MissToYouRedux -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/26/2011 4:19:25 PM)
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I'm big on objectification and consider my submissive, more often than not, my toy or pet (among other things.) So if I say, "Good boy!" it's a result of my inner two year old's delight with her adorable puppy or pony and in that pet owner tone, and really has nothing to do with intent to belittle an adult male. And yes, I've been told that doesn't make it any less humiliating [:D] , but it's still not the intent. On the other hand, when my sub's serving as my cabana boy, he's my "cute thing", [8D] and I never call him "boy".
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