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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

He met me online. When he took me as his trainee, he implemented chat rules for me. Why? Because i needed them. Because i was not a strong person then. Because he saw potential in me and wanted to protect me from myself. Because he knew my history. i was allowed to talk to any current friends i had. i was not allowed to IM with men i did not previously know. Period. No camming for other men, even friends. Not even a facial smile. He had his reasons, and i respected them and obeyed them. SO MANY people asked, "Gee, your Master must be insecure." "Gee, your Master must not trust you." (Okay they didn't actually say "gee"). my response? Thank God he knows me well enough, and cares about me enough to know exactly what i need and provide it.

Now i am free to chat whenever and with whomever. i just don't really want to much anymore. Most of the chat rooms i have gone to are filled with folks who can't handle the things we discuss in this forum.

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While I take no issue with any property of mine making use of the internet for journaling and other such common things, I do from time to time limit their exposure to chat boards such as these. While there are many wise dominants and well-trained submissives making their mark in these forums, the majority hyper-inclusive, often politically correct 'everything is acceptable / it's all interpretation and reinvention' culture that is fostered at times in these communities trivializes structure and works to undermine the beginning foundations of slave training.

In MY world there is a right and a wrong way of doing things. Once a slave is complete in her education, she sees the difference clearly and is immune to the corrosive influence of the circus.

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slaves earn tiem on the net and can only go onto the net with My permission and yes, I am right there next to them. They ask permission to to post or IM..tellling Me what they are going to say first. They can only speak to others with permission. I read ALL thier IMs and emails first before thay do.

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ORIGINAL: MasterDaddy123


slaves earn tiem on the net and can only go onto the net with My permission and yes, I am right there next to them. They ask permission to to post or IM..tellling Me what they are going to say first. They can only speak to others with permission. I read ALL thier IMs and emails first before thay do.

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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

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While I take no issue with any property of mine making use of the internet for journaling and other such common things, I do from time to time limit their exposure to chat boards such as these. While there are many wise dominants and well-trained submissives making their mark in these forums, the majority hyper-inclusive, often politically correct 'everything is acceptable / it's all interpretation and reinvention' culture that is fostered at times in these communities trivializes structure and works to undermine the beginning foundations of slave training.

In MY world there is a right and a wrong way of doing things. Once a slave is complete in her education, she sees the difference clearly and is immune to the corrosive influence of the circus.

I agree with you. Early on R limited my access to e-mail lists and forums. There was so much conflict. He wanted to shape and alter my beliefs and not have those be undermined early on. Now I'm rock-solid in the things he needed me to *get*. So now he has no issue with me being on lists and boards. In fact it tends to reinforce the things he has instilled. It was important to the enslavement process that I come to hold as a core belief that his way is the best way for me, the only way for me. I have no issue with an owner restricting his property from having inputs that he has not screened, to make sure that the content is consistent with his goals.