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MstrDennynSlave -> RE: 1st visit of my new 24/7 slave (8/30/2011 8:50:03 AM)
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I'm not a Master/Mistress, but I am a slave to my Master. During the first 24-48 hours, treat her as you would any woman in a vanilla relationship. It is about getting to know each other first. You have talked long distance, yes, but that doesnt take the place of meeting face to face. There will be many things you will be finding out about each other the first few days. Take this time to listen to her. Being her Master doesnt mean you will take over and not listen to anything she says. She is going to be nervous. You are going to be nervous. Be yourself, but don't start right in on the, "I'm your Master, you obey me", routine. Even though she knows that is what is expected of her, it could very well make her bolt if you start too soon. Treat her as you would expect to be treated were you in her position. Not necessarily as a slave, but as a woman that is meeting someone for the first time. Even though you have talked, she is most undoubtedly very scared and nervous. Not sure what to expect. And relax yourself. The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. Talk to her as you would with someone in a vanilla relationship. Add a few things that you would like to teach her, have her do, within the conversations. But dont overwhelm her with everything all at once.
Take her out to eat if you dont feel comfortable cooking the first meal for her. While eating lunch/dinner, talk about anything under the sun that interests you both. Some women are comfortable talking about why they are meeting someone, and some aren't. Take your cues from her. Most of all, RELAX and enjoy yourself and her company.
Hope this helps you out. And best of luck.
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