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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:35:19 PM

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It's still "direct", and you don't have to read a thing -- neat how that works.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:36:48 PM

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FR......Panty sniffing comes under, fetish, kink and it also comes under the title of submission and dominance, just because you dont recognize it, doesnt mean it is not a legitimate fetish/kink/part of BDSM.
look up panty tea, I know many many lifestyle dominants that use their "aroma( or skank as some prefer) and other fluids for their submissives and play partners.
OMG but they dont charge for it, soooo does that make it more of a kink or a fetish? or less
luckily no one is the arbiter of what belongs and what doesnt.
If you gots a hate on for prodommes thats one thing and YOUR issue, having a pissy fit is YOUR issue, but it doesnt make you right about it NOT being a part of BDSM.
Or this online community.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:39:06 PM

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It's still "direct", and you don't have to read a thing -- neat how that works.

A pm is direct. Answering in the forum is indirect and open to comment and observation from all. And yes, if you're reading through a thread, how do you not read what someone posts? Unless you purposely ignore certain people's posts or have them on hide. How do you un-ring a bell?

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:39:43 PM

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...twatwaffle

For a laugh, I just couldn't resist...

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:41:03 PM

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I've never sold my pantz but I've had requests for them, even before I was on kink sites......

It's actually fairly popular...

It actually IS! I've had requests too. lol

Me three. Been asked for hardly worn, really worn, pee soaked, and a few other things that gross me out too much to even type.

Me too.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:44:45 PM

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It seems to me from the last few weeks of posts by "pro-dommes" that a lot of these "pro-dommes" confuse their businesses with relationships be they casual or committed. They don't seem to understand that they are not one and the same and the terms by which either one is constructed are not interchangeable.

Business is business
Relationship is relationship

They work entirely different

The op like a few others like her seem to not get that.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:46:07 PM

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It seems to me from the last few weeks of posts by "pro-dommes" that a lot of these "pro-dommes" confuse their businesses with relationships be they casual or committed. They don't seem to understand that they are not one and the same and the terms by which either one is constructed are not interchangeable.

Business is business
Relationship is relationship

They work entirely different

The op like a few others like her seem to not get that.

Very well said.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:46:20 PM

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It's still "direct", and you don't have to read a thing -- neat how that works.

A pm is direct. Answering in the forum is indirect...

Uhh... no. Is this reply DIRECTLY to you?!! Why yes... yes it is!!! Just because others "can" see it (or comment), does not mean it's not DIRECTLY communicating with another -- again, just as I'm DIRECTLY COMMUNICATING with you.

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...if you're reading through a thread, how do you not read what someone posts? ... ignore certain people's posts or have them on hide.

You just answered your own question.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:48:04 PM

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FR

So, anyway, who wants to pay me a £1 for a pair of my skiddy shreddies? OK, that might seem a bit steep, but I do have to buy stamps and envelopes.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:54:35 PM

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So, anyway, who wants to pay me a £1 for a pair of my skiddy shreddies? OK, that might seem a bit steep, but I do have to buy stamps and envelopes.

lol I'll have to see how much that is in U.S. dollars. lol

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 3:57:15 PM

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If it aint in a pm, it is not a dialog with anyone directly... Just my opinion of course.

And your opinion is fucking daft... when one is DIRECTLY COMMUNICATING with someone (just as I'm directly communicationg WITH YOU... and identifying my commentary TO YOU) then that's communication with you "directly".

Well, I find your opinion that my opinion is daft to be daft...so there!

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:00:50 PM

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LafayetteLady - since basically everything BDSMers do is illegal in some states, why don't we all just whinge at each other for eeeeverything then?

Pfft.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:01:56 PM

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This is too funny. I liken the PM vs the Message Board to a private conversation vs talking to someone in a roomful of people. In the first, it's obvious you're in a private conversation. In the second, a person might overhear what was said because it's not in private and might even want to join the conversation.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:06:26 PM

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You'd better be running around the room while you're doing that, bitch -- those are the rules!!!

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:20:56 PM

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Panty sniffing comes under, fetish, kink and it also comes under the title of submission and dominance

oh yea, he is sooo submitting when he sends his cash, waits 2-4 weeks for delivery, opens the freezer baggie and sniffs her stale ass old panties. sorry i just don't see it, hang on, let me have a few hits off the bong and maybe i'll see it that way.

fetsish sure, bdsm? not a fucking chance.

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If you gots a hate on for prodommes thats one thing and YOUR issue

i don't, what i do have is no fucking time or patience for pay-tops who pretend they are some sort of special case or who delude themselves into thinking that what they are doing is in any way domination.

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having a pissy fit is YOUR issue

i don't have pissy fits, i just call shit the way i see it, and if you don't like what i say, that's your fucking problem. you deal with it, i don't give a flying fuck.

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but it doesnt make you right about it NOT being a part of BDSM.

it makes me right enough for my purposes, which is all that fucking matters. furthermore, just because you think it does belong doesn't make you right either.

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Or this online community.

online community? what the fuck you talking about there willis?

look, i stand by what i said before, based on her post here, her profile, and her other posts, i don't think she knows a fucking thing from real life experience, i think she's just parroting online bullshit. you disagree, that's your prerogative, i recognize and defend your right to be as wrong as you fucking well want to be.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:26:25 PM

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THIS is why *I* replied to you.

I believe she may have a marketing motivation, where you may not... so why are YOU arguing about it -- do you need everyone to share YOUR view?!! If not, then your continuing this dialog is pointless. If, however, you do need others to share YOUR views, then by all means... carry on. You'll get the same answer from me.

Ok, YOU believe that. And I don't care if she does or not. She made an interesting point in a post. it wasn't related to her pants. But now it is.

How bloody silly.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:31:57 PM

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She made an interesting point in a post.

oh yea? which one was that? that gender supremacists tend to put some really dumb ass shit in their profiles? or that the bdsm community needs to recognize that there are both dominant and submissive people?

which of these patently, absurdly obvious points did you find so interesting?

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:33:43 PM

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I liken the PM vs the Message Board to a private conversation vs talking to someone in a roomful of people.

1) You do understand that there's a vast difference between a "private" and "direct" communication, don't you?!! Also, that a DIRECT (not private) communication with another is not dependent upon if others are (i) privy to it, or (ii) able to comment, yes/no?!!

2) If you're "talking to" someone, are you not DIRECTLY communicating with them?!! Posting a general forum comment on a topic could be akin to walking up to a microphone and just talking to the room. However, when singling out a specific person, specifically addressing THEIR comment, and specifically addressing THAT person (even in a crowded room) is DIRECTLY communicating with that SPECIFIC person.

Strange how this simple concept is so confusing to some?!!

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:43:04 PM

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I liken the PM vs the Message Board to a private conversation vs talking to someone in a roomful of people.

1) You do understand that there's a vast difference between a "private" and "direct" communication, don't you?!! Also, that a DIRECT (not private) communication with another is not dependent upon if others are (i) privy to it, or (ii) able to comment, yes/no?!!

2) If you're "talking to" someone, are you not DIRECTLY communicating with them?!! Posting a general forum comment on a topic could be akin to walking up to a microphone and just talking to the room. However, when singling out a specific person, specifically addressing THEIR comment, and specifically addressing THAT person (even in a crowded room) is DIRECTLY communicating with that SPECIFIC person.

Strange how this simple concept is so confusing to some?!!

Oh for fucks sakes, get off your high horse, I was NOT speaking DIRECTLY to YOU.

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RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... - 10/23/2011 4:47:44 PM

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Highlighting the ignorance of your comment does not place one on their "high horse" -- but your lack of response to the question posed to you is telling enough that you can't actually differentiate between a "private" and "direct" communication. Oh, and so you know... this is a DIRECT communication to you. Make note of it for future reference.

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