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slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a do... - 5/25/2006 6:01:40 PM

dogobedience

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Prior to the internet, ALL I had was kinky sex slaves. We did ALMOST EVERYTHING that people do in the lifestyle. Other that extreme whipping, or anything that would leave longterm marks. But it was limited to the bedroom!! I always longed for total property 24/7/365 who lived for it as I did AND DO.

Many girls would "PLAY ALONG" outside the bedroom, but it was play. I always felt unfulfilled. During play it was great and daily, however it was simply kinky sex play. NOTHING MORE!!

I did it with each girl I dated and or lived with, all are bi I had a GREAT TIME......and felt hollow afterwards always.

THEN the internet came along, WOW real girls who wanted some form of the lifestyle and NOT ONLY IN THE BEDROOM, WOW!!!!!!!!!

NOW MY QUESTION, how many of you all (it is ok to say that here in Texas!) both men and women are just here for KINKY SEX and pretend to want all that the lifestyle offers? Will I get lies from doms, and you are right from parttime slaves?

I often tell girls, give your guy 2-4 BJ's in a row (or as many as he can do in a short period) AND SEE HOW DOM HE IS THEN. If I never had sex again, I would still give up all I had to be with real property.......I bet few are here for that.prove me wrong!!!!!!! I hope I am wrong!!!!!!!!!

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:08:35 PM

juliaoceania

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I think everyone has a different idea of what 24-7 means. My idea of it might make me look like a "sexual submissive" to some, and like a TPE slave to others. So you would have to even define what you mean by 24-7 to everyone on this site to see if we are even on the same page.

I think of 24-7 as a mindset. It is in the minds of those doing it... I do not know what you mean by this term. So if you can define it for us perhaps we can answer the question... I certainly can't answer it as it is.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:14:11 PM

dogobedience

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24/7,skip that part...............for now.

I mean a slave always, NOT ONLY IN THE BEDROOM......

ty for the update !!

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:17:18 PM

juliaoceania

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Well no I am not a slave, I am always a submissive even though I am not collared

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:20:21 PM

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If all a sub/slave was interested in was the kinky/sex part....I'd have to throw them back. Our slave is 24/7, live in...she is part of the family and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:21:43 PM

dogobedience

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slave/sub/bottom/other..........great you are fulltime, not only in the bedroom and or during sex, great !!!

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:23:50 PM

twicehappy

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Hmmmm, ok delicacy is out the window on this one.

I have blown my Master (ScooterTrash) 4 times in about a 13 hour time period and he was the same Dom after each and every time. No change in anything, not his attitude, not in what he expected from me by way of my other duties or service to my Mistress (ShiftedJewel). Nor would i have expected a change in any regard.

There really are those of us out there for whom the M/s is a genuine lifestyle, i serve both my owners no compromises irregardless of the situation. Even their grown children know how we live and hear me address them as Master or Mistress.

The kinky sex is great, we all love it, but that is not really what our life is about.
Hang in there you will find your property.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 6:26:59 PM

dogobedience

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I LOVE TO HEAR ABOUT GREAT SITUATIONS!!!!!!

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 7:27:02 PM

dogobedience

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well a very cutting post

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 7:41:37 PM

zumala

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My situation's not typical. I'd submit to my husband 24/7 as his submissive if that was what he wanted. Since he's also mostly submissive, I just play the role of submissive wife. I choose to submit whenever I see the opportunity present itself, but I don't make my personal thoughts known. No point in putting undue pressure on him to be my Dom when he just isn't one by nature. He does what he can for me.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/25/2006 7:50:39 PM

dogobedience

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an intelligent answer from an intelligent girl

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 1:36:25 AM

RavenMuse

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Sex is fun, Kinky sex is more fun.... but a girl who is yours in all aspects of life.... OK it maybe corny and I certainly don't need it in order to be content with life.... but to be happy, yes.

Dominant isn't a hat I wear to play, not just a role I perform in the bedroom, it is simply who I am. OK others are not wired like that, they can do the vanilla thing in one setting and D/s in another, I can't. I am just as much her Master and she is mine in every way even if all we are doing is the shopping.

It is the dynamic of the relationship, not simply a kinky twist to it.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 1:48:37 AM

becca333

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I think everyone has a different idea of what 24-7 means. My idea of it might make me look like a "sexual submissive" to some, and like a TPE slave to others. So you would have to even define what you mean by 24-7 to everyone on this site to see if we are even on the same page.

I think of 24-7 as a mindset. It is in the minds of those doing it... I do not know what you mean by this term. So if you can define it for us perhaps we can answer the question... I certainly can't answer it as it is.

I agree, it's the mindset. I can't be with my Dom 24/7, but when I entered this lifestyle I changed so much in the way I relate to others, and to the world around me. And other people respond to me differently, too. It's not a game, it's a way of thinking and feeling, and not being afraid to be your true self.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 2:00:27 AM

BlkTallFullfig

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quote:

NOW MY QUESTION, how many of you all (it is ok to say that here in Texas!) both men and women are just here for KINKY SEX and pretend to want all that the lifestyle offers? Will I get lies from doms, and you are right from parttime slaves?

I'm not at all interested in a D/s relationship if he doesn't submit outside of the bedroom, because to me, it isn't D/s (or M/s), and he's not submitting...
Kinky sex I believe is easy enough to get with any partner, and not too much work on my part.

M

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 2:52:14 AM

shivvy

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i agree, that being a submissive is just who you are. in the bedroom, the kitchen, the lounge, at work, taking kidz to school... it's not an act or a game, it's just you.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 5:35:38 AM

twicehappy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

Kinky sex I believe is easy enough to get with any partner, and not too much work on my part. M

Exactly and well said, just like the little girl in the joke" with one of these i can get all of those i want".

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 5:46:37 AM

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I don't 'play a role', I am submissive. If it were just for kinky sex, that would be so much more easy to find.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 5:59:37 AM

candystripper

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quote:

Sex is fun, Kinky sex is more fun.... but a girl who is yours in all aspects of life.... OK it maybe corny and I certainly don't need it in order to be content with life.... but to be happy, yes.

Dominant isn't a hat I wear to play, not just a role I perform in the bedroom, it is simply who I am. OK others are not wired like that, they can do the vanilla thing in one setting and D/s in another, I can't. I am just as much her Master and she is mine in every way even if all we are doing is the shopping.

It is the dynamic of the relationship, not simply a kinky twist to it.

RavenMuse

i have been submissive all my life, but didn't learn of BDSM until two years ago, via the 'net. Until then, i thought i was a weak, insecure woman who just could not get her collective s**t together to "bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan" when relating to Men, particularly Men i found powerful.

<Personal power, not wealth or political power.>

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< Message edited by candystripper -- 5/26/2006 6:01:20 AM >

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 6:14:39 AM

meatcleaver

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I don't think I've made any secret of the fact that I'm only in it for hedonism and kinky sex. Years ago I had something of a BDSM relationship but never had the language. Then came my bete noir who claimed to be submissive, honest, trustworthy and full of intergrity, the whole damn bag full of life style platitudes. She really won me over. I threw a fortune away to be with her and then she told me to basically fuck off. That made me reassess everything and realised no one was worth losing a night's sleep over, never mind one's future. Now I go to events, munches, fairs etc and play. I've more than once questioned the D/s dynamic on these threads and I've no intention of going there. I don't do online so I guess I'm only here for the threads.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 6:21:15 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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I'm open to both/all types of connections.

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