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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 1:44:01 PM   
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For anyone and everyone that forgot what the Topic of this thread was, here it is:
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I'm coming across a lot of profiles where men and women of the dominant variety are stating things like, "All women know to submit to me." Or "All men should learn their place and bow down before me, a Goddess." Frankly, if find the lack of choice a bit disturbing. Are you saying that as a dominant woman I am not doing it right? Am I to assume that all dominant men should stop living by their sexual preferences? To me it is as ignorant and discriminating as someone saying, "Being gay is wrong." We, as a community, need to realize that there are dominent people and submissive people (using people because I believe that man/woman doesn't encompass all gender). Am I crazy?




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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 1:45:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

For anyone and everyone that forgot what the Topic of this thread was, here it is:
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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

I'm coming across a lot of profiles where men and women of the dominant variety are stating things like, "All women know to submit to me." Or "All men should learn their place and bow down before me, a Goddess." Frankly, if find the lack of choice a bit disturbing. Are you saying that as a dominant woman I am not doing it right? Am I to assume that all dominant men should stop living by their sexual preferences? To me it is as ignorant and discriminating as someone saying, "Being gay is wrong." We, as a community, need to realize that there are dominent people and submissive people (using people because I believe that man/woman doesn't encompass all gender). Am I crazy?




Thanks Mummy...lol

agirl





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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 1:47:18 PM   
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Does it matter?



No.  You replied to me, so I replied to you.  Simple as that.

As to the OP, as others have stated, she should simply ignore the profiles that she doesn't find favor with.



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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:00:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Quote...................If you actually thought that, then you wouldn't be sellin' YOUR "own", which is likely the REAL reason you've even posted here -- i.e., just trying to drum up some sales.....unquote.

THIS is why *I* replied to you. You pounced and threw her panty sales into the forum debate. Her Pro-domme status has nothing to do with her interaction here, and if it does who cares??? What have YOU gained by making some  ridiculous issue about her knickers?

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:02:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

For anyone and everyone that forgot what the Topic of this thread was, here it is:
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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

I'm coming across a lot of profiles where men and women of the dominant variety are stating things like, "All women know to submit to me." Or "All men should learn their place and bow down before me, a Goddess." Frankly, if find the lack of choice a bit disturbing. Are you saying that as a dominant woman I am not doing it right? Am I to assume that all dominant men should stop living by their sexual preferences? To me it is as ignorant and discriminating as someone saying, "Being gay is wrong." We, as a community, need to realize that there are dominent people and submissive people (using people because I believe that man/woman doesn't encompass all gender). Am I crazy?




Thanks Mummy...lol

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:11:55 PM   
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THIS is why *I* replied to you.



I believe she may have a marketing motivation, where you may not... so why are YOU arguing about it -- do you need everyone to share YOUR view?!!  If not, then your continuing this dialog is pointless.  If, however, you do need others to share YOUR views, then by all means... carry on.  You'll get the same answer from me.



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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:22:42 PM   
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an incredibly common business in the BDSM community.
really matilda, and just what part of bondage, domination, submission, discipline, sadism, and/or masochism <just to include all the possible definitions> does selling worn fucking panties fall under?

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:25:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to agree with agirl; you're the one who made an issue of it MSLA. Agirl replied to you because you were making some unfounded assumption about the OP's motivations (and you know you were hoping others would "share your view," too)

I've never sold my pantz but I've had requests for them, even before I was on kink sites. Like dudes on yahoo hahaha
It's actually fairly popular...

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:28:14 PM   
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The hivemind decided to descend and make it personal instead of keeping on topic.
actually i'm the one who fucking brought it up, and i did because your topic was complete and utter bullshit, and i found myself wondering what sort of twatwaffle would post crap like that. so i checked your profile and voifuckingla! a soiled panty seller and cam-domme-for-hire, all my questions were answered.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:32:52 PM   
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A candidate for quote of the day, if ever I saw one.
the acting "sunny" has been so informed.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:33:33 PM   
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I've never sold my pantz but I've had requests for them, even before I was on kink sites......

It's actually fairly popular...

It actually IS! I've had requests too. lol

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:33:58 PM   
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Then you're as delusional as she is... refer back to Page 1 of this thread -- I was NOT the first to bring up (i.e., making an "issue" of) her selling her shhhtuff on the net.  Moreover, my dialog was with HER... DIRECTLY -- where the other poster's dialog was not.  Thus, it was the other poster (and now you) who've made an "issue" of it by YET AGAIN addressing it. 



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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:34:55 PM   
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I've never sold my pantz but I've had requests for them, even before I was on kink sites......

It's actually fairly popular...

It actually IS! I've had requests too. lol
Me three.  Been asked for hardly worn, really worn, pee soaked, and a few other things that gross me out too much to even type.


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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:36:21 PM   
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Then you're as delusional as she is... refer back to Page 1 of this thread -- I was NOT the first to bring up (i.e., making an "issue" of) her selling her shhhtuff on the net.  Moreover, my dialog was with HER... DIRECTLY -- where the other poster's dialog was not.  Thus, it was the other poster (and now you) who've made an "issue" of it by YET AGAIN addressing it. 


If it aint in a pm, it is not a dialog with anyone directly, it is a dialog with the board.

Just my opinion of course.


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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:38:26 PM   
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See... was not me who brought this up...

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actually i'm the one who fucking brought it up, and i did because your topic was complete and utter bullshit, and i found myself wondering what sort of twatwaffle would post crap like that. so i checked your profile and voifuckingla! a soiled panty seller and cam-domme-for-hire, all my questions were answered.




And like HannahLynn, I believe the OP may have a marketing motive.



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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 2:42:45 PM   
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If it aint in a pm, it is not a dialog with anyone directly... Just my opinion of course.



And your opinion is fucking daft... when one is DIRECTLY COMMUNICATING with someone (just as I'm directly communicationg WITH YOU... and identifying my commentary TO YOU) then that's communication with you "directly".



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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:13:59 PM   
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I've had a request recently for stockings. (the stay up kind) I'm still mulling it over.

OP, I've never cared much about what other peoples' ads say. I've got some (pro) ads that basically say the same thing. It's wanker bs. I hope you'll continue to post in the forums. I've liked the things you've said so far. (whether I agreed or not.)

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:19:44 PM   
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And like HannahLynn, I believe the OP may have a marketing motive.
actually no, i just thought that whoever could come up with the bullshit op probably didn't know a fucking thing about bdsm and i am now quite certain of it. i didn't think she was trying to drum up business, if i did i wouldn't have brought it to anybody's attention, fucked if i am going to help anybody's business without getting paid to do it. i brought it up solely to demonstrate my disdain for her, well that and a dash of fucking ridicule as well.

what can i say, i'm just a fucking bitch that way.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:31:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		FR......Panty sniffing comes under, fetish, kink and it also comes under the title of submission and dominance, just because you dont recognize it, doesnt mean it is not a legitimate fetish/kink/part of BDSM.
look up panty tea, I know many many lifestyle dominants that use their "aroma( or skank as some prefer) and other fluids for their submissives and play partners.
OMG but they dont charge for it, soooo does that make it more of a kink or a fetish? or less
luckily no one is the arbiter of what belongs and what doesnt.
If you gots a hate on for prodommes thats one thing and YOUR issue, having a pissy fit is YOUR issue, but it doesnt make you right about it NOT being a part of BDSM.
Or this online community.





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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:35:16 PM   
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I have to agree with greedy that this has become quite a silly little strawman argument. Matilda isn't the one who brought her business up. Plus being a pro isn't a crime. There are some regulars who never get villified for mentioning their pro-status. Hijacking her thread is really silly...


First, it is a crime in most states. Second it is not uncommon for anyone to look at someone's profile when they make a post to get a better idea of where they are coming from. Her profile primarily talks about her business selling used underwear, shoes and socks. She has now changed it. She isn't looking for a relationship, she is looking to play online and penpal games for cash.

Not only that, her "business" could prevent her admission to the bar (since she claims to be pre-law). They frown on those things.

No one has hijacked her thread, merely commented on her comment about "is this how BDSM is?" Quite frankly, if she is a pro, she must be very new and inexperienced, since she doesn't really know what goes on in her "community."

No one really cares if someone here is a pro or not. But it is irksome and dishonest when one tries to present herself as something else. Most the regulars here who are or have been pros make the discinction between, in my relationships vs. my professional life. They are NOT interchangeable.

Now she has changed her profile, so she obviously doesn't feel that she was presenting herself in a good light.

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