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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/6/2011 7:39:37 PM

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Sex....having some.....it's a distant memory (thank GAWD for internet porn.....keeps the Alzheimer's away).

wow,.. I didnt know men's dicks got Alzheimers... oh, wait... thats what viagra is for, huh???

My dick remembers everything (although some of the first names are a bit fuzzy).

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/6/2011 11:46:00 PM

HannahLynHeather

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How the fuck come....fewer women are interested in cuckolding than me?

for fuck's sake, are you for real? its because to a woman cuckolding is just getting fucked by some dude. its no big deal. you're the one getting all hot an spermy staring at another man's cock.

jesus, mary, and joseph in a three-way man, just get it the fuck over with. go pick up some twink and suck him off, get it out of your fucking system.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/7/2011 2:50:10 AM

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That isn't necessarily what cuckholding is about. The kink is a bit broader than the stereotype that many people associate with it. You're thinking fluffers, clean up guys, or actual participation in the sexual acts. Those things aren't necessarily true. They can be, but it's not a requirement.

A cuck really is any person who is involved with someone where in that relationship they have no say about their fidelity. All of the other stuff is 'extra'. It may or may not include emotional sadism, humiliation, voyeurism, or any of the other stuff that the stereotype leads people to think. On the other hand, it can be as simple as the person having the knowledge that the partner *will* be sleeping with other people, helping them get ready for "dates", doing chores while they are gone, or doing the laundry after they return. It's really kind of a pick and choose kink. You can add or not add whatever it is that you like to it. Pretty fun when you mix it with chastity and/or orgasm control.

Yeah, that last part was for My personal fun. Sue Me.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/7/2011 3:38:13 PM

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It's really kind of a pick and choose kink. You can add or not add whatever it is that you like to it. Pretty fun when you mix it with chastity and/or orgasm control.

Yeah, that last part was for My personal fun. Sue Me.

You're right. It iS fun that way!

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 4:58:14 AM

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I'm not very familiar with CM's search feature, but when I put in Male + United States + keyword "cuckold" I only got one page of results at at least one of the men was seeking to be the bull.

kalikshama

Not sure what went wrong with your search, but when I did it I found three pages of them, all of whom had logged on during or after the 8th of october (9th as I'm posting this) when I did the same search

Now I'm not saying most of them aren't into it for the fantasy, as the majority most likely are, but there's no shortage of profiles

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 7:33:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
(why....is beyond me but...the whole concept of fucking other guys in numbers unimaginable...seems like a perfectly flawless kind of concept....but hey, it's your gig....we just live here).

Is it because you all really want "one" guy?

Your problem is, polyamory got there first. I mean, offer the average dominant woman two choices, and see what happens:

You can fuck whoever you want, but you have to act ethically.
You can fuck whoever you want, but you have to make sure that it's titillating for your primary partner.

Seriously, you're surprised that they pick the first one? Cuckolding, when you put it like that, is about taking something that should be pleasurable for the woman (sex!) and making it instead a kinky/sexy experience for the man.

Yes, it could be pleasurable for both parties. But, do you know many women who enjoy disconnected, emotionless sex, and yet are searching for serious romantic partners? Do you see many cuckold fantasies where the woman and the bull share serious emotional intimacy? Again, maybe you can see part of the problem.

I absolutely believe that some women are into cuckolding. It has to take work, though. Finding decent and respectful male partners takes work. Taking care of all the sexy and emotional stuff that makes it satisfying for the cuck? Also work. Selling it as "you get to have all the sex you want, for free!" is like selling a service submissive as "I'll do all your chores and make your life perfect!" It's disingenuous, and it makes it sound like you (here I mean all the guys who say this stuff) haven't actually given much thought to what the woman's experience will be.

Doesn't "specialized and somewhat demanding, but extremely fulfilling for the right person" have a better ring to it?

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 3:45:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: strangedesire

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
(why....is beyond me but...the whole concept of fucking other guys in numbers unimaginable...seems like a perfectly flawless kind of concept....but hey, it's your gig....we just live here).

Is it because you all really want "one" guy?

Your problem is, polyamory got there first. I mean, offer the average dominant woman two choices, and see what happens:

You can fuck whoever you want, but you have to act ethically.

You can fuck whoever you want, but you have to make sure that it's titillating for your primary partner.

Seriously, you're surprised that they pick the first one? Cuckolding, when you put it like that, is about taking something that should be pleasurable for the woman (sex!) and making it instead a kinky/sexy experience for the man.

Yes, it could be pleasurable for both parties. But, do you know many women who enjoy disconnected, emotionless sex, and yet are searching for serious romantic partners? Do you see many cuckold fantasies where the woman and the bull share serious emotional intimacy? Again, maybe you can see part of the problem.

I absolutely believe that some women are into cuckolding. It has to take work, though. Finding decent and respectful male partners takes work. Taking care of all the sexy and emotional stuff that makes it satisfying for the cuck? Also work. Selling it as "you get to have all the sex you want, for free!" is like selling a service submissive as "I'll do all your chores and make your life perfect!" It's disingenuous, and it makes it sound like you (here I mean all the guys who say this stuff) haven't actually given much thought to what the woman's experience will be.

Doesn't "specialized and somewhat demanding, but extremely fulfilling for the right person" have a better ring to it?

This! Well said, Strangedesire.

I hate cucking. I have two established partners who are long-time friends/lovers/submissives. I know and love them; we're emotionally connected by myriad other things much more important than kink. In my situation there's absolutely no need to accommodate some 'cuck fantasist'; I have all I need in my dynamic. Even if I had a wild hair to tag some strange, the person I choose would have to be someone who offers respect, friendship, and something way more significant than peen. Since there's no shortage of peen available (large or small) it's not much of a commodity.

Do I need to mention the 'fucking of other guys in numbers unimaginable', no matter how carefully conducted with appropriate barriers (and where's the fun of THAT a thousand times over?) significantly increases everyone's risk to physical health. SO...NOT...WORTH...IT!!

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 4:17:05 PM

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I feel better now. Though I still think the Me/JJ/Peon triad can work, with the right financial backing. My passport is current, just saying.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 4:26:58 PM

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I feel better now. Though I still think the Me/JJ/Peon triad can work, with the right financial backing. My passport is current, just saying.

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/9/2011 5:41:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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How the fuck come....fewer women are interested in cuckolding than me?
for fuck's sake, are you for real? its because to a woman cuckolding is just getting fucked by some dude. its no big deal.

For fuck's sake, are you for real? To THIS woman, it is so not what you just said. It is something I'm very, very into and has not only the hotness factor but also a much deeper meaning. It IS a huge deal for THIS woman. You speak for yourself, not any other woman. As to the OP, I don't know why more women aren't into it. It's a huge turn on and wonderfully enriching experience to THIS woman and her partner(s)......luci

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/10/2011 8:09:49 PM

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That is a deal breaker, when men want something sexual to do
with another male, it not my thing at all! I am training someone
now I have limits so does he, I like the ideal of no dressing him
up as a sissy, no other men, no cuck stuff, there is way too many disease
out there to just let someone, do your woman and then you come home
to clean house! it is not ok op to just have this happen! not safe or sane
and oh hoot, i saw a small pathlet in the at the phar. it was so small but i open
it and it was so large with STD none i had heard of, so i think this maybe
the reason women do safe and sane sex or BDSM things!!!!!

mons :0)

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RE: I'm 1,000% serious here..... - 10/10/2011 8:18:51 PM

HannahLynHeather

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You speak for yourself, not any other woman.

no shit.

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