quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

AND! Pick up JJ along the way! I will arrange some hot action.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

AND! Pick up JJ along the way! I will arrange some hot action.

How does JJ feel about breakfast?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

How does he feel about french toast?  I have a craving.  <wink>

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OP, let's start with one basic premise.  First off, there are way more sub/kinky males than their are Dominant/top type women.  That ratio widens whenever we're talking about kinks that are, shall we say, a little farther off than the norm.  This means that the numbers are against you from the start and more unusual kinks make that even more so.

Let's keep something in mind.  As a cuck, you really don't get to decide how many other partners that the woman takes on.  In fact, you might never know the real number because not all cucks are permitted to be voyeurs.  I might be seeing the same man over and over and just changing names for the fun of it.  Not really up to you, anyway now, is it?  The whole premise behind this thing is that it's up to the woman how many men she'll take to her bed.  Your job is to abide by what she tells you in her sexual affairs, isn't that right?

Someday, we will come to an agreement on this matter, won't we?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

JJ, we talked about this privately, eh, but I will repeat myself for the benefit of the masses.

I am poly, on many levels. I have no problem being sexually monogamous, but I also don't think of sex as this magical experience you save for the ONE. I have actually done a voyeur/cuck scene. (see, this is why I never say I've "never" done something, I prolly have...). The menz really were thrilled to death with it, and hey, I got laid, so it was win-win-win.

Okay, let's pretend that I have found a guy who I can actually stand for more than an hour and a half. We're all together and lovey dovey and stuffs, and getting used to each other, because we're neither of us Young Things, and I have a lot of yarn and unnerpance. What's the timetable here? Do I have to immediately rush off and find me some strange? REALLY? It was hard enough finding the FIRST guy, now I have to go get someone ELSE that will be TOUCHING me?

This is Un Problemo. I am still decent looking, but I am not all that. It would be WORK to find the other guy that just wants to be my fucktoy, yet is not an asshole, has a clean STD record, can still get it up, and is worth a damn in bed.

Pressure, much? More pressure than Little Me wants to deal with? Yeah.

I am not into humiliation play EVER. I would not be entertaining myself to humiliate my primary. (that's where poly and cuck really don't match) So, if the notion of me swanning off to fuck the mexican gardener (I hear they're GREAT with weeds!) gets you all hot, Most Excellent, and I will be happy to tell you all the details, but it will be a story, not a compare & contrast of how you are just not as good. Actually....you'd probably have to clean me off and prove why I married YOU.

Is all that possible? I guess so. Maybe. Sorta.

Still, as fetishes go, is it one with longevity? What if I don't find a string of menz that fit the bill? I really am not into fucking women, no matter how hard I wish I was.

ANSWERS, JJ I WANT THEM! Answers, and a capybara. Get me a capy, and I will fuck the mailman on the front lawn. You can put the video on Youtube.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

JJ, we talked about this privately, eh, but I will repeat myself for the benefit of the masses.

I trimmed. Consider it poetic license.

For the benefit of the masses, I'm going to repeat what I've said for years.

It ain't hard to find a guy to fuck!

All a cuck needs is to be involved with a woman who know this.


ETA - Of course, some people couldn't get laid on their death bed.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Drama?  Hell no!  Day to day life, Babe.

Hey!! I will wail dramatically if I want to!!

And yeah, thinking back to when I had sex, it was pretty much see one, set up the date.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

How about you and I just go out for coffee instead?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

AND! Pick up JJ along the way! I will arrange some hot action.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

AND! Pick up JJ along the way! I will arrange some hot action.

How does JJ feel about breakfast?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

How does he feel about french toast?  I have a craving.  <wink>

He will like whatever you want him to like! He's agreeable like that! Heh.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Me again.

Elsewhere, one of my pals said that that there are folks out there who will do anything with anyone, and she doesn't have any truck with those people. For me, it's the same thing with the "finding sex" aspect of cucking.

Could I, as an overweight, middle aged broad, find some action if I wanted it? Yeah. So? I could find cheap, meaningless, mediocre sex. Yay. I don't WANT that kind of experience, even less so if it made my primary all hot and bothered. I wouldnt want to be with someone who thought that his wife behaving like a floozy was at all a good thing. So, that leaves us again with the men that are at least likable, people that you'd want to know. Of which there are HOW many that are not already claimed by other women?

It's a logistic nightmare.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
Sex....having some.....it's a distant memory (thank GAWD for internet porn.....keeps the Alzheimer's away).