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zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 3:04:37 AM)
quote: Have you ever had a guy send a pic of a cock that wasnt his but he said it was? Not that I know of but I once met up with a guy who used inches when he should have used millimeters.

PeonForHer -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 3:12:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Not that I know of but I once met up with a guy who used inches when he should have used millimeters. Interesting - I met a woman once who used inches when she should have used yards. [;)]

IrishMist -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 6:47:43 AM)
quote: Just a quick heads up. When someone says they are "single," guess what? It does not necessarily mean that they are not married. Well DUH

tolovetolaugh -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 7:11:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair @GreedyTop -- The biggest liars i have met have been in real life, not online. So very very true.

GreedyTop -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 7:17:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair @GreedyTop -- The biggest liars i have met have been in real life, not online. I stand by what I said before: if this happens to you frequently, perhaps you should rethink your filtering process. Doesnt matter if it's online or offline.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 10:22:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair Just a quick heads up. When someone says they are "single," guess what? It does not necessarily mean that they are not married. Believe it or not, some people hide their married status by claiming to be "single" in their profile, in order to attract others. Has anyone else noticed that many of the stupid topics that get posted on this board are posted for the purpose of warning others? I guess it's nice that people want to be helpful, but just once, I wish someone would post a warning that actually had some insight that most of us didn't already know. Here are a few things to add to the list of things you should already know before posting on CM. -Some people lie about their age. -Some people lie about their weight. -Some people lie about their gender. -Some people lie about their location. -Some people lie about their level of experience. -Some people lie about their marital status. -Some people have multiple profiles and pretend to be different people. -Some people claim to be Doms/Dommes, but they're really just losers who can't get a date in real life. -Some people claim to be submissives, but they are really only willing to allow you to do what they want you to do, when they want you to do it, and how they want you to do it. And they expect you to follow their instructions to the letter. In other words, YOU'RE really gonna be the sub. -Those are NOT Peon's abs. He has actually used Photoshop to paste his jeans on a picture of DarkSteven's abs. Any questions?

windchymes -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 10:37:23 AM)
Pun unintended here, but there are varying degrees of "separation" in personal identification. This I found from the years of playing in the personal ad sites online. "Separated" can mean anything from "I'm thinking about leaving my wife, or she's thinking about leaving me, and I just want to see what's available out there after all these years of being off the market" to, as a few have said here, of living completely saparate lives, finalization by the courts are imminent, and the parties involved just want to move on. Only the latter really has potential for a healthy relationship, because they usually have worked through more of the baggage that naturally occurs and are more adjusted to true "single" life. I almost always refused (nicely) to get involved with someone who said they were "separated", because they seemed to dive head first into the relationships at the beginning, enthusiastically checking off the items on their list of all their wants and needs for this new partner they were going to have that was going to be the antithesis of the soon-to-be-ex. They'd squeal to find out I was a redhead....omg, a redhead! So excited to find someone who liked the same music and restaurants and omg, who liked SEX....yeeeee haw! Jackpot!!!! lol Then, they'd see your photo and you could just hear the lead whistle out of their pencil.....but.....you're just ordinary, I was picturing a supermodel. And they invariably, oops, just remembered they have obligations to their kids to take care of or they're going out of town on business and they'll call you........right.

DesFIP -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 11:24:08 AM)
You're 64 years old and only now discovering that some guys take off their wedding rings in order to get some nsa action? Where have you been all these years, in a nunnery? Beyond that, for some people, it is complicated. There are financial issues that prevent them for the moment from finalizing a divorce. Why do you care about what other people do?

SailingBum -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 12:37:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Two things: 1. Yes, of course I still believe in Santa Clause but I do believe he's been getting a bit stingy lately. (and yes, I've been GOOD) (for the most part) 2. If you look up s guy's dick picture with something called "tiny eye", are you already sending him some type of message? [:-] One thing your parents lied to you. Smirlke BadOne

Endivius -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 12:40:59 PM)
With questions like these, I wonder how long it would take yout to complete the Hanoi Tower.....[8\|]

gorgeoushair -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:16:16 PM)
You know what would be a great change of pace in these threads? If people did not feel compelled to respond in a mean-spirited way. If you don't have anything helpful to say or add, and can only think of something snide or nasty, maybe it's not a bad idea to pass on making a comment and go to another thread. Guess being judgmental and superior is one way of puffing up one's ego ("I'm right and smart, you're wrong and stupid"), and getting one's jollies. Just sayin'....

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:19:53 PM)
Did I ever tell you that you have gorgeous hair? [;)]

mnottertail -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:21:45 PM)
oh, for a single strand of that single girl's hair.........

LadyPact -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:27:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair You know what would be a great change of pace in these threads? If people did not feel compelled to respond in a mean-spirited way. If you don't have anything helpful to say or add, and can only think of something snide or nasty, maybe it's not a bad idea to pass on making a comment and go to another thread. Guess being judgmental and superior is one way of puffing up one's ego ("I'm right and smart, you're wrong and stupid"), and getting one's jollies. Just sayin'.... If that had happened, I don't think anybody would have responded to this thread. Had you been sitting with a group of your friends and said "some married men say they are single to meet women"...... Don't you think they would have told you that they already know that and so does everybody else? It's a bare step up from telling people that ice is cold and boiling water is hot.

LaTigresse -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:31:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair You know what would be a great change of pace in these threads? If people did not feel compelled to respond in a mean-spirited way. If you don't have anything helpful to say or add, and can only think of something snide or nasty, maybe it's not a bad idea to pass on making a comment and go to another thread. Guess being judgmental and superior is one way of puffing up one's ego ("I'm right and smart, you're wrong and stupid"), and getting one's jollies. Just sayin'.... Is that what this post is doing for you?

xxblushesxx -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:32:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Two things: 1. Yes, of course I still believe in Santa Clause but I do believe he's been getting a bit stingy lately. (and yes, I've been GOOD) (for the most part) 2. If you look up s guy's dick picture with something called "tiny eye", are you already sending him some type of message? [:-] One thing your parents lied to you. Smirlke BadOne Well, he cums every year!! [;)] (and he always leaves me something nice on the dresser!) Oh. Wait. Uhm...carry on with the men lie and cheat stuff...

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:33:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair If that had happened, I don't think anybody would have responded to this thread. Had you been sitting with a group of your friends and said "some married men say they are single to meet women"...... Don't you think they would have told you that they already know that and so does everybody else? It's a bare step up from telling people that ice is cold and boiling water is hot. Actually, no, I don't believe my friends would have responded in the same way that the people here have to this OP. In fact, I don't think if the OP had made the same comment to a group of strangers, but in person, that they would have responded the same way people here have. I don't think my friends would speak for "everybody else", either. But, then again, we aren't really friends here, are we? What most of us are is anonymous strangers, some of whom feel the need to vent their aggression on others (i.e. the P & R section). Maybe that is what the OP needs to learn. OP, some of us have been there. I was married for many years, so I was new to dating too. If it really offends you (it does me) and you don't want to waste time with people who are married (regardless of whether they consider themselves married or not), lots of courts have records available on line, and local newspapers often print who has filed for divorce or separation also. You can find this stuff out in advance, without too much effort.

PeonForHer -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:35:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair You know what would be a great change of pace in these threads? If people did not feel compelled to respond in a mean-spirited way. If you don't have anything helpful to say or add, and can only think of something snide or nasty, maybe it's not a bad idea to pass on making a comment and go to another thread. Guess being judgmental and superior is one way of puffing up one's ego ("I'm right and smart, you're wrong and stupid"), and getting one's jollies. Just sayin'.... I agree. It'd be nice to see less of that. Including from myself.

Lockit -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:39:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gorgeoushair You know what would be a great change of pace in these threads? If people did not feel compelled to respond in a mean-spirited way. If you don't have anything helpful to say or add, and can only think of something snide or nasty, maybe it's not a bad idea to pass on making a comment and go to another thread. Guess being judgmental and superior is one way of puffing up one's ego ("I'm right and smart, you're wrong and stupid"), and getting one's jollies. Just sayin'.... While some may be sarcastic and such, I have to wonder why some people think that simple common sense is rocket science. Do you think we have none? What you keep pointing out or asking about in your threads pretty much amounts to common sense or experience and when your exhibit of experience amounts to less than most teenagers have had, it gets rather tedious and then you get the sarcasm and such. If you want good conversation or kudos for information you provide, you need to provide something of worth. You are not posting to ignorant people that haven't a clue. Getting upset because they respond to what they see as basically a lack of common sense or life experience, especially with an adult that has been an adult for decades, is only showing that you haven't learned a great deal in those decades and expect everyone to be nice to you, coddle you and treat you like you are special, when they actually wish you would simply grow up or stop trying to teach the elementaries of adulthood, anywhere. Stop trying to warn and teach until you have listened and learned enough to warn and teach. You may think I am just being unkind... but I see it as a kindness to tell the truth, because if you can't see what is happening here... you need to be told. Its a big bad world out there and learning it isn't always fun... but that is life and you can't close your eyes to it and make well in adulthood.

PeonForHer -> RE: Watchout for the term "Single" (9/15/2011 2:45:15 PM)
Hey Lockit, That wasn't how I read the OP's post. I read it not so much as advice but as a dry way of saying 'I've had this shitty experience with a man claiming to be single when he wasn't'. I think I might even write it the same style, in the OP's position. If I were to be advising anyone in such a post, it'd be myself.

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