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chasity - 10/14/2011 12:46:03 PM   
ka4u


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Status: offline 		How important is a chasity belt for a mistress. It shows loyalty for sub. How long does sub usually stay in chasity belt before he is givin permission to relieve himself
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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 12:46:53 PM   
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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 1:10:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		He isn't released until he can spell chastity.  Once released, his penis is removed with a pair of rusty garden shears.


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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 1:13:09 PM   
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He isn't released until he can spell chastity.  Once released, his penis is removed with a pair of rusty garden shears.




Marry me, Stef. We can do it, where you live!

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 1:34:16 PM   
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How important is a chasity belt for a mistress.
From what I've read on these boards and elsewhere, I would say its far more important to the sub than to the mistress.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 1:40:41 PM   
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How important is a chasity belt for a mistress.
From what I've read on these boards and elsewhere, I would say its far more important to the sub than to the mistress.


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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 2:24:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri

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How important is a chasity belt for a mistress.
From what I've read on these boards and elsewhere, I would say its far more important to the sub than to the mistress.

This. ^^^^^^^^

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 2:36:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		A chastity belt is of little importance to many Mistresses. What IS important is that when she tells you not to touch, you do not touch. Obedience is the key here, not a device that takes obedience out of the equation.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 3:00:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		A chastity device is mostly just a toy. The domme or sub might get a kick out of using it but I don't think it carries all that much importance.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 3:17:56 PM   
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It shows loyalty for sub.
just the fucking opposite, it shows he has no loyalty, he has no ability to control himself and obey, so he has to have his winky locked up because he just can't keep his fucking hands off it no matter what he's told.

the only time i'd ever use one would be to show others what a pathetic little fuck the guy was.


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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 4:11:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peppermint

A chastity belt is of little importance to many Mistresses. What IS important is that when she tells you not to touch, you do not touch. Obedience is the key here, not a device that takes obedience out of the equation.



Totally agree here, thank you! That's what I was "arguing" about with a sub who tried to get Me to see it their way. It could mean many things to different people but I want them to obey Me not a device!

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 4:39:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I get a laugh when I read that a chastity device is showing a man's loyalty, especially when their first post was about milking. The only loyalty I see here is... to his... cock and then how you will get him off when his cock is caged. Some loyalty and some brilliance in trying to convince us once again... that it means something special to US.

I bet they wonder when we are finally going to get it.

I can promise... I will never get that. Now if he really wants to do what I want... he might get it. (And yes, I did mean that in more than one way.)


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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 5:29:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ka4u

How important is a chasity belt for a mistress. It shows loyalty for sub. How long does sub usually stay in chasity belt before he is givin permission to relieve himself

Loyalty?? hahahaha Actually, ka4u, it shows that he has NO loyalty to her whatsoever. What is DOES show is that he is unable to keep his hands off his cock until she gives him permission to touch it for anything other than peeing. What it DOES show is she has to take extra measures to make sure that her orders are followed.

Now, if you want to just admit it's all for the fun of it instead of trying to make it into something it's not, that's all cool. If I have someone in chastity, it will be someone I could trust to follow orders were he NOT in chastity. The reason I'd do it is just for the fun of doing it for the both of us, not to "show loyalty."

The longest I've ever had someone in chastity is for one week, because I want to make sure he can get really clean periodically and not develop a nasty rash or anything. So I have no idea how long is actually safe. How long he stays in it will depend on his Domme.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 5:43:49 PM   
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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 9:26:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've read that its healthy for a male to be able to orgasm at the VERY least once every other week, to keep the plumbing working nicely and everything. That is plenty of time to spend in chastity for most men, who will find their thinking and arousal levels seriously manipulated by the end of the first week.

Once I was in the hospital after a car accident for 28 days, and I didn't orgasm the whole time. When I got home and finally masturbated I found that my dick hurt when hard, almost like cramps. Oh, that and that I was very easily aroused and masturbating was an almost psychadelically instense experience for a few days after that. My dick continued to have cramps in it for a while, however, and my cum only dribbled out instead of shooting. It was a long time (like four months) before I was back to being able to shoot my cum like normal. I'm sure these are signs that my unfortunate accidental time in "chastity" was too long to be healthy.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 10:10:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you had pelvic injuries that was more likely the cause of your sexual difficulties for a few months not the fact that you couldn't orgasm for the 28 days you were in the hospital.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 10:23:10 PM   
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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 10:35:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Smartsub10: No I did not have pelvic injuries. I think I would have figured that one out on my own, that my pelvic injuries were the cause of my sexual discomforts. ;)

LadyHibiscus: Normally I would think that is what would happen, eventually. I however have never had any nocturnal emissions (guess I've always masturbated often enough), so my body isn't used to... emptying it self that way. As I will get into later, the medications I was on were also likely a factor in my body's failure to do this. I have thought about it and I think that I would have eventually had a nocturnal emission, but in my case I believe my body allowed itself to not have a nocturnal emission for too long, to the point that harm was caused. Again, this could be because of the drugs, and the lack of ever having had any nocturnal emissions before.

Also in the case of those wearing chastity devices the device could likely interfere with the penis' ability to ejaculate even in what would normally be a nocturnal emission, since they leave no room for the penis to get hard so it can properly ejaculate. Forcing a man to wear such a device for too long could likely prevent him from ejaculating in this way as well, and interfere with natural nocturnal emissions.

Finally, I could compare myself to someone in the above situation in "restraint" because in the hospital I was constantly being given drugs which cause sexual disfunction, such as opiate painkillers and benzodiazepines. From what I experienced after the hospital I know that I can not normally successfully masturbate for hours after taking narcotic painkillers, and since I was on them constantly at the hospital (even getting them during the night), that likely prevented any nocturnal emission that would have occured. I was effectively chemically "restrained" from having an orgasm, even a wet dream, for the 28 days, and I believe that caused some harm which took time to heal.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 10:52:57 PM   
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Two questions, one gross and the other not.

#1 <The gross one> Do guys keep on having wet dreams even after they are teenagers?

#2 Could anybody explain to me the appeal of being in chastity? I just can't wrap my head around wanting to not orgasm, it's just completely foreign to me.

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RE: chasity - 10/14/2011 11:24:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		1) Yes, if the guy in question does not ejaculate regularly by masturbating or having sex. In my experience (my in field case study research haha) I have found that very few guys do not either masturbate or have sex often enough to create the need for a nocturnal emission. Like I said above I've never had one, and most guys I've talked to about it have either never had one or have only had it happen once or twice in their lives.

2) I'm not a big fan of it but from my own feelings and from what I've read from people who like it the appeal of being in chastity is the state of constant arousal it creates. Males are supposed to ejaculate regularly, and when they don't (or can't) it messes with their thinking. It makes them be aroused at the smallest thing and makes their genitals be much more sensitive. The guy in chastity may also love the feeling of being owned and dominated that it creates, in that he is doing such a thing for his mistress. He may also love being teased by her while extremely aroused (from being in chastity and from being teased), and the feeling that he would do anything for release. Many guys who like it, however, miss the constant arousal and sexual feelings after being allowed to cum.

Anyone else who may know more about it than me feel free to add on to my responses.

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