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CuriousCanuck -> Does someone out there like this exist? (10/12/2011 11:42:44 PM)
I have a sort of weird fetish of wanting to show off/share my slave. Duties would include but are not limited to: flashing strangers when told to playing with strangers when told to public sex and so on The sluttier something is the better... oh god, ordering pizza and making her give the pizza man a blow job or something would be amazing. :D This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I?

xxblushesxx -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 1:06:21 AM)
It's a fun fantasy, but when faced with the reality of potential jail time and STDs, the answer is...yes, you are crazy. Think about this, would you like someone flashing your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa or sister? There's safe ways to do this that doesn't involve a non-conscentual public, jail time or STDs. Look into them. (seriously, if she gets herpes of the mouth after giving the pizza dude a blow job are you gonna want her lips wrapped around your winky?)

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 1:17:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx It's a fun fantasy, but when faced with the reality of potential jail time and STDs, the answer is...yes, you are crazy. Think about this, would you like someone flashing your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa or sister? There's safe ways to do this that doesn't involve a non-conscentual public, jail time or STDs. Look into them. (seriously, if she gets herpes of the mouth after giving the pizza dude a blow job are you gonna want her lips wrapped around your winky?) Well... of course I wouldn't be asking her to flash little old ladies on the street. It would be more along the lines of showing up at the door nude for the pizzaman or going to have fun at an adult theatre. What are these safe ways? Isn't it just as likely getting an STD from a person you meet online or at a bar as the pizza man? :P I've seen a lot of amatuer videos of couples going to glory holes and they seem to enjoy it. Surely these ideas can't be that crazy... but maybe I shouldn't have generalized them so much.

hangemhigh1953 -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 2:01:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I've seen a lot of amatuer videos of couples going to glory holes and they seem to enjoy it. Surely these ideas can't be that crazy... but maybe I shouldn't have generalized them so much. aaaaand here comes the advice every newbie always needs: PUT DOWN THE GODDAMN PORN AND BE REALISTIC.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 2:04:46 AM)
The pizza dude is a non-consentual person you are forcing into your little games. You have no idea if he's gay, his dog just died, or he's extremely religious. You don't know, and you don't care as long as your kink is satisfied, right? It's a juvenile way of seeing the world. The way to do something like this safely is to set something up (without your girl's knowledge of who or when) and only use people who have been medically tested. It's not perfect, but it's a lot better than playing russian roulette with your health and your girl's health. Do you claim to be a dom? (I haven't read your profile so I don't know) I would expect any dom of mine to put my safety ahead of his kink, but...that's just me. If you put as much thought into how to do this safely (and consentually) you'll find ways to meet your kink and keep you and your future slutty girl safe. : )

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 2:30:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I have a sort of weird fetish of wanting to show off/share my slave. Duties would include but are not limited to: flashing strangers when told to playing with strangers when told to public sex and so on The sluttier something is the better... oh god, ordering pizza and making her give the pizza man a blow job or something would be amazing. :D This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I? For the first part, wanting to show off your sub...join a munch group and find play parties or private groups where subs can be made to go nakie while they serve. (My boy is going to be all blushy faced very soon.) Play parties, dungeons...see the possibilities here where there is no risk of your girl getting into some serious trouble, if not with the law then with someone who is very pissed off over being flashed...or maybe the momma of that pizza delivery boy. You could also find someone to "force" into wet tee shirt contests or into participating in amateur night in some strip club. Lots of ways exist to get your groove on without forcing your kink onto others. Pizza guy scenario...find some other kinkster you trust (that she doesn't know) who will agree to use a condom...think "mindfuck" okay? He can arrive with some cheap pizza and possibly borrow a uniform. Keep her safe, be nearby watching in case he tries to push her too far, and enjoy the fantasy you have created. As far as the movies with glory holes go...you do know that's a movie, right? Long time ago when I used to do movie extra work, people walking by in crowds were all movie extras and not just average people doing their thing. You can stage anything on film so don't believe everything you see. If you think that unprotected sex from some glory hole is a great idea...I have several friends and family you should talk to. Take your pick...one has AIDS, another had hepatitis 3 and genital warts, others have herpes... Btw, I would never f*ck someone from the internet or even someone in my own small town without some kind of STD protection in place. Be responsible for you and your future sub, don't let your dick get herpes or warts or whatever, yanno? Wouldn't it be just as horney to go to some BDSM club and ask who all of the guys (and the line forms over THERE) want a blow job and have a condom...? Even vanillas join swinging clubs. Find one and have fun.

DarkSteven -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 2:54:24 AM)
CynthiaWV said it all. Note that "serving" can include just vanilla service. In the local community, lending out your submissive, clothed, to help at events is pretty much expected.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:27:17 AM)
And what if the pizza delivery guy happens to be 16?

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 5:08:18 AM)
The hotness of fantasy and the brutal reality are often two opposite ends of a scale. Not just STD but legal rammifications of those actions, or even without legal rammifications just being viewed as a wanker or a douche for forcing your kink on the unwary. I certainly don't want to see people flashing me regardless of how 'hot' they may be, let alone presuming they should touch or flirt with me uninvited. Get involved with a bunch of consenting adults who are clean and want to participate in 'sharing', also, never give your slave to a stranger, that's just being an asshole, would you hand over the keys to your car to a stranger?

GreedyTop -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 5:34:34 AM)
Then there's the factor to consider of what happens if you DO share her out, and find that the reality is that it WASNT hot to do it... will you be able to deal with that, and not feel resentful of / angry at her?

Killerangel -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 6:09:14 AM)
What if the pizza delivery guy doesn't like her? Looks at her, says meh, and walks away. Or worse, laughs, makes a disparaging comment about how he'd never touch that disgusting diseased skank in a million years and leaves. Perhaps also calls the cops. You both take a blow to your egos and it's suddenly not fun. You can't guarantee what another person's reaction will be, therefore your fantasies are hot in your mind, but the cops arriving or being rejected or laughed at aren't going to follow through on that fantasy. The negative things could put a real strain on your relationship if she feels that you hung her out to dry, which you did actually. It makes sense as a Dom to know as much about any situation involving your sub as possible. Any unknown factor has the possibility to be a problem and it's on your shoulders if things go wrong since you introduced the situation. You say you wouldn't involve little old ladies but how the heck do you know one won't enter the scene? If you're in public then anything can happen and it's the right of anyone to be there. She's flashing a guy on a motorcycle at your direction and right behind you is a soccer dad taking the kiddies home from their game and writing down the license plate number of your vehicle.....true story btw. Not one possible span of jailtime, but 6 and public humiliation in a form that you never anticipated for the both of you as the story comes out at the police station of WHY she did it. It's not an uncommon fantasy by the way. Set it up with a friend as some of the others suggested in an environment that's conducive to adult activities and you'll take some of the risk out of having your fantasy fulfilled.Of course this doesn't address what Greedy brought up of your reactions when it's all over and you possibly didn't find it much fun in real life and have residual things left from it. Personally I can see where people find it hot. I had a bf that loved others to look at me and he felt like he had a prize when we were together. He felt envied and he liked it. We never explored anything like what you are suggesting but I can see where he definitely would like to have share me as his possession and be admired by other men for it - slightly different from what you're getting off on but same result. We decided not to do anything like what you are suggesting because the risk wasn't worth it to us- too many unknowns. The emotional backlash was what we decided was too risky, fyi. It was hot and fun talking about it though.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 8:35:43 AM)
quote: Think about this, would you like someone flashing your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa or sister? it wouldn't be any of my fucking business, now would it? quote: The pizza dude is a non-consentual person you are forcing into your little games. You have no idea if he's gay, his dog just died, or he's extremely religious. if the pizza man doesn't want a fucking blowjob he isn't going to haul out his fucking tool for her, so if she's slobbering on his tallywhaker he wants it. this whole fucking idea of a non-consenting public is fucked. you want to slut your girl around, go for it, have fun and just ignore these misguided old biddies. and don't all come screaming at me about it being illegal, i don't give a fuck, its fucking irrelevant. and i don't give a fuck if how pissed off you'd be either, that's none of my concern. how you deal with shit is your problem not mine. nobody is harmed so go for it.

searching4mysir -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 8:50:54 AM)
I disagree that no one is harmed by being nonconsent. The psyche of the sub can be harmed. Her ability to get a job in the future can be harmed. There are a number of ways that nonconsent can harm the master, the slave and the person not consenting. It is irresponsible of the master to place his sub in that kind of a circumstance. Maybe you don't give enough of a shit about Heather to care about those things, but some Masters do.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 8:53:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I have a sort of weird fetish of wanting to show off/share my slave. Duties would include but are not limited to: flashing strangers when told to playing with strangers when told to public sex and so on The sluttier something is the better... oh god, ordering pizza and making her give the pizza man a blow job or something would be amazing. :D This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I? Are you going to ask these strangers ahead of time if they are willing to have your kink pushed on them? What if they don't want to and, instead laugh at her/insult her/call the police? In all of the above cases, are these strangers (1)consenting AND (2)are they of legal age...ALL of them? Are you willing to pay the fines for her having public sex? Do you think it's "amazing" that she might spend time in prison for a sex offense? What if some of the "public" includes underage kids? Do you think it's "amazing" or funny that she will be branded as a sex offender for the rest of her life, if some of the "public" is underage and/or non-consenting to seeing this and makes an issue of it? Do you require there to be condoms used during any of this sex she is expected to engage in, or are you willing to pay for her STD treatments? Also, are you willing to have sex with her if she picks up a disease from one of those strangers you are so willing for her to have sex with? Pizza man or stranger, all of these questions should be resolved first. Also......"This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated?" For WHO?? Maybe YOU wouldn't be humiliated, but what about HER? What if she's laughed at? Do you think she won't be humiliated if she's insulted when she flashes/has sex with someone? Yes, IMO you are crazy. I think YOU WATCH TOO MUCH PORN. Get off the porn sites and start thinking with your big head, I mean the one above your shoulders. ~Hisprettybaby~ P.S. I perved your profile. Just out of curiosity, (1)how is a guy going to satisfy his bi-curiosity with another woman, and (2)what is "dogging?"

windchymes -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 8:55:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 And what if the pizza delivery guy happens to be 16? I polled my two adult sons and the consensus was that he would be one damn happy 16 year old, revered and envied by all his friends [:)] As for the original query, this would be called "Exhibitionism by Proxy". mmmmhmmmmm. [8\|]

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 9:11:38 AM)
a lot of fucking questions there babe, most of them fucking pointless, but i'm a trooper, here's your answers: quote: Are you going to ask these strangers ahead of time if they are willing to have your kink pushed on them? no, that would fucking defeat the whole purpose. quote: What if they don't want to and, instead laugh at her/insult her/call the police? quote: Do you think it's "amazing" that she might spend time in prison for a sex offense? quote: Do you think it's "amazing" or funny that she will be branded as a sex offender for the rest of her life, if some of the "public" is underage and/or non-consenting to seeing this and makes an issue of it? quote: Maybe YOU wouldn't be humiliated, but what about HER? What if she's laughed at? Do you think she won't be humiliated if she's insulted when she flashes/has sex with someone? ooops, you pays your money and you take your chances. besides i suspect the risk is half the fucking fun, that's a big part of the kink. rack and all that shit, right? quote: In all of the above cases, are these strangers (1)consenting AND (2)are they of legal age...ALL of them? quote: What if some of the "public" includes underage kids? who gives a fuck? and if any of that bothers you, here's a crazy fucking idea: you look around first! quote: Are you willing to pay the fines for her having public sex? quote: Do you require there to be condoms used during any of this sex she is expected to engage in, or are you willing to pay for her STD treatments? i would be, my sub, my fucking responsibility. why wouldn't i, i pay for everything else? quote: Also, are you willing to have sex with her if she picks up a disease from one of those strangers you are so willing for her to have sex with? that's the fucking kicker right there, we finally have a question worth asking.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 9:14:04 AM)
quote: I disagree that no one is harmed by being nonconsent. i was talking about the poor innocent public. the rest falls under the rack umbrella so not a major fucking problem. quote: Maybe you don't give enough of a shit about Heather to care about those things, but some Masters do. and maybe you don't know shit.

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 10:04:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I have a sort of weird fetish of wanting to show off/share my slave. Duties would include but are not limited to: flashing strangers when told to playing with strangers when told to public sex and so on The sluttier something is the better... oh god, ordering pizza and making her give the pizza man a blow job or something would be amazing. :D This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I? Are you going to ask these strangers ahead of time if they are willing to have your kink pushed on them? What if they don't want to and, instead laugh at her/insult her/call the police? In all of the above cases, are these strangers (1)consenting AND (2)are they of legal age...ALL of them? Are you willing to pay the fines for her having public sex? Do you think it's "amazing" that she might spend time in prison for a sex offense? What if some of the "public" includes underage kids? Do you think it's "amazing" or funny that she will be branded as a sex offender for the rest of her life, if some of the "public" is underage and/or non-consenting to seeing this and makes an issue of it? Do you require there to be condoms used during any of this sex she is expected to engage in, or are you willing to pay for her STD treatments? Also, are you willing to have sex with her if she picks up a disease from one of those strangers you are so willing for her to have sex with? Pizza man or stranger, all of these questions should be resolved first. Also......"This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated?" For WHO?? Maybe YOU wouldn't be humiliated, but what about HER? What if she's laughed at? Do you think she won't be humiliated if she's insulted when she flashes/has sex with someone? Yes, IMO you are crazy. I think YOU WATCH TOO MUCH PORN. Get off the porn sites and start thinking with your big head, I mean the one above your shoulders. ~Hisprettybaby~ P.S. I perved your profile. Just out of curiosity, (1)how is a guy going to satisfy his bi-curiosity with another woman, and (2)what is "dogging?" (1) a threesome - partner is there to help experiment (2) public sex I'd like to add all of the porn I watch is amateur and NOT professional with actors... so some of these things are done.

littlewonder -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 10:06:58 AM)
I dunno. What does your girl look like? Hot cute lil bird or chunky, older, not so in shape? Could make the difference if she's laughed at making the whole scene not very hot for both of you or not. As for the glory hole situation in the movies...dude, it's a movie. It's not real life. Those people are screened for diseases and it's scripted. If you think that's how it is in real life I suggest you turn off the tv and the internet and maybe try spending some one on one time with your gal.

OsideGirl -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 11:37:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 And what if the pizza delivery guy happens to be 16? I polled my two adult sons and the consensus was that he would be one damn happy 16 year old, revered and envied by all his friends [:)] Probably...right up until some offended parent found out. In CA, that would qualify as felony public nudity which is a sex offense. At which point, he'd become a witness in a criminal trial. I don't agree with dragging the public into your kink. But, if you're going to do something like that, make sure you know your local laws and what the ramifications are if you offend someone.

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