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How old were you when you first thought you were a Dom or sub?


Under 10 years old
  22% (20)
10-14 years old
  17% (15)
15-19 years old
  7% (7)
20-24 years old
  6% (6)
25-29 years old
  5% (5)
over 30 years old
  12% (11)
I'm a Dom
  13% (12)
I'm a sub
  11% (10)
I'm a Switch
  2% (2)


Total Votes : 88
(last vote on : 5/31/2006 6:31:26 PM)
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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 5:41:42 PM   
LadyElaine


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Status: offline 		I was eight or nine.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 6:11:31 PM   
LaMalinche


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I was about 3.


I do not even remember being 3.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 6:14:58 PM   
ScooterTrash


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMalinche

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I was about 3.


I do not even remember being 3.

Best,

LaMalinche


Not to worry...I don't recall 3 either, barely maybe 4 or 5.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 6:59:24 PM   
cuddleheart50


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		under 10, its just me, my personality, who I am.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 8:30:53 PM   
Petruchio


Posts: 1615
Joined: 2/6/2005
Status: offline 		Even when I was an infant, my mother claimed I was domineering.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 8:37:22 PM   
missgiveNTake


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Status: offline 		I knew I wanted to be used at a young age myself, under ten. However, I had no clue what I wanted to be used for, just knew I wanted tied up and used....lol.

Once I experienced sex I was looking for the man to use me, like I had assumed was what it was all about. Boy, was I mistaken! I seem to have the good girl look, everyone assumes I am a "good girl" so I seemed to end up with the guys that wanted to take care of me and protect me, I just couldn't find the words to tell them differently.

In my marriage I finally found a voice to try to tell my husband what I wanted to explore, unfortunately he wouldn't go far enough. I was left wanting more and never getting it. Then we figured out our marriage was over, but we needed to stay in the same house for a few months, we agreed to some sex, because everyone needs release some. Well, he must have been mad at me once and he used me roughly. My mind was thrilled and wondered why he would never do that before, it was also the last time we had sex. So, I started exploring my desires and researching BDSM. Wow was I surprised to find it was what I was looking for all the time.

Too bad it took me so long....LOL

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 10:33:24 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		I was maybe six or seven playing cowboys and indians when I got tied to a tree.  Of course, I didn't know any of the words for it, but from that point on, I always wanted to play that game again.  And, of course, the older I got, the more elaborate the desires became.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 10:43:10 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


Posts: 5585
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Status: offline 		I should have known a long time ago given the clear hints in my speech, and the way people reacted to me:
1)I always said I wanted a man who worships the ground I walk on, when girlfriends asked what kind of man I wanted
2)I onced drove 2 hours to spend the weekend with a boyfriend; he got home from work one hour before I arrived.  We had dinner, went to bed, he went straight to sleep... After stewing for about 30 mins thinking "no he did not just go to sleep on me", I woke him up and asked if he thought I drove down to his place for 2 hours because his bed was more comfortable than mine?
3)I've intimidated men without any effort (just standing there, or when I sometimes speak up), which has always surprised me because I'm rather timid/shy generally when I don't know my surroundings.
4)I've always wanted to have him be open minded and experimental, and even not knowing I was dominant, I've never done well with excessively traditional/conservative folks.    M

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/25/2006 10:49:02 PM   
shyXscifi


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From: Rhode Island
Status: offline 		When I was 6 or 7, I made up these elaborate stories about how Bad!Ken would kidnap Barbie from Good!Ken (I had so many dolls...) and tie her up and force her to do whatever he said. In the end, when Good!Ken came to rescue Barbie, she would have decided to stay with Bad!Ken. Sometimes I wonder what my parents thought about me when they walked in on me narating these stories.

It was when I was thinking about my little stories in bed that I experienced my first orgasm. I didn't understand it at the time, but every night after that I would think about what it would be like to be Barbie in my stories.

When I was 14 I found out that I wasn't alone and I began to understand what it all meant. But looking back, it really started for me at a very young age.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/27/2006 5:57:05 AM   
Manawyddan


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From: Petaluma (Northern California)
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly
i would have to say around 11 or so.. i knew i liked things a lot different...then a bit later...  i used to tie myself up.  (long story, but amusing and a bit hot).


Pfft ... so tell.

My first clear memories of having dom fantasies were at age 10. I may have had them before that, however.


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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/27/2006 6:05:53 AM   
talltxsub


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Joined: 11/10/2005
Status: offline 		About 8 years old, when a sister and her girlfriend put me in a dress, put makeup on me, tied me up, taught me things to do with my mouth

and i LOVED it.

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/27/2006 3:48:09 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: talltxsub
About 8 years old, when a sister and her girlfriend put me in a dress, put makeup on me, tied me up, taught me things to do with my mouth
Wow!
 
Anyway, with all these clues
quote:

1)I always said I wanted a man who worships the ground I walk on, when girlfriends asked what kind of man I wanted
2)I onced drove 2 hours to spend the weekend with a boyfriend; he got home from work one hour before I arrived.  We had dinner, went to bed, he went straight to sleep... After stewing for about 30 mins thinking "no he did not just go to sleep on me", I woke him up and asked if he thought I drove down to his place for 2 hours because his bed was more comfortable than mine?
3)I've intimidated men without any effort (just standing there, or when I sometimes speak up), which has always surprised me because I'm rather timid/shy generally when I don't know my surroundings.
4)I've always wanted to have him be open minded and experimental, and even not knowing I was dominant, I've never done well with excessively traditional/conservative folks
I was so surrounded by male domination theme that I never sought to figure out why having to be submissive to someone simply because he had a penis chafed my a**...  I didn't seriously buy a clue until after I began analizing my relationship issues, patterns and dysfunctions, to realize a common theme; it began with me at 35, chatting with boys online who were begging to be my servants/submissives/slaves, my introspection as to what would bring harmony and joy withing a relationship, and my beginning to read about D/s and feeling like a huge burden was lifted from me.   M

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RE: How old were you when you first thought you were a ... - 5/27/2006 7:10:59 PM   
MasterRenegade77


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Joined: 1/1/2004
From: Upstate N.Y. (Broome Co.)
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I've been a Dom since birth, but it wasn't till I was 17 that I could really put a name too it... When I was young all this was taboo, hence My delay

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