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VideoAdminDelta -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 2:48:33 PM)
Hello Everyone, The thread has been cleaned up a bit. If you have made a post to this thread that is no longer listed, it is because it was off topic, replying to a post that was off topic, or for quoting a post that it was necessary to pull. Please enjoy the topic of the thread which is deal breakers. Thank you and have a wonderful day. Delta

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 2:50:42 PM)
Thank you VideoAdminDelta. [:D]

Hillwilliam -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 5:24:17 PM)
Looks like Delta drew the short straw this week.

tj444 -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 6:31:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam Looks like Delta drew the short straw this week. Off topic, Hilly! [:D] I dont know what got cleaned up so I missed a bit, I guess... But,.. ya know, its interesting.. most of the posters have been female,.. I would really, really, like the guys contribute with their deal breakers (without derailing the tread, of course)... Guys gotta have a few deal breakers too.. I would guess there are a few that are specific to their sex...

Hillwilliam -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 6:33:06 PM)
Heavy smoker. I can't breathe properly near heavy smokers. Plus kissing one tastes like crap.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 6:52:31 PM)
My Fetl Internet Lust Object quit smoking...I told him he must taste better already. I swear you could hear him blush! No better giggle than messin with a male dominant!

Hillwilliam -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 7:00:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus No better giggle than messin with a male dominant! Esp one that would love to see you kneel. [sm=angel.gif]

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 9:28:41 PM)
I would love to hear some male input also. As for the clean-up, it was a certain obnoxious poster who will remain unnamed. I'd love to hear some input from the guys..... ~Hisprettybaby~

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 9:56:15 PM)
I have the feeling that the liss will be similar!

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 10:00:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I have the feeling that the liss will be similar! I'm thinking that too. Somehow the scheiss that we all want to avoid is strangely the same..... lol ~Hisprettybaby~

Endivius -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (9/30/2011 11:38:24 PM)
No nasty Nancys. No dumb dumbs. Dishonesty of any kind is not tolerated. Betrayal of any kind is not tolerated. No drugs of any kind unless prescribed. I'll tolerate smoking, but not inside the house or cars. No pets. No kids. I'll father my own when the time comes...(knocks on wood) Scat or water sports. No religeous zealots. I'll accept any religeon they practice, I will not however, participate or convert. No Jane Fonda fans.

VideoAdminDelta -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 3:52:31 AM)
[sm=mop.gif][sm=mop.gif][sm=mop.gif] Fifteen posts were pulled from this thread earlier. There are now five more that had to be taken out. I would appreciate it if I didn't have to clean the thread a third time.

DarkSteven -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 6:27:04 AM)
Poor writing skills. Intolerance of religion or race, especially mine. Being concerned strongly about politics to the point of being intolerant of other viewpoints. Having some of my must-haves on her list of limits. Having some of my limits on her list of must-haves. Lesbian or Domme. Or a switch where I figure I can't alone give her what she needs. Bad attitude, complaining, etc. Major drama on her profile. If she's into motorcycles, NASCAR, etc. Not my interests, and won't be. Smoking, drinking, drug use. No sense of humor.

kalikshama -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 7:04:29 AM)
quote: I got up and left and never spoke to him again. Bravo!

tj444 -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 8:29:05 AM)
hmmmm,.. so all ya males get all the sex you want, huh? I would have thought that not getting it often enough or type you want (oral, anal, etc) regarding SEX would be mentioned. Makes it seem that in the D/s world everyone is gettin "it" as often as they want, cuz sex not often enough, etc a major complaint/deal breaker for most vanilla guys that i have ever talked to...

Hillwilliam -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 8:34:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 hmmmm,.. so all ya males get all the sex you want, huh? I would have thought that not getting it often enough or type you want (oral, anal, etc) regarding SEX would be mentioned. Makes it seem that in the D/s world everyone is gettin "it" as often as they want, cuz sex not often enough, etc a major complaint/deal breaker for most vanilla guys that i have ever talked to... Deal Breakers, to me, are things that I see about a person that eliminate them from contention even before sex is mentioned. I mean, if I'm not going to even meet with someone, sex is pretty much out.

DarkSteven -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 8:35:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 hmmmm,.. so all ya males get all the sex you want, huh? I would have thought that not getting it often enough or type you want (oral, anal, etc) regarding SEX would be mentioned. Makes it seem that in the D/s world everyone is gettin "it" as often as they want, cuz sex not often enough, etc a major complaint/deal breaker for most vanilla guys that i have ever talked to... I have found that if everything else meshes, she'll give me the sex I want. Or I'll modify my wishes. When a vanilla guy says that sex didn't occur often enough, my bet is that his woman was unhappy in the relationship and the bedroom suffered.

tj444 -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 9:14:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 hmmmm,.. so all ya males get all the sex you want, huh? I would have thought that not getting it often enough or type you want (oral, anal, etc) regarding SEX would be mentioned. Makes it seem that in the D/s world everyone is gettin "it" as often as they want, cuz sex not often enough, etc a major complaint/deal breaker for most vanilla guys that i have ever talked to... Deal Breakers, to me, are things that I see about a person that eliminate them from contention even before sex is mentioned. I mean, if I'm not going to even meet with someone, sex is pretty much out. well,.. to me there are different levels of deal breakers.. I have a first level (my profile states those), if not then you tend to find out about those just from reading a guys profile (assuming he has anything there lol) or from the first few emails, perhaps even before you exchange pics.. I dunno,.. sex and the right kind is important to me so i do talk about it, perhaps sooner than most (that doesnt mean i hop in the bed any time soon). If a guy has a low sex drive or isnt into what i am or too big/small, then its not gonna happen. That is also sort of a test of his honesty,.. if i ask him what he is into and he seems to tailor his reply to what he thinks i want to hear,.. well,..

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 9:17:00 AM)
I feel like I missed something...someone was discussing the bouncy-bouncy? I used to talk to lots of vanilla guys who said their wives hadn't touched them in years. Saddest...the ones who said that marks weren't a problem because they were never naked together. :( A woman's sex drive is very hormonally driven. When a middle aged dude tells me she's not interested anymore, my first question is, How old is she? My sex drive literally switched off! I can reactivate it, and I am not hating sex, but it doesn'toccur to me. I think many women are the same.

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Deal Breakers Anyone? (10/1/2011 9:18:15 AM)
This is so true, Steven. If things are "right" in the relationship, the sex is righteous too. If the relationship is bad, sex is not going to fix it. quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 hmmmm,.. so all ya males get all the sex you want, huh? I would have thought that not getting it often enough or type you want (oral, anal, etc) regarding SEX would be mentioned. Makes it seem that in the D/s world everyone is gettin "it" as often as they want, cuz sex not often enough, etc a major complaint/deal breaker for most vanilla guys that i have ever talked to... I have found that if everything else meshes, she'll give me the sex I want. Or I'll modify my wishes. When a vanilla guy says that sex didn't occur often enough, my bet is that his woman was unhappy in the relationship and the bedroom suffered.

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