Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men?

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DarkSteven -> Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 6:38:11 AM)
A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know?

IrishMist -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 6:40:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? Hmm, can't say. You forgot something though [:)] There are women out there who go through the same 'fantasy' only to find that fantasy does not come close to reality. What happens to them? [8D]

DarkSteven -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 6:41:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist You forgot something though [:)] There are women out there who go through the same 'fantasy' only to find that fantasy does not come close to reality. What happens to them? [8D] Good point.

winspiritsbaby -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 6:50:14 AM)
~FR~ Maybe they are all, men and women alike, holed up in some lab somewhere trying to develop a lifelike robot to fit their needs? Or maybe they seek out the help of Mr O'Rourke and Tattoo? Seriously, I think maybe wind up marrying somone in the hopes of being able to eventually change them into what they want. That is how I look at my marriage, my ex married me in the hopes of turning me into the little whore of his dreams...guess he figured out that wouldn't work. [8\|]

tolovetolaugh -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:14:21 AM)
They scare off women and stay single til they find that one woman who has the same delusions. Then it's a highly medicated adventure!

tj444 -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:19:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? I am sure some stay single, some lie to women to get laid while they still play the field searching for their fantasy girl, some get a vanilla wife, some just pay for it when they want it.. Probably mostly that one, they find a mistress or a girl on their way home from work or during lunch and pay her to do the things their wives/girlfriends wont do.. and they live two lives... Me.. guess i will just be staying single, i dont see the point for settling for a man and a life that isnt what i really want.. ok, there,.. now you know the answer to that perplexing question.. [:D]

poise -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:20:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? Maybe they actually meet that horny bitch of their dreams and wank happily ever after. It can happen. [;)]

crazyml -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:21:58 AM)
A lot of them go join another site I'll bet. Gotta keep the dream alive!

Marc2b -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:24:57 AM)
quote: A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? They start profiles on Collarme and constantly annoy people with questions about what women should or should not be allowed to do. ETA: Okay, seriously now... you didn't mention another possibility which is that they live and learn. Experience teaches us wisdom. I discovered the Gor books when I was thirteen (shortly after discovering new and interesting things I could do with my pecker [:)]). It was all too easy to for a typically horny, impressionable teenager to believe that he had discovered the hidden truth that society was supressing: ALL WOMEN WANT TO BE SEX SLAVES! I learned to the contrary the hard way (if you look closely at me, you can still see the slap mark on my cheek)... but I did learn. I suspect I am not alone.

lizi -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 7:35:17 AM)
I think a lot of them do get married or stay in a steady relationship because it is a basic need to be partnered and the guys do derive satisfaction from that. Then I think they have this thread of disappointment underneath when it's all not as they pictured. Then they go out to cheat and find that it's not like that out there either. Then they blame the site and maybe try other places fruitlessly. I'm not sure it ever occurs to some guys that maybe their fantasy isn't real...after all, don't they see it play out all the time in porn? Guys aren't the most introspective creatures at times, they tend to take things at face value- it's just who they are. If they see the same thing over and over I think somewhere it creates a reality to them even if it doesn't really make any sense. For a demonstration of that I'll just point to the many many times men have come here to complain that they can't find a partner who matches what they are looking for. Or can't find a partner at all and that astounds them. Because they do honestly believe the fantasy that there is a land of horny women out there waiting for them to stumble upon it with sex on tap.

fragilepieces -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 8:13:28 AM)
quote: I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Some might become Ted Bundy or the BTK Guy---others might 'pretend' to live real time (cause that is what everyone aspires to do) yet wank off online with a submissive who is doing the same thing and they both have sock puppet accounts, prostitutes....I think there are plenty of options

littlewonder -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 8:17:06 AM)
They stay single because they have no idea how to behave in social settings and they sit in their bedrooms jacking off to porn all night. Or you get the other type who stay single for the same reason, doing the same thing but also end up in jail because they treat women abusively. OR they marry women with the same fantasy and live happily ever after...and that does happen. I would say women with such fantasies usually end up married pretty quickly because they're every man's fantasy I think. Now I doubt they stay married for very long though after they realize there's more to their marriage than fucking all day lol.

BurntKitty -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 8:23:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven <snip> There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. Wait. What? That green door was a fantasy???? Who knew? [:D]

SillyMan -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 8:30:04 AM)
they get snipey in forums. sm

LaTigresse -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 9:12:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi I think a lot of them do get married or stay in a steady relationship because it is a basic need to be partnered and the guys do derive satisfaction from that. Then I think they have this thread of disappointment underneath when it's all not as they pictured. Then they go out to cheat and find that it's not like that out there either. Then they blame the site and maybe try other places fruitlessly. I'm not sure it ever occurs to some guys that maybe their fantasy isn't real...after all, don't they see it play out all the time in porn? Guys aren't the most introspective creatures at times, they tend to take things at face value- it's just who they are. If they see the same thing over and over I think somewhere it creates a reality to them even if it doesn't really make any sense. For a demonstration of that I'll just point to the many many times men have come here to complain that they can't find a partner who matches what they are looking for. Or can't find a partner at all and that astounds them. Because they do honestly believe the fantasy that there is a land of horny women out there waiting for them to stumble upon it with sex on tap. I think this is probably the most realistic.

mnottertail -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 9:13:53 AM)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCYXZJTylOY&feature=related

Syrox -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 10:07:16 AM)
I've no idea, but I feel like i am approaching wherever it is rapidly :(

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 10:17:22 AM)
They grow up, or they remain in their mothers basements.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 10:28:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? They post on CollarMe under the name "Awareness". [:D]

Kana -> RE: Anyone know what happens to the disillusioned men? (9/15/2011 10:38:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven A friend and I were chatting about the many men who will believe the porn fantasies over their own RL experiences. There's this fantasy door through which we pass and suddenly all the women are horny bitches who will do anything for a man. Suspension of reality. I wonder what happens to the men who get disillusioned. Do they get a vanilla wife and wank off in secret? Do they stay single? Anyone know? They, like all disillusioned idealists and dreamers, become cynics. From there, they approach life with a self-imposed bitterness, full of biting, scathing comments until they drown in the vileness of their own bile.

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