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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 3:25:57 PM   
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Peon.. darling.. it is because of paris and wossername.. nikki? yanno, those anorexic "famous for being famous" twats.. I'm sure there are twats in the UK that equate..


There are. It's almost impossible to get through a day here without hearing about some new event in the life of Katy Price, aka 'Jordan'. Thick as a breeze-block, tits pumped up by God knows how much plastic . . . she's a national embarrassment and a constant reminder of just how tawdry British culture can be.

Actually, what irks me most of all about that skinny model phenomenon is that no matter how many articles in newspapers are written about how badly it affects the psyches of females - it never, ever, changes. So many times I've seen an article in a highbrow newspaper by a scathing columnist, only to flip over a few pages to see . . . more skinny models.

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness. It isn't style and it isn't glamour, no matter how glossy the pages and heavy the mag. It's destructive porn of the worst order - more damaging than any porn that the average male wanker would ever want to pick up. (Christ, every time I see one of those women, I imagine her never being able to sit on the toilet without having diarrhoea.) The phenomenon won't die out until it actually starts hurting the turds who relentlessly reproduce it in their pockets. The whole lot of the people involved have got to be starved out of their pointless, parasitical, trashy, and basically nasty, existence.


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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 3:57:37 PM   
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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 5:06:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree wholeheartedly with everything you have said. By the way, nice avatar. I guess you have to exercise and watch what you eat to look that good. I guess you are self aware enough to realise that your photo is attractive to the majority of people looking for a partner? I guess you might not have been so keen to post a pic of a huge fat beer belly? But I guess you are clever enough to understand that you are just lucky to look like that and that peer pressure or social pressures never affected your decisions
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Peon.. darling.. it is because of paris and wossername.. nikki? yanno, those anorexic "famous for being famous" twats.. I'm sure there are twats in the UK that equate..


There are. It's almost impossible to get through a day here without hearing about some new event in the life of Katy Price, aka 'Jordan'. Thick as a breeze-block, tits pumped up by God knows how much plastic . . . she's a national embarrassment and a constant reminder of just how tawdry British culture can be.

Actually, what irks me most of all about that skinny model phenomenon is that no matter how many articles in newspapers are written about how badly it affects the psyches of females - it never, ever, changes. So many times I've seen an article in a highbrow newspaper by a scathing columnist, only to flip over a few pages to see . . . more skinny models.

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness. It isn't style and it isn't glamour, no matter how glossy the pages and heavy the mag. It's destructive porn of the worst order - more damaging than any porn that the average male wanker would ever want to pick up. (Christ, every time I see one of those women, I imagine her never being able to sit on the toilet without having diarrhoea.) The phenomenon won't die out until it actually starts hurting the turds who relentlessly reproduce it in their pockets. The whole lot of the people involved have got to be starved out of their pointless, parasitical, trashy, and basically nasty, existence.




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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 5:12:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Twistedom... have you not heard the news about the stats in general?
http://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/trends.html

Dude, also think about it for second... how many available hotties (male/female) are gonna be hanging around as troll food on a site such as this anyways?







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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 5:21:10 PM   
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In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone.



Bluntly put, I have never read so much bollocks.

Women and Girls of all ages, sizes, colours get raped. Its despicable, and it is despicable to suggest only pretty women get raped.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 5:52:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness.



I saw this in a film once. It's a fun test.

Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 6:42:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness.



I saw this in a film once. It's a fun test.

Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?




Yes and yes

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 6:46:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sherrr

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness.



I saw this in a film once. It's a fun test.

Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?




No, no.

I have a very healthy diet and work out at the gym four times a week, and bike 60 miles a week. If someone doesn't have a similar healthy, active lifestyle we simply wouldn't be compatible.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 6:49:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sherrr

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Honestly, I wish women would stop buying the shitty magazines that continually purvey this 'ideal' of ill-looking stick-thinness.



I saw this in a film once. It's a fun test.

Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?




No, no.

I have a very healthy diet and work out at the gym four times a week, and bike 60 miles a week. If someone doesn't have a similar healthy, active lifestyle we simply wouldn't be compatible.


So what about someone who has a healthy, active lifestyle and is also overweight. They do exist.

Or, what about someone who has a naturally great body but does not work out?


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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 6:58:20 PM   
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I agree wholeheartedly with everything you have said. By the way, nice avatar. I guess you have to exercise and watch what you eat to look that good. I guess you are self aware enough to realise that your photo is attractive to the majority of people looking for a partner? I guess you might not have been so keen to post a pic of a huge fat beer belly? But I guess you are clever enough to understand that you are just lucky to look like that and that peer pressure or social pressures never affected your decisions


Thank you for your compliment. But, are you suggesting that I shouldn't have made my earlier point because what I am, and in particular my physical shape, is partly the result of peer pressure?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:04:23 PM   
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I saw this in a film once. It's a fun test.

Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?



No to both. Also 'no to both' if you'd asked the same questions about stick-thin women. Statistically, I'm about average for males re that latter. However, I'm somewhat unusual, I think, in sometimes going for women who look more muscular than the usual. But I don't suppose it'd come as any great surprise that I find the appearance of some muscle aesthetically pleasing.


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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:48:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sherrr
Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?

Yes and yes.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:49:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to point out the glaring skew of your question about Kathy Bates Vs Kim K twistedom. You pick out two totally different people in an attempt to illustrate what the masses would prefer. Instead of giving equal examples. How about asking if one would pick Crystal Renn, a young Sophie Dahl,  Ashley Graham, or any number of young attractive plus sized models. Or how about ask if one would pick Bea Arthur or Kathy Bates? No, You had to pick an extreme example of opposites in hopes to rally those to your "side". From what i have read you don't even acknowledge this in your attempts to justify how "non offensive" you are trying to be.

Rape and rape fantasy are two totally different things.
No one actually wants to be really raped. It is not about sex at all and this has been explained in previous posts.

There is a possible correlation in that hormones are affected by body fat but this would affect sex drive on a whole not just within the BDSM community and i suggest you look up the statistics and research for better information regarding the subject as i do not have them on hand at the moment. 

Most of the aversion to your original post lays in your sweeping (incorrect) generalizations of both overweight people and of rape victims.





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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:51:55 PM   
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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:53:17 PM   
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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:54:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I believe she was around a UK 14/16 US 12/14 when she was younger (before she lost all her weight). I am not 100% on that though. She is very tiny now. 

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 7:57:55 PM   
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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 8:00:40 PM   
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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 8:04:04 PM   
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Question #1: Would you date someone who is significantly overweight?

Question #2: Have you?


Yes, and yes.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/24/2011 8:10:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		And i want to point out that in my previous post i am no way devaluing those of a smaller size but simply trying to state that beautiful is beautiful and it can be illustrated in many different shapes and sizes. I think that while some people may have a side of the camp which they would choose in regards to which they prefer, most would be happy to have either even utter a hello to them. 

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