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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 8:29:25 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: MistressLilliana

I will fully admit that this isn't a huge deal and I know everyone will tell me that if it bothers me to just move on to the next. I'm also sorry if this has been posted before but I couldn't find it in the search.

I'm simply curious if it bothers others if the subs/slaves sending you messages make tons of typos or can't spell well?

I guess it would depend. I'm sure to some the intelligence of their sub/slave wouldn't matter as long as they do as they are told but personally I want my slave to have decent intelligence. Some typos are one thing but when it's constant and they obviously aren't paying attention to what they are writing it bothers me or when they misspell words that, if they paid attention to my messages or profile, they'd know how to spell them ( for example: Martial Arts is in my profile and I mentioned it in a message but when he wrote back it was "Marshal Arts"). I can't help but cringe.


No it does not bother me at all. In fact, I laugh when I see people bitching and whining about it. Especially people that consider themselves dominant/Master/Mistress. It comes across as petty and nit picking considering it is something they have ZERO control over......the typing habits of complete strangers. The only thing they have control over is how it affects them and apparently they are allowing complete strangers to control them.

I would be upset if someone I had control over displayed an inordinate amount of stupidity via behaviour, written word, or spoken word. I would be upset at myself if I wrote a particularly fucked up something or other. I would be upset with myself if I got upset over the way some random stranger wrote. Due to recent dumbassery on here, I can attest to that as a fact.

I prefer to ignore or delete and move along, focusing on things that are actually important to me.


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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 11:24:03 AM   
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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 12:53:34 PM   
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Some of you might like to read this. It was written by someone a lot of you know and love.

https://fetlife.com/users/813352/posts/675870

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 1:49:27 PM   
MmeRegineSybille


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Status: offline 		it does not bother Me at all after all My own writing is terrible!  lack of formal education due to the gypsy lifestyle of much of My childhood left many empty places in my studies Intelligence will shine through even if writing is bad.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 1:53:06 PM   
tj444


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Status: offline 		Another thought... some people can surf CM on the iphone, i dont know if they can access the forums or not but they can reply to emails on the profile side. Apparently, and this is just what i have read since i dont have one (& there are websites on this subject).. iphones autocorrect and autospell so someone can accidentally write a horrendeous email or text from their iphone without the intent to. I guess enough people dont realize the errors until after or getting an email or text back asking about what they said.

One of the websites, for those of you that wanted a laugh today..

http://damnyouautocorrect.com/

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 4:43:20 PM   
TraciTv


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Status: offline 		I would be happy with only a few typos and grammatical errors.

I had one contact me that was so bad, and so stilted, it reminded me of nothing more of what it would be like to get email from "Astro"

You meet me
You wear heels?
You shaved smooth?
Who George Jetson?

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 8:02:52 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressLilliana

I will fully admit that this isn't a huge deal and I know everyone will tell me that if it bothers me to just move on to the next. I'm also sorry if this has been posted before but I couldn't find it in the search.

I'm simply curious if it bothers others if the subs/slaves sending you messages make tons of typos or can't spell well?

I guess it would depend. I'm sure to some the intelligence of their sub/slave wouldn't matter as long as they do as they are told but personally I want my slave to have decent intelligence. Some typos are one thing but when it's constant and they obviously aren't paying attention to what they are writing it bothers me or when they misspell words that, if they paid attention to my messages or profile, they'd know how to spell them ( for example: Martial Arts is in my profile and I mentioned it in a message but when he wrote back it was "Marshal Arts"). I can't help but cringe.


Typo's, bad spelling, improper grammar...all offend me.

I'll turn someone away abruptly if they can't conjugate or connect thoughts.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 9:25:06 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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ORIGINAL: MistressLilliana

I'm simply curious if it bothers others if the subs/slaves sending you messages make tons of typos or can't spell well?



Actually, if the typos and misspellings result because the submissive is a non-native English speaker, it's a complete turn-on for me.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/26/2011 9:39:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


Typo's, bad spelling, improper grammar...all offend me.


The plural of 'typo' is 'typos', Nook. Neener neener jelly beaner, gotcha back for baggin' on my comma use in the 'spelling police' thread.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/30/2011 4:32:02 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


Typo's, bad spelling, improper grammar...all offend me.


The plural of 'typo' is 'typos', Nook. Neener neener jelly beaner, gotcha back for baggin' on my comma use in the 'spelling police' thread.


I intend to kill myself now.

(I'm going to do it, however, with sour cream and nachos).

(GAWWWWDAMMIT.....did I fuck up nachos?).

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/30/2011 4:49:25 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I would be upset if someone I had control over displayed an inordinate amount of stupidity via behaviour, written word, or spoken word. I would be upset at myself if I wrote a particularly fucked up something or other. I would be upset with myself if I got upset over the way some random stranger wrote. Due to recent dumbassery on here, I can attest to that as a fact.

Yes, I have to agree with this. ^^^

I had a submissive at one time who, I know for a fact, used his regular computer to create his profile. He did not use an I-phone or anything like that to do it. I asked him again and againi to check a dictionary for spelling and word usage, as I felt the mistakes reflected badly on both him and myself. He apparently did not do it. Finally, I sent him a corrected copy and asked him to copy and paste it. It was not like English was not his first language. He was born and raised, and college-educated, in this country.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/31/2011 7:54:23 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		The Man can't spell at all. He has a master's in engineering as well as a MBA from Wharton. Trust me, it isn't his intelligence that is lacking. It's just that he's the total math and science mind, not a verbal type like me.

However, he uses spell check and grammar check which help but are not fool proof. If you type form instead of from, spell check lets it pass. So I proof read his business letters.


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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/31/2011 9:49:43 AM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The Man can't spell at all. He has a master's in engineering as well as a MBA from Wharton. Trust me, it isn't his intelligence that is lacking. It's just that he's the total math and science mind, not a verbal type like me.

However, he uses spell check and grammar check which help but are not fool proof. If you type form instead of from, spell check lets it pass. So I proof read his business letters.



It isnt' that intelligence is lacking, but more a matter of the person not really caring and being lazy. This is obviously not the case with your partner, since he uses spell check and has you proof his important letters.

I think the point is that if an initial email contains so many errors that it takes longer to decipher than to read, it reeks of laziness, whether it be from a dom or a sub. I would think that when people send an introductory letter in the hopes of getting a response from someone, they would want not want the response to be laughter and would take a little time to make sure it was predominantly correct.

In the case of English not being the first language, it is the first thing I check when someone writes to me and it is difficult to read or even on these boards. When it is apparent that English is not their first language, I don't pay it much mind, but when someone's first language is obviously English and they just can't be bothered to make sure it isn't filled with errors or make sense, it tells me that they are either lazy, or think that they are "special" and have no need to do that. I don't have time for either one.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/31/2011 10:07:07 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		He once wrote me a letter in which he said he loves me with all his hearth.
I can't imagine how things would have turned out had I rejected him because of this typo.
Many years later, he is still loving me with all his hearth, and anything else he wants to love me with.

Of course, spanish is his native language, but I still melt a little when telling this story,
so thank you for the opportunity to share it.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 10/31/2011 12:20:42 PM   
subrob1967


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Status: offline 		With Firefox you can add a plug in that will tell you when you misspell a word, same with IE, so I can't really understand people who don't take advantage of the tools, especially on the internet.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 11/5/2011 6:37:01 AM   
COINT


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Status: offline 		In general, it does not bother me. My love and main/real sub can not spell or use grammar very well. He does however have a degree in physics and can run circles around Me if it involves Greek letters and numbers. Which is to say, while I may be better at English grammar, he is much better at formal languages/context free grammars/mathematics. Which is more valid? Am I stupid because I am piss poor at formal languages?

I do however, detest words that are mangled for no purpose. i.e. 'like' becoming 'lyke' It does not shorten it, it is not an accident, it is just plain poor taste. Same with AlTcApS.

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RE: Does it bother you? - 11/5/2011 6:41:25 AM   
kalikshama


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In the case of English not being the first language, it is the first thing I check when someone writes to me and it is difficult to read or even on these boards. When it is apparent that English is not their first language, I don't pay it much mind, but when someone's first language is obviously English and they just can't be bothered to make sure it isn't filled with errors or make sense, it tells me that they are either lazy, or think that they are "special" and have no need to do that. I don't have time for either one.



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RE: Does it bother you? - 11/5/2011 8:06:49 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		omg, I just checked out Tj's link.. I am literally sore from laughing, and STILL wiping tears off my face!!

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RE: Does it bother you? - 11/5/2011 9:37:03 AM   
darchChylde


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omg, I just checked out Tj's link.. I am literally sore from laughing, and STILL wiping tears off my face!!


Oh my god. I can't stop reading these. I'm in pain from laughinh. My eyes are tearing up and I almost wet myself.


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RE: Does it bother you? - 11/5/2011 7:19:23 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressLilliana

I will fully admit that this isn't a huge deal and I know everyone will tell me that if it bothers me to just move on to the next. I'm also sorry if this has been posted before but I couldn't find it in the search.

I'm simply curious if it bothers others if the subs/slaves sending you messages make tons of typos or can't spell well?

I guess it would depend. I'm sure to some the intelligence of their sub/slave wouldn't matter as long as they do as they are told but personally I want my slave to have decent intelligence. Some typos are one thing but when it's constant and they obviously aren't paying attention to what they are writing it bothers me or when they misspell words that, if they paid attention to my messages or profile, they'd know how to spell them ( for example: Martial Arts is in my profile and I mentioned it in a message but when he wrote back it was "Marshal Arts"). I can't help but cringe.


I fukine hatw it whne subs or dmmoes can't spelll wel.  Itpis. me of.

Id dumb sumsnone whus coldnf spelw well.

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