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Lockit -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:24:31 AM)
I've got fifteen to twenty pounds of blubber I cannot get rid of due to thyroid, pain stress and an injury that prevents doing all I used to do. I used to work out four hours a day. I eat less than a one year old each day due to an allergy and digestive disorder. Blubber is not always a choice. However, being with a blubber head is.

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:30:09 AM)
Evidently, " further thought" is necessary since people keep bringing it up. They don't seem to be satisfied with not dating people with "blubber", they feel the need to justify their preference. quote: ORIGINAL: Arienos quote: What would you call it? Mild distaste? Sorry, bigotry is bigotry. Again, neither hate nor bigotry apply, blubber is blubber, mild distaste does not apply either. It simply is, one can accept it or chose not to have it in their lives, no further thought is necessary.

MistressSnow -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:30:17 AM)
What ever happened to our OP? Is he gone?

Arienos -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:39:06 AM)
quote: Blubber is not always a choice. However, being with a blubber head is. The operative word there is choice, one has and should have choices in their lives.

Arienos -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:42:15 AM)
quote: They don't seem to be satisfied with not dating people with "blubber", they feel the need to justify their preference. Justify is your word and perhaps what you need most in your flie, but the choice to not bring blubber into one life remains simply a choice, it does not require justification or reason.

mnottertail -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:45:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSnow What ever happened to our OP? Is he gone? On an eating binge, I guess.

MistressSnow -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:47:04 AM)
OK - that made me laugh! --- Thanks!!!!

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:47:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arienos quote: They don't seem to be satisfied with not dating people with "blubber", they feel the need to justify their preference. Justify is your word and perhaps what you need most in your flie, but the choice to not bring blubber into one life remains simply a choice, it does not require justification or reason. i don't think you actually understood her post. she's talking about people who start threads like this one. people certainly have rights to their preferences, but starting "fat chick threads" is more of a justification tactic FOR THEM -- Iamsemisweet is not the thread originator.

GreedyTop -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 11:49:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arienos Assuming that your avatar is you, or represenatative of you.. do you have ANY REAL EXPERIENCE with the hate/distaste/predjudice/etc of folks that do NOT fall into the parameters of what is 'expected' by general society?? personally, I think that your avatar is disgusting. To me, it REEEEEEEEEEEKS of excessive steroid use, not to mention almost narcissitic(sp?) attention to a BODY TYPE. quote: Blubber is not always a choice. However, being with a blubber head is. quote: The operative word there is choice, one has and should have choices in their lives. and what if one has a genetic predisposition towards 'blubber'? I have always been slender. Lately, I have been developing a 'middle-aged spread', and I can guarantee it isnt from overeating!! this BLUBBER ADDITION is genetic, based on my family history..

Arienos -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:01:48 PM)
quote: do you have ANY REAL EXPERIENCE with the hate/distaste/predjudice/etc of folks that do NOT fall into the parameters of what is 'expected' by general society?? personally, I think that your avatar is disgusting. To me, it REEEEEEEEEEEKS of excessive steroid use, not to mention almost narcissitic(sp?) attention to a BODY TYPE. You ask a question that I elect (chose) not to recognize. You expressed an opinion that is the product of a choice, I hope, rather the just an emotional outburst.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:03:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arienos quote: do you have ANY REAL EXPERIENCE with the hate/distaste/predjudice/etc of folks that do NOT fall into the parameters of what is 'expected' by general society?? personally, I think that your avatar is disgusting. To me, it REEEEEEEEEEEKS of excessive steroid use, not to mention almost narcissitic(sp?) attention to a BODY TYPE. You ask a question that I elect (chose) not to recognize. You expressed an opinion that is the product of a choice, I hope, rather the just an emotional outburst. Yes, ignore the question because the woman is all emotional. [8\|]

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:06:02 PM)
oh geeez louiiissee... yes any time a woman says something that disagrees with you, it's because we're sooooo emotional. =p

Hera462 -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:12:16 PM)
Arienos i am going to have to disagree with you. While i am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt and even commend you for saying you have never felt a prejudice toward fat, it does not make you the rule but the exception. There are MANY people who use a disgust or hatred of fat as a self motivator to stay with in normal societal norms of acceptability. There are people who see a fat person and automatically think of the current prejudices put upon them such as them being slovenly, lazy, low will powered, and undesirable. There is study after study about just this. Studies where young girls are asked if they would rather be fat or lose an arm and the vast majority pick the latter. There are mounds of evidence to suggest it is not just a matter of working out and eating well and that fat cells are set in childhood, yet these stereotypes still exist. http://scienceblogs.com/notrocketscience/2008/05/fat_cell_number_is_set_in_childhood_and_stays_constant_in_ad.php Kudos to you if you keep the moral high ground, but you should at least be aware that it exists.

Arienos -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:15:54 PM)
quote: people certainly have rights to their preferences, I so agree and rest my case.

GreedyTop -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:22:03 PM)
nm

Arienos -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:26:25 PM)
quote: Kudos to you if you keep the moral high ground, but you should at least be aware that it exists. It has nothing at all to do with a moral high ground, I once worked for my government and performed services I am not proud of, neither do I attempt to justify them, I chose to I simply accept the things have dome. My comment was and is based on making choices in and with my life and others right to do the same. I rejecting entirely those who would attempt to infringe on or limit my choices in any way and others right to chose for themselves.

Hera462 -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:29:23 PM)
Your first comment was a rejection of the fact that the stereotype and bashing exists. That is not an infringement on your choices unless that choice is to remain blissfully ignorant, which of course, you are free to do as well if that is what makes you happy.

Lockit -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:33:26 PM)
Arienos, I doubt anyone is trying to infringe upon your rights to the choices you want to make. Your comment on blubber... and being able to do something about it may have been seen as, they can do something about having blubber... not a choice to have or not someone over weight or be someone with blubber. I don't care what your choice is.

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:35:13 PM)
You obviously did not understand my post, Rambo. I have not and will not start a thread about fat chicks ever, nor do I ever feel the need to justify my preferences. Obviously some people do, since there is a "fat chick" thread on here every two weeks. That clear things up for you? quote: ORIGINAL: Arienos quote: They don't seem to be satisfied with not dating people with "blubber", they feel the need to justify their preference. Justify is your word and perhaps what you need most in your flie, but the choice to not bring blubber into one life remains simply a choice, it does not require justification or reason.

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? (10/25/2011 12:36:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus What would you call it? Mild distaste? Bigotry is bigotry. What a dumb post. So if I prefer slender females I am now a bigot towards fat females. I also prefer females overall, so I'm also a bigot to gay men. Everyone's a bigot.

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