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personally, this slave doesn't really understand why you attempted to justify what you did or why it had to (and still has to, obviously) be the topic of so many of your posts.

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My Karma Account is huge, but I just can't seem to make a withdrawal!!

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ORIGINAL: LaMalinche

Dear Fastlane,

This horse is dead.  You can stop flogging it at any time. 

We all do things in our lives that we are not particularly proud of.  The important thing is to learn from it and not create the same situation for yourself again.

Fastlane, you are a good person, you write touching posts about your sons, and you are always ready with something positive to say when people hook up. 

You do make a lot of smart-assed comments on the board, but not I think in the spirit of meanness.

I hope that you are able to move beyond this soon.  Give yourself absolution, and remember what you learned.

Oh, and if others want to keep giving you grief about it. . . Well KILL them.  At least ignore them, they will go away soon enough.  The block button is wonderful that way.

Best,

LaMalinche

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Well, I have forgave myself, yes. As for being forgiven by the two, I don't know? I have apologized to them both privately and publicly and have wished them both well in their search for happiness. I have told them both that I did not intend to hurt either of them and I'm sorry for the way I handled the situation.
I had stated earlier on this thread that I was venting by something that was said towards me and probably should have just kept it to myself instead of spewing.
I don't consider myself as having a fan club and I don't need my EGO stroked either. I have some friends here and I enjoy very much posting here. Yes, many of my post are one liner's and meant to make people smile. What is wrong with that? I don't tend to pass judgement on to others, especially in a situation in which there are many sides and angles with only three people that know the truth. I have not seen or heard anyone come out and say how I made them a victim guys and I'm certainly not laying any groundwork as you may suggest?. My contacts here are very limited and I don't expect that to change. I'm not going to return to this thread again, but before I leave it I will say one thing that you have stated correctly. I could have let this thing die out and yet I revived it....again. Why, knowing that things like what you and LA have stated would be said? Well, I'll tell you why. It is my way of dealing with it. It is my way of dealing with something that still hurts, when things are assumed about me. It is my way of saying that what happened was unfortuneate but was blown way out of proportion. It's my way of seeing just how many "saints" we have on this board and how many people who are so quick to judge without revealing any of there on skeletons. It's my way of making amends to the two that felt so betrayed by me and to show them that I am still sorry and it does still bother me greatly.
It is just how I am, human, flawed, but sincere.         Kevin

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ORIGINAL: DesertRat

[As an aside, I am wondering: Why is this thread in this particular forum, anyway? Is this the "room of maximum sympathy", or something? It would go better in the "Off Topic" section, along with all that other past stuff.]