LafayetteLady -> RE: Trick-or-bible (10/29/2011 10:18:08 PM)
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~fast reply~ I think people are making a big issue out of something very minor. As others have said, the dentist hands out toothbrushes, people hand out pennies (probably quarters not, that was a long time ago), fruit, whatever. If your kid was allergic to peanuts, are you going to be rude when they get a Reese's Peanut Butter cup? Of course not, you will just not let your child have it. And it IS rude, make no mistake about that. YOU (or your child) is ringing HIS doorbell, begging for a goodie. If you don't want your kid to get things you don't approve of, then keep them the hell home. Being a responsible parent, means acting in a REASONABLE manner and showing children the PROPER way to deal with people whose beliefs are different than our own. Do Jewish people make a stink if a sales clerk says, "Merry Christmas?" A reasonable person smiles, says thank you and moves on, content with the fact the sales clerk was trying to be polite. Now if the guy was going to preach, that's a different story. But honestly, I think that often times many people here are so caught up in their beliefs or lack thereof, that while they thought they were teaching their child tolerance, acceptance and social acceptance, they were way off the mark. X-raying your kids' candy? Great way to make them paranoid. Saying "no thank you" to unwanted treats? Great idea. If someone ever said that to me when I offered them whatever I was handing out for trick or treat, I would tell them they should have stayed home and had the kid knock on the doors in the house for treats.
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