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hausboy -> RE: subs and slaves shed some light (10/19/2011 9:01:33 PM)
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Hey dom6666....
I can tell as one who has been dating (as a forty-something), I never...and I mean, NEVER, even bring up or ask about the woman's address or where she lives, beyond general neighborhood, and usually it's in the context of: I live in [my neighborhood]....is there something closer to you or in-between where we live where we can meet? Personally, I like going for coffee because if the date goes south or she is just whacked, I can easily get out of there in an hour or less. If she is a good date, then I'd suggest something a lot more fun and interesting, but if we can't fill an hour with interesting conversation, then a much cooler, fun date is out.
Now... that said... there have been plenty of women that have emailed with me endlessly, weeks on end, and finally, I'll say (if they don't suggest it first), say, would you like to meet over coffee? (or waffles. If I think we will hit it off, meeting for breakfast is my 2nd fave. quick meal but it can last longer if we have a good date). Most say yes... but I do get a few that say, "no thanks" it's been fun emailing but I'm not ready to meet someone face to face yet.
put on your big boy britches, chalk it up, and move along. If this is happening to you all the time, take a good long look at yourself...or at least how you are coming off. I go by this rule: If one or two people are assholes, it's probably them. If suddenly EVERYONE is an asshole.... it's probably me.
I don't know what tech device you are using, but I also have to admit that the lack of spaces, punctuation and capitalization would scare me off, too. (and it's rough to read)
good luck to you.
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