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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 7:56:43 PM   
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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:00:18 PM   
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LP, the age thing may not be the person's fault. Take me for instance; I put an age similar to my own in when I joined, but then, on CM, it never changes! Whose fault is that? Am I to be expected to update it every year (or whenever I happen to age?) I think not!

You turn your tail right around and go tell Honey Master that LP says that you're being fresh.


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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:21:59 PM   
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I am so happy not to be dating anymore, that sucked.

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:33:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well for someone that is new to online things, I knew this. I mean this happens even in RL dating. Hell I dont know how many 18-20 year old girl i picked up at a bar thinking they were over 21. To the OP -1 for posting common sense shit.


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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:53:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		To all who think I am naieve, etc., fine.  Yes, I know people lie (in fact, unfortunately, I know some of the biggest liars you can imagine).  Some, who are less wordly than you who are commenting, just might ask a little more and not take things at  face value, if they see this, that's all. 
Thanks for all your comments.

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:57:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

LP, the age thing may not be the person's fault. Take me for instance; I put an age similar to my own in when I joined, but then, on CM, it never changes! Whose fault is that? Am I to be expected to update it every year (or whenever I happen to age?) I think not!

You turn your tail right around and go tell Honey Master that LP says that you're being fresh.



Sadly, he's sleeping. He has a real job. *lol*

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:57:12 PM   
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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 8:57:50 PM   
LadyPact


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Yep, I'm still on Collar Me.

A place that's advertised as an adult site.

Meaning everybody here is over the age of eighteen and probably worldly enough to know that some married folks out there are trying to get some on the side.

Whew! What a relief.  For a second, I thought I might have clicked onto Hello Kitty Island Adventure.



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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 9:10:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair

To all who think I am naieve, etc., fine.  Yes, I know people lie (in fact, unfortunately, I know some of the biggest liars you can imagine).  Some, who are less wordly than you who are commenting, just might ask a little more and not take things at  face value, if they see this, that's all. 
Thanks for all your comments.



if this is something that happens to you often, then (IMO) you should rethink your filtering process.

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 10:00:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Checked the OP profile age is listed as 64. I suppose you still believe in Santa Claus??

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 10:16:00 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		you mean people lie about their status here just like they do in real life????

I'm shocked! Shocked I tell ya!!!

Why didn't anyone tell me that before!!! Sigh. I'm always the last to know.



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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 10:43:24 PM   
tj444


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Status: offline 		Ok, so i lied, i am really married, it just seems a lot easier to say i am single and he is my ex since i havent gotten an email from him for several months, we dont live together and havent for 4 years, we live like 2,000 miles apart and in 2 different countries..

But if a guy tells me his goal is to get married (I just want to live together, never wanna get married again), I tell him to keep looking cuz no way i am going there again. Maybe not getting the paperwork/divorce done is just my way of having an excuse to say “no, i cant get married cuz i already am“.. lol I will eventually do that, just dont see the rush right now or need the distraction..

I believe everyone lies about something.. many times guys lie about the stupiest things tho, things that dont need to be lied about and that is the part that boggles my mind. Have you ever had a guy send a pic of a cock that wasnt his but he said it was?



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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 11:02:21 PM   
GreedyTop


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Have you ever had a guy send a pic of a cock that wasnt his but he said it was?


not thatI know of, but generally, if a guy sends me a dick pic and we've never met, or HAVE met but never had sex...chances are he wont have to worrry that I'll ever bother checking to see if it's his.. say buh bye!

on the other hand, if it is sent by smeone I HAVE been intimate with... well, I usually dont get involved with guys stupid enough to send me a pic of someone elses dick..



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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 11:38:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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Have you ever had a guy send a pic of a cock that wasnt his but he said it was?


not thatI know of, but generally, if a guy sends me a dick pic and we've never met, or HAVE met but never had sex...chances are he wont have to worrry that I'll ever bother checking to see if it's his.. say buh bye!

on the other hand, if it is sent by smeone I HAVE been intimate with... well, I usually dont get involved with guys stupid enough to send me a pic of someone elses dick..

lol Well, I did a search with tineye and it let me know that it wasnt his pic so I didnt actually need to do an examination in person! lol Then i also compared more closely to a previous one he sent and they looked similar but not the same, certain slight differences.. But of course since we havent met i dont know if any of the (clothed or not) pics he sent were actually of him.. I know a few werent... All of the pics i sent him were of me, however..

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/14/2011 11:50:54 PM   
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1. Yes, of course I still believe in Santa Clause but I do believe he's been getting a bit stingy lately. (and yes, I've been GOOD) (for the most part)

2. If you look up s guy's dick picture with something called "tiny eye", are you already sending him some type of message?

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/15/2011 12:45:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
2. If you look up s guy's dick picture with something called "tiny eye", are you already sending him some type of message?

well, I didnt have any suspicions about his pics. I had just heard about tineye at the time and I did it as an experiment, so I did it on a lark. I didnt actually expect to find out that any of the pics he sent me were of someone else. So that surprised me.. and disappointed me too. Not that i needed more disappointment in men...

And of course, the question that naturally follows is.. what else did he tell me that sounded plausible but wasnt true?

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/15/2011 12:56:57 AM   
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I am no longer with my Ex, it will be 6 years in November since things were finalized in court. However, while I believe we are divorced, she is quite certain we are only separated.

We haven't done anything about it because it isn't relevant. We have completely separate lives. If either of us ever decides to remarry we will look into it and if we are in fact still technically married we'll just fill out the forms and end it.

So I am most definitely single, however it possible, nonconformist that I am, that I am also married. That's right, nothing is normal in the Pigster's sty.


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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/15/2011 1:12:29 AM   
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The biggest liars i have met have been in real life, not online. 

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/15/2011 2:27:59 AM   
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I'm sorry you had this miserable experience.

I'm afraid it's so common, though, that a lot of women I know run checks to make sure of potential partners' marital status. Hell, I've even been told that certain women have checked on my own marital status, even though they and I have never been what I'd call close to striking up partnerships.

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RE: Watchout for the term "Single" - 9/15/2011 3:01:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just my opinion, but when I was separated and living separately from my ex husband and waiting for the papers to go through, with no intention of reconcillation, cooking for 1, buying movie tickets for one, buying food for 1 etc etc I considered myself SINGLE, just because the lawyers took a year and a half to finalize everything doesn't mean that I am attached to that person or would make a profile saying that I am Married, when in fact I would be solo and in a holding pattern. At that point I can do and act and live like a single person 'cause essentially he had no hold on me any longer.

That all being said, if I were to have talked with someone I was interested in I would've given them the long version of the situation

ETA i meant this to be directed to the OP and not who I actually responded to, sleep posting isn't the best idea :)


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