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How old were you when you first thought you were a Dom or sub?

Under 10 years old

22% (20)

10-14 years old

17% (15)

15-19 years old

7% (7)

20-24 years old

6% (6)

25-29 years old

5% (5)

over 30 years old

12% (11)

I'm a Dom

13% (12)

I'm a sub

11% (10)

I'm a Switch

2% (2)

Total Votes : 88

(last vote on : 5/31/2006 6:31:26 PM)
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How old were you when you first thought you were a Dom ... - 5/25/2006 1:16:30 PM

missgiveNTake

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I am not talking about how old before you started pursuing it, just when you first felt that you were different, and knew it was not the "norm" of diffrent.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 1:20:10 PM

siouxie

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i'm a sub, and i think i was probably under ten when i realised. (to be edited when i have time!)

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 1:31:41 PM

missgiveNTake

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Thanks, I am just trying to find out at what age we are aware of our needs being different than the average.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 1:48:17 PM

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i was 8 when i knew i had desire that were different from other girls my age and 12 then they were explained to me

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 1:56:17 PM

Lidh2l

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He was 13 when he administered his first flogging, and realized in the middle of it he was probably a Dom.

She was 5 when she started punishing her dolls. We're not talking "Bad Suzie," we're talking bondage and heavy-arming. Needless to say her parents were...disturbed.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:01:30 PM

missgiveNTake

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These results make me feel that submissivness and Dominance might just be built in at birth for many people.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:11:53 PM

MasterMoody

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i was 12

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:30:30 PM

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I'm a sissy sub and I was in my middle 20s when I realized I liked people using me for their pleasure!! I've gotten more and more sub as time has gone along and I really enjoy being used!!!!

sublace

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:39:35 PM

sissysuzee

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I noticed an interest in xdressing around the age of 5 years and it was at 6 years the I felt a strange yet enjoyable urge to be tied up and punished. Of course it has been with me all my life and today I am very much a lifestyle submissive sissygirl who enjoys the company of a Dominant who loves the art of BDSM.
Submissively,
sissymaid suzee

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:41:42 PM

spankmepink11

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Not till my mid 30's. did i even know a "lifestyle" exsisted, i just always thought i was very old fashioned . knew i was kinky , and maybe a little "different" at 14

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:48:05 PM

sleazybutterfly

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i would have to say around 11 or so.. i knew i liked things a lot different...then a bit later... i used to tie myself up. (long story, but amusing and a bit hot).

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:57:19 PM

FloridaISIS

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Early 30's I was introduced to the lifestyle by a date who was submissive.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 2:59:49 PM

spectreandnectre

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i personally the submissive part of this relationship always knew something was different but had no idea it had a name until just a few years ago so i would say early 30's

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 3:01:37 PM

Bearlee

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I was over 50 and had never even heard the term BDSM, much less D/s before! But, I can see I've always been submissive. Hell, playing house as a very young girl...I always wanted to be the pet! Yup... how embarrasing is THAT? I've always wondered about it...I've only heard of one other person, a guy, who wanted to be the dog. Go figure...

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 3:05:15 PM

LaTigresse

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Oh good grief, I have ALWAYS been bossy and wanted things my way. In retrospect I can see that since I did not GET what I wanted for most of my life, up till recently I would just withdraw. When I am free to be in control and feel "myself" I am much more gregarious and outgoing. If I am in a situation I feel I have to act, I tend to disassociate and act a part. I can do that very well, after all, I have had alot of practice. It just makes for a very miserable ME. Until I discovered BDSM I was truely miserable because I knew there was something lacking, that somehow I was different, even when I had everything that was supposed to make me happy I felt empty. Learning to accept myself has been the most spiritually freeing thing imaginable.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 3:10:48 PM

HCWT1

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When i started school and had to mix with others,i knew straight away i was different."Hyde and seek" took on a hole new meaning.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 4:06:56 PM

RavenMuse

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Oh good grief, I have ALWAYS been bossy and wanted things my way.

Ditto and fought like hell to ensure I got my way too.
The first obvious thing I remember was 'playing' with a neighbours Daughter, I was about 3 she was a year or two older and our game would have put a japanese tea ceremony to shame. One mistake and I'd make her start again from scratch.

Didn't know what it was then of course but looking back its kind of obvious!

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 4:13:13 PM

acissej

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My a-ha moment came when I was about nine and I got tied up as part of some childhood game. I really wanted to be tied up again, but a friend who had been tied up with me was pretty upset by the whole thing She was so upset it made me feel weird for having liked it.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 5:37:11 PM

Lordandmaster

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I was about 3.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 5:41:35 PM

twicehappy

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I was 13 (long story as to the how and why) when i became the old lady of a biker, first time out with him i got my first taste of bdsm, my reaction was wow, more now!

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