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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/22/2006 11:55:56 AM   
Sab


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ORIGINAL: sabswife

laughter is good, most often i end up laughing at myself but hey He laughs too so its all good 


What she said.


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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/22/2006 12:04:08 PM   
yourMissTress


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I love to laugh.  My mousetrapp and I are always laughing.  The most beautiful sound to my ears is the laughter of my kiddo. 
 
The very first time that I had a sub laugh during pain play took me a little off guard.  I asked him why he was laughing...was he laughing at me?  He replied that when his pain levels reached 7-8 that ellicited laughter.  As I continued to play him his laughter became hilarious and I was laughing along with him.  At a few points he was laughing so hard that I had to tie him to the cross to keep him from jumping off of it.  My goal became to keep him laughing and make him laugh as hard as he could.  A few others that were playing relatively close to us stopped to watch... and now I don't play him until everyone else is done.
 
I have another male sub that also laughs as he approaches the higher end of his pain tolerance, and again, I love it, I try to get him there and keep him there, and I laugh the whole time.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/22/2006 12:41:56 PM   
msub4Domme


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Status: offline 		Although laughter can temporarily interrupt the intensity of a scene, i do not feel it is a detriment to overall enjoyment.  i recall a situation some years ago with a lovely Domme.  She had me strung tightly and widely to an upright frame.  She put a sizeable gag in me and i shortly began serious retching.  She pulled the gag out commenting "You bit off more than you could chew, didn't you!".  i started laughing and She did also.  Well, we proceeded to have more serious scene emjoyment after that.  The memory of that situation has never left.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 8:03:28 AM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		Laughter - it's awesome - makes everything better - except when Sir wants to be taken quite seriously (even then there are moments when i can't help it). i laugh when i get nervous - like in:  the crack of a single tail behind me - starts me giggling just because the fear is intense.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 12:08:27 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Laughter is fun and laughing while in pain is even better for me.  It is rare for the three of us to go a day without laughing together.  About an hour ago, a service man was over working on the internet.  Alandra was with him in the parlour.  I was in the kitchen with a plate of eggs in my hand.  My Lord walks up and grips my breasts hard (the man has very strong hands).  I couldn't cry out, couldn't drop the eggs and all I could do was start giggling.  He is laughing because I am in such pain and can't scream.  Needless to say the service man didn't have clue what was going on, but alandra heard the giggling and understood.

I laugh when he uses clothespins on me and I have laughed while he beat the hell out of me with a flogger.  It is just one response that I have to pain.  Of course I have also laughed at him.  His challenge then is to not break down in laughter himself.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 12:55:16 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		If a person does not have a wonderful sense of humour then they will sooooooooo not want to be around me. 

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 1:41:38 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		i for one.. get tired of this lifestyle being treated so much like a prison.  i love to laugh and enjoy life..and that is something that may come out at the oddest times (i have a pretty twisted sense of humor.)  i have talked to a lot of people.. who just won't let themselves laugh about anything at all.. i don't get it.. must be a sad life to walk around that way all the time.
 
my ex-Dom and i.. we were at a hotel for O/our first meeting..i was cuffed to a closet bar in the room..and He was flogging me... you could hear it echo all over the room..and out into the hall.  Even in my subspace.. i had to crack a grin at that one.
 


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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 4:43:52 PM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

Question for everybody the favorite name calling thread made me think of this. My ex-sub lady like being called bitch, slut whore etc. I would come up with these names to catch her off guard like I would call her a strumpet or a jezzabel and she would start cracking up laughing for a moment even while she was tied up getting a good ass spanking. How do Doms feel about this, would it make them mad if that happened to them like their sub was not taking them serious. I thought it was a humorous break and I always went for the humor. How does a sub feel about humor in the bed ?


Ha ha ha! Without laughter, we wouldn't be human at all!  

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 6:43:48 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Laughter is a form of release, just like any other emotion..I say yuck it up!!..Tempting

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 7:06:40 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		I'm also one of those that can have fits of laughter during a pain session. It has set my Joe to laughing with me. We often laugh at night in bed. Sometimes he will do something like smack a body part unexpectedly and that will set me off. We are both extremely ticklish and have had some fun with that. But, not to much. He is stronger then me and can get much better then I can get him.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 7:44:09 PM   
VvShadowspawnvV


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Status: offline 		Laughing makes me wet.  Especially hysterical, endorphin rush, total catharsis laughter accompanied by sobbing.  =)

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 7:57:05 PM   
outlier


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"Nothing is more crucial than a compatible sense of humor. This is because nothing is as integral to your values as what makes you laugh. I love wit, dry humor, irony and satire. I dislike the mean, the petty and/or picking on the weak. I will know I have a real connection when I find that we frequently laugh together over nothing at all. "

Being intimate with someone I cannot laugh with is inconceivable. Being able to make a woman laugh means I know something about how she thinks. A necessary prerequisite to mastery.


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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/23/2006 8:00:51 PM   
BreakingGlass


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Status: offline 		...you mean you're not supposed to laugh?

::checks user's manual::  Hmm.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/24/2006 12:38:06 AM   
ElectraGlide


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Status: offline 		Back to the Strumpet word. I was looking for a new word, I was new to BDSM it was very serious and tense up until that point. I did not understand the Dom and Sub relationship. I thought she was stone crazy requesting me to give her rough sex, because I was exploring and just trying to figure out where we going with this odd situation. When I called her a Strumpet and she started laughing it caught me way off guard. It was a joy to see and hear she was enjoying this. I did not try to be a standup comedian the whole time from then on, I just tried to loosen things up every now and then. I heard the word strumpet out of old books.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/24/2006 1:03:53 AM   
keme


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Status: offline 		*giggles* there is no safe word in the journey of beauty... women have suffered for years... corsets... high heels... and now waxing... *giggles*

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/24/2006 1:13:09 AM   
keme


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Status: offline 		*smiles* well I know for me.. I was attending a function and there was 2 areas in the room for a scene. Well while my friend worked on me with a heavy flogging scene... a group of women came in and started a very heavy sexual scene. Well when I have reached a point to where I am flying I just giggle like a group of school girls... so I started giggling and everytime I heard the lady next to me getting worked on I would giggle more.
My Dominant friend got me down and out of there is a hurry because he was afraid of wrecking their scene... unfortunately it wrecked mine... I almost crashed shortly after that hard... til I saw something so beyond funny and zoom back up I was and I flew for 3 weeks after that refusing to come down.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/24/2006 4:57:17 AM   
Dollbecky


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Status: offline 		I love to tease my Beloved (Vandervecken) almost as much as he loves being teased, as it ends in giggling fits and kissing and the phrase 'you're bad bad girl" being choked out by a giddy dom who can barley talk laugh and breath all at the same time....
The first phrase to be banned for extreme teasing was "Spanky the Wonder Boyfriend"
Ahh the simple joy of sassing a dom so much he calls red to get his breath back :D

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/24/2006 5:45:37 AM   
spankmepink11


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Status: offline 		Yes to laughter in the bedroom, and everywhere else...it does feed the soul


P.S . very enjoyable thread...

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/25/2006 6:44:16 PM   
spectreandnectre


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Status: offline 		sure some things are ticklish but i would know when the time is right or when it wasnt
 
Also one instance i had was driving home from the arport He picked me up i had been gone for awhile.  i was wearing my required skirt with no panties while He played while driving for all the trucks and anyone high enough to see. i couldnt help laughing at the one truckers face.

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RE: Humor in the bed.. Question for Doms and Subs.. - 5/25/2006 7:25:06 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		Master and i laugh every day.  Life is so serious for the most part that just enjoying yourself and finding something funny to just fall out about is great.  W/we laugh all the time, esp. when W/we are together.  It doesn't take much for me to get a huge case of the giggles...  anywhere.  People at my office have gotten used to me quietly chuckling to myself at time, just remembering something funny that happened earlier. 

Last night, Master came up behind me to grab me and pretend to "take me" like a savage.  However, He ended up brushing my tushy in a way that tickled like crazy.  He didn't mean for it to tickle and i tried hard to keep myself under control, but ended up snorting, and whispering, "i'm sorry, <insert wild giggles>, but my bummy is ticklish."  He looked at me as i tried to keep a straight face and ended up laughing, too.  It was very funny.  All in a day's living for U/us. 

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