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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/10/2011 6:31:01 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't play casually so it's not even a concern of mine to run away or not and by the time I play like that in a relationship we've already established that I trust him so again not a concern. If we're playing and something doesn't feel right I tell him and then he decides whether to adjust it next time or not.

My advice to you...don't play with someone until you've established either a relationship or you know that person better or if you're going to just play with anonymous casual play, then simply don't play with them again if you don't like the way they play.



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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/10/2011 8:24:07 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		I actually like being flogged on my back and shoulder blates... the heavy thuddy floggers are the best

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 1:12:48 AM   
M4S73R


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Status: offline 		OP moral of thread. Common sense is your friend. If you dont like the way someone kicks your ass, avoidance is your friend. -1 for not using brain.

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 8:06:14 AM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: M4S73R

OP moral of thread. Common sense is your friend. If you dont like the way someone kicks your ass, avoidance is your friend. -1 for not using brain.


Only -1 for not using brain? Thor, I think your grading system needs to be re-evaluated.

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 9:10:08 AM   
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Death by Flogger
Starring,
Ren and Stimpy

Directed by Spongebob Squarepants.


LMFAO

Give some warning please

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 9:25:42 AM   
sexyred1


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If you are hurt or feel something is wrong, speak up.

If you are pushed into sub space from this "horrible" pain, perhaps it is not all that horrible, no?

I know that if something hit me wrong, not only do I let someone know that minute, but I don't go into subspace over it.

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 10:09:03 AM   
Brutal244


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Status: offline 		When I first started reading this with the title "Hit and Miss" I was thinking to myself: How can you miss the sub who is tied down?

Ridiculous thread. Since it is the first I have seen I am a little dismayed but it can only go up from here.

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 11:05:57 AM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: Brutal244

When I first started reading this with the title "Hit and Miss" I was thinking to myself: How can you miss the sub who is tied down?

Ridiculous thread. Since it is the first I have seen I am a little dismayed but it can only go up from here.



Don't count on it... sad to say this isn't even all that bad considering some... RUN NOW WHILE YOU STILL CAN!

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/11/2011 12:15:26 PM   
M4S73R


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 7:18:46 AM   
Kana


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OH MY FUCKING GOD, KILL ME NOW!!!!!!!!!

Jay Wiseman is the kink of the safety nazi's according to many, he testifies in court about kink and safety. Guess how many injuries do to idiots with floggers he can report? Not fucking many, in fact the only way to really hurt someone with a flogger is to beat them with the handle!!!

The whole myth about beating kidneys? MYTH...at least with a leather flogger. Same goes for the spine, a piece of engineering designed to protect the nerves from claws and teeth intent on killing you, not some fat slob with a cheap flogger...

Now, I am sure some with know a friend who knows someone who hear that someone died from a flogger but I know that person and she made it up.


Floggers are the Nerf  of S/M


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 6:57:58 PM   
ummmmNo


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Status: offline 		LMAO...

That's all I can really add to this bit of ridiculousness.

(In situations like this, I like to pretend whatever idiotic that's going on is a joke. Life is better that way.)

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 7:05:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Brutal244

When I first started reading this with the title "Hit and Miss" I was thinking to myself: How can you miss the sub who is tied down?

Ridiculous thread. Since it is the first I have seen I am a little dismayed but it can only go up from here.


Welcome to the forums.  I'm sorry to say this isn't the worst of the lot.  There can be some good ones, too, so those are worth hanging around for.


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 7:55:23 PM   
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Floggers are the Nerf  of S/M



You, I like, you may stay!

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 7:59:04 PM   
littlewonder


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Floggers are the Nerf of S/M


but they give such a nice massage!




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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/12/2011 9:32:52 PM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

OH MY FUCKING GOD, KILL ME NOW!!!!!!!!!

Jay Wiseman is the kink of the safety nazi's according to many, he testifies in court about kink and safety. Guess how many injuries do to idiots with floggers he can report? Not fucking many, in fact the only way to really hurt someone with a flogger is to beat them with the handle!!!

The whole myth about beating kidneys? MYTH...at least with a leather flogger. Same goes for the spine, a piece of engineering designed to protect the nerves from claws and teeth intent on killing you, not some fat slob with a cheap flogger...

Now, I am sure some with know a friend who knows someone who hear that someone died from a flogger but I know that person and she made it up.

How did I miss coming back to this thread?!  Loved your posts here, Michael, totally spot on.

Like others have said, floggers are a wonderful therapeutic massage.  I was just telling the Mister that the other day.  I dared him to actually try to cause serious pain with one...heh.

My ex had a heavy rubber flogger like Michael described, and would hit me hard with it.  I loved it - It left some (but not many) marks and it was very heavy, but still one of my favorites.

I also have a knotted flogger which leaves perfectly round bruises all over, and it does have a big "ow factor" but I don't fear injury with that, either.

The only OMFG flogger I've felt is one with beads positioned about every 3 inches down the tails.  It hurts like a mother, but is not threatening of injury.

Quite honestly, my back and spine are my favorite places to be flogged.  It's quite the treat.

Maybe the newbie was just not educated on how safe floggers actually are, and got scared? 


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/13/2011 10:16:41 AM   
SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

Maybe the newbie was just not educated on how safe floggers actually are, and got scared? 



Nueva,

You aren't a big participant in the public kink scene so you aren't aware of any of this. Smaller scenes/communities tend to get run by people with less experience and "safety" becomes a higher priority or at least a bigger buggaboo. Many smaller playspaces make a big deal out of flogging spines, kidneys, etc. It becomes part of the mythology and online in chat rooms, it is even more blown out of proportion. So small town Dungeon Monitors make it a big deal but if you go to grown up dungeons like the Lair in Los Angeles you will see shit that will make you flinch. I still remember a scene with sparks flying because the top was using a high speed grinder on the steel helmet his bottom was wearing while she held a can of gasoline and later he fired up an electric chain saw. Not my thing, too over the top and showy but still its not the sort of thing one sees in smaller local playspaces.

But yeah, floggers are pretty damn safe unless you do really really stupid shit with them that any six year old would say "that seems like running with scissors" to me...

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/13/2011 11:14:31 AM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		This thread just keeps getting better and better and better........  Personal responsibility and accountability is something that is clearly lacking in this arena. 

Now, I must go have some....uhmmm... "alone time" thanks to Michael and Kana's posts....

Damn sadistic men!!!

Kali


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/13/2011 11:45:10 AM   
SimplyMichael


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This thread just keeps getting better and better and better........  Personal responsibility and accountability is something that is clearly lacking in this arena. 

Now, I must go have some....uhmmm... "alone time" thanks to Michael and Kana's posts....

Damn sadistic men!!!

Kali



I am sure Kana would agree. Not today...wait till tomorrow.

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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/13/2011 11:52:27 AM   
Kalista07


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I am sure Kana would agree. Not today...wait till tomorrow.


Leave it to a sadistic man!!!

They'll get you every time.

Kali


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RE: Hit and Miss - 9/14/2011 2:40:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

I actually like being flogged on my back and shoulder blates... the heavy thuddy floggers are the best


I'm just the opposite. I feel like I'm getting burped with thuddy floggers. I much prefer stingy and painful. :)

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