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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 11:08:40 AM   
roscho


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Status: offline 		Off subject... I wonder if any of the executives at NASCAR ever approached Dick Trickle about changing his name...

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 11:30:09 AM   
SpoiledBBWBrat


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Status: offline 		I am a financial Dominatrix.. Some men who are normally in power want to be controlled by a woman to bring them down a notch.
Its basically roll playing. If you have 2 consenting adults and the male sub wants to be dominated and controlled and stripped of his power
there is nothing wrong with it.
The goal here is each of us find what were looking for......not nitpicking someone else for their choice in the fetish they have or being critical.
Hopefully this helps some of you understand........that some want to be financially dominated, and they can say NO at any time.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 11:35:12 AM   
xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: Cummingsub

Masters looking for female slaves do not ask for the females to buy them anything. Why is that?

They ask for blow jobs. Everyone gets paid somehow. Let's face it, dude... blow jobs last about 3 mins but Prada lasts forever.


I love this! I'm sorry but I'm gonna have to steal it and use it on my findom twitter account. I hope you understand....

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:25:00 PM   
SadisticMs2


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Status: offline 		I just got (yet another) email from some guy who also complained about how so many women are here looking for money.

What I find amusing is that he approached me with HIS fantasy (unrealistic) and ignored what my profile says I seek (local, maso; he lives in Florida).

If as a submissive, (generic you) are primarily concerned with having your fantasy the way you want it and don't much care whether or not you're what the Domme is seeking....then yes, you bloody well should be paying a professional to cater to your whims. You're certainly not submitting to anyone other than yourself.

I'm not a prodomme, but I'm not a fetish catering service either.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:27:04 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		A guy from out of state complimented me on my honest profile---THEN offered to pay me for a scene!!

Disconnect. It is RAMPANT.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:28:17 PM   
Delilya


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: Cummingsub

Masters looking for female slaves do not ask for the females to buy them anything. Why is that?

They ask for blow jobs. Everyone gets paid somehow. Let's face it, dude... blow jobs last about 3 mins but Prada lasts forever.


Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:35:56 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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slut ;)
Somebody call me?

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:40:06 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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you bloody well should be paying a professional
Insert majorly snarky reference to the recent thread up in General BDSM.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 12:54:06 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

quote:

slut ;)
Somebody call me?



well, you and the girls.. ;)

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 1:43:59 PM   
kalikshama


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blow jobs last about 3 mins but Prada lasts forever


Is there still a quote of the day? Nominated!


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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 2:12:30 PM   
insertclevername


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ORIGINAL: Cummingsub

I have noticed that just about every mistress on this site wants a future male subs to buy them things just to get noticed. Masters looking for female slaves do not ask for the females to buy them anything. Why is that?



There are plenty of dommes here who are looking for a relationship. However, there are a lot of scammers and professional dommes whose interest in your money first and foremost.

Complaining about that just makes you look silly and boring. Focus on what you seek, and what you have to give, and let everything else be white noise.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 5:53:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Cummingsub

I have noticed that just about every mistress on this site wants a future male subs to buy them things just to get noticed. Masters looking for female slaves do not ask for the females to buy them anything. Why is that?


It's because your profile wards off anyone else.  Your profile says "I'm new to this.  I'm willing to try anything!" and your Likes list is nothing but play fetishes.

Listen to me.  Women like relationships and conversations.  Until you can offer women some of that, and write your profile so it's evident you can offer that, expect to pay.  They can get play scenes anywhere, which is what you offer.  Along with millions of other guys.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 6:04:51 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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ORIGINAL: Delilya
Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

laughing my ass off!!

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/18/2011 10:34:31 PM   
Delilya


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya
Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

laughing my ass off!!


On a good day you could score all three....


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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/19/2011 12:55:29 AM   
hangemhigh1953


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Status: offline 		If you're here to have your fetish satisfied, then yes, you have to pay. But if you're here to look for a connection with someone who also shares your kinks, or to satisfy someone else's fetishes, then you shouldn't have to pay.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/19/2011 12:56:04 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya
Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

laughing my ass off!!


On a good day you could score all three....





I wanted to say that! You beat me to it! (I could also use a fence built, OP.)

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/19/2011 1:00:29 AM   
MistrixMsE


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya
Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

laughing my ass off!!


On a good day you could score all three....



On a good day you could score all 3 twice! ;)

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/20/2011 3:45:02 AM   
AlphaFatale


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Status: offline 		thank you!!

It is like the men who don't have sex with a women, but merely "masturbate into them"

quote:

Because your creepy screen name and very generic profile make it very obvious that you don't actually care about the woman you are supposedly going to serve. They are just faceless fetish delivery systems who deliver a service to you, so why shouldn't you pay them for that service.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/20/2011 7:28:27 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: AlphaFatale

thank you!!

It is like the men who don't have sex with a women, but merely "masturbate into them"
quote:

Because your creepy screen name and very generic profile make it very obvious that you don't actually care about the woman you are supposedly going to serve. They are just faceless fetish delivery systems who deliver a service to you, so why shouldn't you pay them for that service.




Really well put!

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 10/20/2011 10:23:04 AM   
Hisprettybaby


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ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya
Ass, grass or gas. Nobody rides for free. Awww, sweet memories.

laughing my ass off!!


On a good day you could score all three....


Ah yes, the 70s!

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