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Shahzadeh -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 12:55:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom Okay, here is where I piss everyone off even worse than normal. The scene is over representative of overweight people because when thin people come in and look around for someone thin and don't see them, they leave. The scene is self selecting for large people. Same goes for people who are more monogamous, they come into the scene, see that it is mostly centered around people who play with more than one partner and they TEND (meaning if this doesn't apply to you and unless you are the only person in the world, you don't need to say it doesn't apply to you) to leave the scene. One day I dream of creating the S&M group for people who hate S&M groups. Unfortunately, definitely have to agree with this.

feastie -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 5:22:42 AM)
So, raise your hand if you believed the romance version of BDSM? All dominants are tall, dark and handsome and all submissives are tiny, lithe and gorgeous? Just remember, that when you raise your hand, your home will be immediately surrounded and penetrated. All your romance novels with Fabio on the cover will be removed promptly and you will be required to attend Weight Watcher's meetings daily, just to learn tolerance and appreciation.

disretion7 -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 11:54:44 AM)
Dear Rose 442, In my case, I suppose it is a combination of factors. Though I recognize that getting old is not a sufficient excuse for gaining weight, I did gain more as I aged. Until I do something more constructive about my weight than I've managed to do so far, I found a way fit it into a rolplay scenario to good effect, at least under the delighted pro-dommes I've submitted to so far. Respectfully, disretion7 (Phil)

UtopianRanger -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 3:35:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feastie So, raise your hand if you believed the romance version of BDSM? All dominants are tall, dark and handsome and all submissives are tiny, lithe and gorgeous? Just remember, that when you raise your hand, your home will be immediately surrounded and penetrated. All your romance novels with Fabio on the cover will be removed promptly and you will be required to attend Weight Watcher's meetings daily, just to learn tolerance and appreciation. As far as I'm concerned, most of the myths that I see disseminated regards your post, are laughable. But let me tell you what I do know for an absolute fact : Gather us all up, with no labels attached, and put us under one roof face to face and we'll see who's who ; } - R

feastie -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 4:16:00 PM)
That was kinda the point, there UR

MistressSassy66 -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 4:38:03 PM)
There is a difference in being a few pounds over and being Obese. Being obese is a potentially deadly thing.Anyone who is obese should think about their health and lose some weight...Will I not like you if you obese,I dont judge books by their covers.The inside is what is most important, at the same time being healthy is something I encourage.

lunamor -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 4:54:43 PM)
I've read all 11 pages (to date) of this thread and while a good deal of it has been insightful, amusing, and even profound, still...around page 9 my thoughts turned from beaten dead horses to strapping 8%-body-fat pony boys! Thanks for the inspiration[:)] Lunamor

enigmabrat -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 6:24:27 PM)
Lemme first start by asking... Rose what is wrong with you!!!!!! Honestly sweety you need help you should check into getting some counsaling im saying that as a friend not to be mean. Your "Master" as you call him is not only no Master but frankly if he hates people simply for beeing over waight then he isnt a very good person eather!! There is something wrong with him and he needs some help as well. He isnt a Master he is simply a person who wants to be nasty and sees this life style as a way to pray on insecure people wich there are a lot of in this life. I am over waight and itnst because Im LAZY im far from it and he has no right to judge!!! I happen to have an eating disorder not that i need to justafie it. Frankly I think people are not worth even talking to if they are judgmental if you arent exepted the way you are then they arent worth anything. Goeing into a relationship with somone that is going into it wanting to change you is a very bad move!!!

enigmabrat -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 10:46:57 PM)
Ok I hadnt read all these posts when I first poseted and the more I read the more angry hurt and upset i got. First Rose HOW DARE YOU. How dare you question people based on waight trust me if I think any different from anyone els it sint because Im big its because Im smarter and kinder. What do I think because im over waight!!! ok yes im beeing a bit emotional but im so steamed!!! As for your "Master" and I use that term loosly he has nerve judging over waight people aspecialy when he isnt exctly thin himself man I have never ever ever said I hated anyone in my life that word is evil and should be reserved for people like hitler gawd maybe he should take a good hard look in the mirror!!! I cant stand people that are mean just for the sake of it, maybe that is because i would never treat people badly I KNOW Im a good person I am nice and sweet and anyone that got to know me knows I would give my last penny to someone that needed it weather I knew them or not. anyone that will say Im lazy because I am over waight needs to take their heads out of their anus. Im tired of the idiots that think the 10% of the people that acutaly arent obese in this coutry are what everyone should strive to be like!! When are people going to relise that our bodys are a mear physical manifestation of an entatie that cant be seen but is not defind by the shell that it lives in!! its a temparery host for an intangable nomad a drifter that stays in one home only as long as that home is livable. Just like a person that moves out of a house that no longer souts them our souls move out of out bodies when they are no longer wanted only long enough to find another temperary dweling. Exersize eat well and die anyway!! when you die it wont matter if you had large breasts a huge dick ate chocolate every day or only had salads the 10 hours a week in the gym no longer matter the time lost obsessing in the mirror are just gone with nothing to show for it, I want to slide into the grave in a well used body be it fat messy as long as it was happy a smile plastered on my face a drink in one hand a chocolate bar in the other saying Man what a ride!!! yes I am emotional and maybe I am sensative about my waight but only when others have something to say about it I love me and if I have no problem with my waight no one els has any right too

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (5/31/2006 11:00:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger Gather us all up, with no labels attached, and put us under one roof face to face and we'll see who's who ; } - R I'm down with that! [;)] M

DelRey -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 6:29:52 AM)
another one, I'm going to need more pop corn, Hey ! pass the gummie bears LOL

Level -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 6:35:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DelRey another one, I'm going to need more pop corn, Hey ! pass the gummie bears LOL A dead one, until now.

painpup -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 6:55:39 AM)
over weight /under weight acording to stats both are big problems then theirs smoking an what You eat the unknown time line be happy be Yourselfs an the rest will take care of it self there's some one out there for everyone thin or fat personally i like a full person ~~an i 'm at my weight 175 at 5/8 unknown time line by the way is the amount of time one has from birth till death so enjoy the time y/You got~~

Skier -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 9:15:56 AM)
i found the these posts more informative than most: Crappy Dom #23, amayos #35, Lost skittles #48, Chaingang #68, genvieve #196. babyblues, agirl, and juliaoceania...combined insight with compassion...a rare combo I also found some, not all, of rose442's comments interesting. Bashing addicts * (in this case food addicts *) is cruel, ineffective and morally reprehensible, yet people shouldn't enable unhealthy, addictive behaviors either. It's tricky. Each time the issue of weight surfaces, there's a ton (no pun intended) of responses. I'm not sure what to make of it. Skier Personal note: my BMI is solidly in the overweight category and close to the obese designation. The pictures in my profile are accurate in their presentation of me. ** Food is a big temptation for me.

behindmirrors -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 10:31:34 AM)
I can't believe I just wasted as much time as I did reading this thread. I was curious, and so I checked it out. Reading all the ensuing drama has been quite, well...curiosity-killing. But, in the end, I would like to offer my two cents on body image and weight. People who are comfortable with themselves are always beautiful. To me, I don't care what you weigh if you are happy with yourself and are passionate about your life. That means a lot more to me than a number on the scale these days- and having wasted the vast majority of my life on an eating disorder, I'm proud of that. People who exude charisma and confidence are a lot more attractive than someone who looks as though they hate themselves and are painfully unhappy. It's not much fun hanging out with someone who is always down on themselves. It's way more interesting to be with someone who is interesting and not bogged down by something as trivial as appearance. I'm not really in a position to talk about being overweight and in this community, and I might get flamed for it, but oh well. It's hard for me to maintain 100 pounds. I used to weigh 85- and that was much less attractive than having beautiful curves and confidence, trust me. I was not attractive then because I did not believe I was, and I projected that- plus, how fun is it to make love to a bag of bones? I had no energy or enthusiasm to have sex anyway, and that's never much fun in bed, haha. I'm about 5'1", so I'm just small, but I sometimes wish now that I had not given up as much as I had to be thin- I wish I had learned to be comfortable with myself earlier in life. In short, be who you are, and know you are beautiful/handsome/amazing for it. Dare to take pride in who you are. Love life for what it is, and love you for who you are. Don't waste your time on the trivial. Live instead, and do it with passion. behindmirrors.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 1:59:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: DelRey another one, I'm going to need more pop corn, Hey ! pass the gummie bears A dead one, until now. Exactly Level. M

Homestead -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 2:20:23 PM)
I'm gradually losing weight down to my optimal. I'm about 20 pounds over now. I'm losing it for health reasons, and the fact that it effects my self esteem, much like you. I am NOT doing it to please any one else. I will say this much, however. If I have done the work and effort required to acheive and maintain this.....my match will have to be that-my match. And obesity is not the issue-beyond the purely glandlur stuff- Refusing to take the proper care of oneself is the issue. If she doesn't care, why should I? Isn't saying that you are hppy to be obsese when you can DO something about it...A lot like saying you are happy to live in poverty, when some simple work could remedy that situation? Why should I invite a bad attitude into MY situation?

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 2:27:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DelRey another one, Well thank you very much for ressurrecting it. <~ wishes she knew how to type in a sarcastic tone. I wonder when people will realize that it's bad manners to resurrect old, dead-horse-beaten threads. Maybe if they actually had something intelligent to say they wouldn't be forced to re-vive such drivel.

popeye1250 -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 3:11:04 PM)
Homestead, I'm right with you there. My "optimal" weight the trainer at my gym told me is "209. I'm 6'0" tall. I'm now 225 and losing. I weighed myself wed at the gym and it was 226.2, yesterday it was 225.6 so the 40 minutes on the treadmill and weight training is working! Also I went from drinking regular Coca Cola to Diet Coca Cola and from reg sugar in my coffee to sweet and low so that will save a lot of calories over three months or so seeing that I drink 5 cups of coffee in the morning and 3-5 coca colas during the day. I did the math, whew!!!! I'm not "fat" on any part of my body except for the middle aged gut that I have. My legs and ass are VERY strong from walking, biking and the treadmill. What is it these days that causes so many people to be overweight? I mean moreso than say 40 years ago. Does anyone know? Have there been any difinitive studies done on it?

Homestead -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (8/12/2006 3:15:24 PM)
The food industry pushes empty carbs. I'm going to finish losing wieght with a diet of unbreaded fish for meat. And simple green vegetables. No dairy or red meat whatsoever. And no starch. No bread, no potatoes. No processed foods.

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