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I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 6:18:31 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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Status: offline 		How the fuck come....fewer women are interested in cuckolding than me?

Well, not exactly me....as I can discern....there are exactly 312 women in the United States (running the numbers....I'd guess there are around 8,726 women worldwide) that are interested in cuckolding, so that would (appear) to put me at an advantage....with one small....slight exception:

There are (exactly) 27 kabillion men interested in the exact same thing....ergo....disavantage.

I get the whole ya'll are interested in different things (why....is beyond me but...the whole concept of fucking other guys in numbers unimaginable...seems like a perfectly flawless kind of concept....but hey, it's your gig....we just live here).

Is it because you all really want "one" guy?

(I'm just curious).

JJ

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 6:28:48 PM   
shysub4152


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Yes, for most women the emotional connection to their partner is a great part of what makes a sexual experience amazing. Me personally.....I don't share. My partner is my chosen and I am theirs.

In addition, the risk of disease goes up with every person you bring into the scenario. For me, a major bad deal.

But that's just me...to each their own

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 6:29:58 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I don't simply see it as fucking other men. I see it as dynamics within a relationship that I don't like. I am not big on humiliation and every man I have known on a closer level that wanted to be be a cuck, was into humiliation.

I do not wish to use my body, decide what I do based on someone other than myself, thus I couldn't even play in this direction mildly.

Watch me with another man or take part... maybe... the rest, just not something I think is okay for me.


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 6:55:37 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		OP, let's start with one basic premise.  First off, there are way more sub/kinky males than their are Dominant/top type women.  That ratio widens whenever we're talking about kinks that are, shall we say, a little farther off than the norm.  This means that the numbers are against you from the start and more unusual kinks make that even more so.

Let's keep something in mind.  As a cuck, you really don't get to decide how many other partners that the woman takes on.  In fact, you might never know the real number because not all cucks are permitted to be voyeurs.  I might be seeing the same man over and over and just changing names for the fun of it.  Not really up to you, anyway now, is it?  The whole premise behind this thing is that it's up to the woman how many men she'll take to her bed.  Your job is to abide by what she tells you in her sexual affairs, isn't that right?

Someday, we will come to an agreement on this matter, won't we?


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 7:10:27 PM   
tj444


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My relationship with my first boyfriend was cuckish, since i didnt know anything about bdsm or that particular dynamic, it never got the chance to develop further. My relationship with my ex was vanilla and since being free, i have considered that kind of relationship but doubt i would find the right guy. I want a relationship that lasts and something less extreme has a much better probability of success, imo... Also, i dont think as many men are interested in being a cuck as you think..

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 7:10:33 PM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Personally, it's because I don't want a guy who is interested in other guys.
The number of guys who suddenly become disinterested in cuckoldry when they realise *I* would call the [ahem] shots and they don't get to have their creampies and eat them, too? Kajillions.


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 7:13:17 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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Status: offline 		LookieNoNookie,

First, I have to say "Hi there!" I just perved your profile and realized you're only like 60some miles from me. lol I didn't realize there were any other Washingtonians that frequented the Boards.

Secondly, I'm not really sure why there are so many sub guys into cuckolding and so few Dominant women into it. But like LadyP says, if the cuckold isn't allowed to watch, for all he knows the woman is seeing the same guy night after night, so he would have no way of knowing whether she was seeing one or more than one. It's not something that I'm way into, but I might consider it once in awhile just to be sadistic....make the guy watch me w/ someone else while he knows he won't get any at all. hehehe But then again, maybe not.....

~Hisprettybaby~

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/4/2011 9:54:50 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		I really hope this was someones idea of a joke, but if it wasnt....

First thing first...there are, by far, not a kabillion men that are going to agree with you on this topic. For the most part there are a great number of men that say they are into it. Note that I said they say they are into it. Thinking about it and living with it are two different things. And if you really want to know if I'm right about it or not take a happy little journey over to the poly forums and get them to tell you how hard it is to find multis that all want to stand on even ground. Once you figure out what they are talking about imagine finding multis that have no problem with being on very uneven ground from the word go. You end up with jealous fits. Men behaving like small boys fighting over toys. Someones feelings are always hurt and ..yes make that a big AND...some women is supposed to have to deal with it all at the same time and get off too. Trust me it rarely, if ever, works. I know. Been there, done that, burned the pics and don't want a free pass to the park ever again.

And this comment " I get the whole ya'll are interested in different things (why....is beyond me but...the whole concept of fucking other guys in numbers unimaginable...seems like a perfectly flawless kind of concept....but hey, it's your gig....we just live here)" should be posted all over the net as an example of why men don't understand women and why women try to ignore most of the stupid things men say.


*oh* And so I don't have to add it later. I want more than one man. I want one to do my dishes. One to walk my dog. One to do my laundry, and tune up the car. One that drops money in my lap when I tell him to, and always has time to listen to every little thing I have to say.But if they all want sex I can tell you right now that they better go fuck themselves(or each other)


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 4:44:59 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

There are (exactly) 27 kabillion men interested in the exact same thing....ergo....disavantage.


I'm not very familiar with CM's search feature, but when I put in Male + United States + keyword "cuckold" I only got one page of results at at least one of the men was seeking to be the bull.

If I am not inept, perhaps porn is making this seem more common than it is.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 7:44:10 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		JJ, we talked about this privately, eh, but I will repeat myself for the benefit of the masses.

I am poly, on many levels. I have no problem being sexually monogamous, but I also don't think of sex as this magical experience you save for the ONE. I have actually done a voyeur/cuck scene. (see, this is why I never say I've "never" done something, I prolly have...). The menz really were thrilled to death with it, and hey, I got laid, so it was win-win-win.

Okay, let's pretend that I have found a guy who I can actually stand for more than an hour and a half. We're all together and lovey dovey and stuffs, and getting used to each other, because we're neither of us Young Things, and I have a lot of yarn and unnerpance. What's the timetable here? Do I have to immediately rush off and find me some strange? REALLY? It was hard enough finding the FIRST guy, now I have to go get someone ELSE that will be TOUCHING me?

This is Un Problemo. I am still decent looking, but I am not all that. It would be WORK to find the other guy that just wants to be my fucktoy, yet is not an asshole, has a clean STD record, can still get it up, and is worth a damn in bed.

Pressure, much? More pressure than Little Me wants to deal with? Yeah.

I am not into humiliation play EVER. I would not be entertaining myself to humiliate my primary. (that's where poly and cuck really don't match) So, if the notion of me swanning off to fuck the mexican gardener (I hear they're GREAT with weeds!) gets you all hot, Most Excellent, and I will be happy to tell you all the details, but it will be a story, not a compare & contrast of how you are just not as good. Actually....you'd probably have to clean me off and prove why I married YOU.

Is all that possible? I guess so. Maybe. Sorta.

Still, as fetishes go, is it one with longevity? What if I don't find a string of menz that fit the bill? I really am not into fucking women, no matter how hard I wish I was.

ANSWERS, JJ I WANT THEM! Answers, and a capybara. Get me a capy, and I will fuck the mailman on the front lawn. You can put the video on Youtube.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 7:45:24 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

There are (exactly) 27 kabillion men interested in the exact same thing....ergo....disavantage.


I'm not very familiar with CM's search feature, but when I put in Male + United States + keyword "cuckold" I only got one page of results at at least one of the men was seeking to be the bull.

If I am not inept, perhaps porn is making this seem more common than it is.


See my post! LOTS of men want the humiliation, not too many bulls...

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:14:14 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

JJ, we talked about this privately, eh, but I will repeat myself for the benefit of the masses.


I trimmed. Consider it poetic license.

For the benefit of the masses, I'm going to repeat what I've said for years.

It ain't hard to find a guy to fuck!

All a cuck needs is to be involved with a woman who know this.


ETA - Of course, some people couldn't get laid on their death bed.


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:33:45 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:36:23 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Drama?  Hell no!  Day to day life, Babe.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:42:07 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Drama?  Hell no!  Day to day life, Babe.


Hey!! I will wail dramatically if I want to!!

And yeah, thinking back to when I had sex, it was pretty much see one, set up the date.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:47:53 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		How about you and I just go out for coffee instead?

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:48:27 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

How about you and I just go out for coffee instead?


You can come here, mmkay? No snow here until November!

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:48:58 AM   
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Years ago someone had as a sig line "Find a stable partner, not a stable of partners." or something to that effect, and it sums up my feelings on the matter. I'd much rather put my time and effort into one solid relationship then in managing multiple toys. I care less about fucking, and more about having the solid relationship.

I also hate having to train new men repeatedly, so I'd rather work on polishing a single blue ribbon bedmate then have several substandard ones on the speed dial.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:49:32 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		AND! Pick up JJ along the way! I will arrange some hot action.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/5/2011 8:50:45 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

FR:

Years ago someone had as a sig line "Find a stable partner, not a stable of partners." or something to that effect, and it sums up my feelings on the matter. I'd much rather put my time and effort into one solid relationship then in managing multiple toys. I care less about fucking, and more about having the solid relationship.

I also hate having to train new men repeatedly, so I'd rather work on polishing a single blue ribbon bedmate then have several substandard ones on the speed dial.


It was Lucky Albatross. And yeah, it IS easy to get laid, but I really do look for a quality experience. The mediocre ones put me right off.

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