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Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 1:45:35 PM   
nevaehangel


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Status: offline 		I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.
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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 1:49:21 PM   
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I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords
What do you mean by the bolded section?

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 2:00:07 PM   
nevaehangel


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Status: offline 		not to sure why i mentioned that lol....I was rambling slightly I am sorry

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 2:03:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally I have never done it just because it didn't seem necessary.

I have also never demanded to be contacted first or sent another woman out trolling for more pussy.

I am clearly doing all of this wrong.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 2:56:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have not given him all my passwords why?  He has never asked for them.  He does know my CM password i had changed it when we got together he helped me choose it.  If Master wanted my passwords i would not have any trouble giving them to him.  He knows he can trusr me he don't want to have to micro manage me.  I am HIS girl but i am also a fully functionl adult.  If he wants the PW's he can have them but he don't want them..

Matt's littleone

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 3:01:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.

Profile, bank accounts, credit cards, cash, my purse. He has access to anything he wants. Not a problem.

I have access to all of his stuff as well. Again, for us, not a problem. I trust this guy with my life. Everything else is pretty trivial next to that.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 3:45:33 PM   
hardcybermaster


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Status: offline 		does he want access for control reasons or is it because he doesn't trust you? If he doesn't trust you then you have problems
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ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.



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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 3:49:02 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't give it to someone who asked, or demanded, but if it happened naturally, over the course of our relationship, after I had known them a good long while, I wouldn't mind them knowing all my passwords, but I'd expect the same open honesty and transparency from them. If I am going to be transparent, so are they.

I have access to all Daddy's things, his mail, online and off, his bank account, his netflix account, all of it. The only thing he's asked me to keep out of is his IGN 401k plan, cause it's complicated and it'll confuse me and it's not something I need to worry about.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 4:56:38 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.

Profile, bank accounts, credit cards, cash, my purse. He has access to anything he wants. Not a problem.

I have access to all of his stuff as well. Again, for us, not a problem. I trust this guy with my life. Everything else is pretty trivial next to that.

Ditto, except that I don't have access to all of His. Never asked to, never needed to. He has access to all of mine but does not use them (except for the banking stuff which He takes care of). We trust each other implicitly. Not an issue.........luci

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 5:52:43 PM   
SoulAlloy


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ORIGINAL: littleone35
Master wanted my passwords i would not have any trouble giving them to him.  He knows he can trusr me he don't want to have to micro manage me.  I am HIS girl but i am also a fully functionl adult.  If he wants the PW's he can have them but he don't want them..

Matt's littleone


Same here, if asked I would give them over to my partner. I trust her completely.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 6:09:02 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Profile, bank accounts, credit cards, cash, my purse. He has access to anything he wants. Not a problem.

I have access to all of his stuff as well. Again, for us, not a problem. I trust this guy with my life. Everything else is pretty trivial next to that.
Same here. We're a married couple, we both have complete access to each others info. But, I will say he didn't ask for my passwords, I gave them to him and he's never used them.


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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 9:06:36 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		It was the same with my x when we were a couple. Oh heck. It is still the same even though we are not a couple any longer. He has mine, I have his. When you trust someone it is easy. But that trust took time. Passwords were not something handed over when we were just starting out as a couple.
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.

Profile, bank accounts, credit cards, cash, my purse. He has access to anything he wants. Not a problem.

I have access to all of his stuff as well. Again, for us, not a problem. I trust this guy with my life. Everything else is pretty trivial next to that.

Ditto, except that I don't have access to all of His. Never asked to, never needed to. He has access to all of mine but does not use them (except for the banking stuff which He takes care of). We trust each other implicitly. Not an issue.........luci



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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 9:10:34 PM   
atursvcMaam


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmm,
i have always been ready to open anything Milady has requested. If She were to ask for passwords, i would offer them freely. If She started changing passwords then i would be confused, and we would discuss this. If She started answering as me I would be amused or slightly concerned depending on the specifics. Again, W/we would discuss the whys and wherefores. If She found my participation on line, or elsewhere not at Her comfort level, I would likely adapt my behavior.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/1/2011 9:22:37 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.

Profile, bank accounts, credit cards, cash, my purse. He has access to anything he wants. Not a problem.

I have access to all of his stuff as well. Again, for us, not a problem. I trust this guy with my life. Everything else is pretty trivial next to that.


^ This. I am a domme but my pet(the one that lives with me) has given me his information and has all of the above information about me as well.

ETA- *oh* I would never speak through his accounts as if I were him. That is just rude.

< Message edited by MissImmortalPain -- 9/1/2011 9:25:23 PM >

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 4:27:31 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		We've been together for 7 months and don't live together. He doesn't have any of my passwords cos there's no reason for him to have them. Not that he would even consider asking for them - he trusts me, and I trust him.

However I did tell him once that I'd been getting some nasty mail from a local guy through cm, and I logged on as me and gave him the computer to read the mails and do anything else he wanted. I had no worries at all that he'd do something underhand. He did read a couple of messages that had been sent to me by an ex, but only because I'd told him about the funny messages we'd been swapping and wanted him to see them too.

Maybe if we lived together we might swap that kind of info, but for now - it's not an issue.

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 5:18:56 AM   
sissyboycindy


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Status: offline 		Yes my Mistress has full access to everything and likes to check up on me oftn.Also when there are times when she has photos and videos of me to upload it makes it a snap to do and then send off to whom ever she wants with access to my address book

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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 5:49:15 AM   
Endivius


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ORIGINAL: nevaehangel

I was wanting to ask others, does your Dom/Domme have access to your profiles? email? ect? if they do do you have any problems with them having access?
I ask this because my Daddy has full access to everything I do online. He can access my CM as well as my other social networking sites. I gave him all of the passwords which he has changed to suit the reasoning for him having my passwords. I was wondering what your input is on them having full access to not only read what you do and say but to also respond under your profile names.



You are doing it wrong. The question you should be asking is, "Do I trust this person enough to give him acess to everything I do online." If you do, you do. If you don't, you should work on that. I personally do not ask the girls for online things like passwords ect;. I do have access to other things like thier iPhones in case I pick one up to use it, ect;..



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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 5:59:09 AM   
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That is just rude.


And... fraud?


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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 7:37:03 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		He has access to absolutely everything in my life. Sometimes he uses those things, sometimes he doesn't. Just depends on his mood. His choice. Doesn't bother me in the least since I have nothing to hide from him.

I don't have access to everything of his but that's because I never asked for anything of his but if I did and had a good reason I'm sure he would. He has at times told me to access his stuff because he didn't have time, needed something, etc....

It's just simply not a big deal to us. I mean really....I trust the guy with my life and he trusts me with his.


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RE: Daddy has access - 9/2/2011 7:59:04 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I don't like sneaky and secretive.

If I am really close to a person, and they are an adult living in my home, and NOT one of my children.......then I get and give transparency.......in as much as is wanted and needed.

My definition is a little more transparent than our government's definition seems to be.

Really, the core of it all is trust. I don't haunt my significant others but I also expect there is no reason to. If I cannot trust them, and visa versa, then we need to rethink a lot more than passwords.


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