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barelynangel -> RE: Would you be less inclined to submit to a man who'd been raped? (9/17/2011 4:44:19 PM)
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chuckles, Heather, you don't get it, i and others are VERY honest with themselves, or is that only reserved for people who have decided they are gay and lesbian and so anyone who can actually be turned off by that idea must not be being honest with themselves?
The fact is simple Heather, some women simply don't want bi-sexual men. It simply just is. It's not something that needs a negative analysis or a positive one. YOu are the one making it this big negative thing and somehow making people who aren't homophobic homophobic, you are screaming bigotry because people have certain concepts that turn them on and off. You have gone as far to tell people on the internet you don't know that their turn off is because of fear and bigotry (though i think you just like to use this word and don't really know its meaning).
Lets see why do i deny it well 1) i have no fear or aversion to gay men or bisexual men, i have a sexual turn off by them that is hard wired in me that i lose sexual interest in them- but can easily remain friends with them, (But i guess Heather is the only one who knows what is hard-wired in her); 2) If you are calling my loss of sexual feeling and then not wasting my time not having sex with them discrimination lol then you need to really concern yourself with bigger things.
Lets take a closer look at the word bigot Heather, from Merriam-Webster,
a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially : one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance.
Umm well are you seriously sitting here telling people that because they know themselves and tell you that they aren't sexually attracted to men who are bi or gay they are intolerantly devoted to their opinions and prejudices? Hell we aren't even speaking of attraction but sexual attraction. To make you even more excited to call me and others phobic and bigots Heather, i find many gay men attractive, but that doesn't mean i get sexually aroused by them.
As i said, i think you are trying too hard to make this a negative thing. You yourself said peope can't help their sexual attractions, and yet you are sitting here telling people they can help losing that loving feeling. Make up our minds, Heather, you can't have it both ways.
Maybe instead of being so insistant on naming it Heather, you just accept that some people get turned on by certain things and turned off by others. And it will make you happier i am sure to realize that while a few gay/bi men have been turned away from me there are a hell of a lot more heterosexual men who get turned away do to things they can't help either -- being an idiot, being an asshole, being born a jerk, being born short, being out of shape. And just like gay and bi men, i have no phobia or bigotry in these concepts that turn me off sexually also.
angel
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