more to do with dishonesty, or ignoring potential differences that would be deal breakers...it isn't so much an age issue as a self-esteem and in-touch-with-who-you-are issue. Again, about honesty, depth of character and self awareness. I'm certainly glad those broad brushes weren't being swiped at my relationships. The only thing that did rub me wrong in the whole scenario was the title of the post: 1st visit by naive young girl I hope to boink. That seems to indicate an utter lack of respect for the "naive young girl" and a purely sexual motive, which does not seem to be the case with the extended explanations. Sex is rarely enough to cement any relationship and I only hope that she knows she was being referred to as a naive young girl he hoped to boink.

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