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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 11/3/2011 1:25:42 AM

MistrixMsE

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ORIGINAL: TraciTv

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

A Domme friend once said something to me that also may give some insight.

"Men like dominant women to be attired and appear in a certain manner. He wants me to be in a corset, stockings, thigh high spike heeled boots with perfect hair and nails while wielding a custom made pink flogger. It makes for a $700 evening."

I can certainly understand that point myself. A PROPER corset starts at 50 dollars, Boots can run into the hundreds, as can many of the other accoutrements.

Proper corset for $50? Where? I cant tightlace for under $170 and that is if I am lucky and its on sale.. and I buy a small lil 24 that i bring down to 22!

(jealous of your sale shopping abilities!)

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 11/3/2011 10:15:34 AM

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i wouldn't even dream of calling that "service." i'm fascinated by those who do, though. if they meet women who do specifically want to keep them locked up, then hey -- they're now serving the actual will of the Dominant, but if they come out with that first hand -- "please, Mistress, put me in a cage, so that i can be real property, and only let me out to serve me in any way you wish; strap-ons, forced bi, feminize me, whatever you want!" -- it's not about her will at all. life is just "scene," "go laze around in a cage," "scene," "she'll feed me," "scene." where's the actual LIFE?

haha I just got a letter from some guy on another continent that wanted to be my "no limits slave" and be locked up. It made me think of this. lol I wrote back and explained that no limits meant it was okay to cut his arm off or kill him and he would have no limit against it. Of course, I would never do that, but I only said it to make a point....that he did, indeed have "limits." Immediately he had limits. lol Then I told him I could not afford to support him and, guess what. I never heard from him again.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 11/3/2011 10:34:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

haha I just got a letter from some guy on another continent that wanted to be my "no limits slave" and be locked up. It made me think of this. lol I wrote back and explained that no limits meant it was okay to cut his arm off or kill him and he would have no limit against it. Of course, I would never do that, but I only said it to make a point....that he did, indeed have "limits." Immediately he had limits. lol Then I told him I could not afford to support him and, guess what. I never heard from him again.

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I remember a good while back there was a guy who wanted to be tied to a chair for like weeks. From what I remember, there was no talking to him, not one person that tried to get him to see what he was asking for got through. It's just so odd that someone can't see that their view of 'service' isn't the actual definition of the word. Tying someone up is an extreme example, but it's the same concept for the guy who wants to clean naked and have Mistress stand over him with a crop. I think in general the more specifics you have about your scenario, the more it's for you, and less and less about that other person. Pretty soon that other person is relegated to the cardboard cutout Domme role.

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RE: Why do you have to pay to serve? - 11/4/2011 8:47:27 PM

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I have noticed that just about every mistress on this site wants a future male subs to buy them things just to get noticed. Masters looking for female slaves do not ask for the females to buy them anything. Why is that?

As a sub male. I'm looking for a woman who can take care of me in the style I've become accustomed.

I don't ask for much...a car payment.....good food, occasional nights out.....a suit on occasion.....some shoes.....a 9 way.....basic stuff.....

The most important thing is that she feels compelled to take care of you in the style you've become accustomed to.

If she can't do that....the least amount expected....I'd flush her.

Down the drain.....below the effluent.

Let her beg for your submission......give it time....it could take years but.....trust me.....you're young......I'm old.....I'll take anything I can get...I'm actually willing to take coupons.....cars in trade....I've been known to take rice.....

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