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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

You know, sometime we come down on people because we care about them and want them to stop self-destructive habits.

I've been here through some of the bad moments, Kevin, and one thing I noticed was that a lot of us recognized your heart, and your lack of malice. We've often told you so, so stop beating yourself up.

Move on, learn and grow.

You're part of this dysfunctional family...so enjoy!

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'd post the link to the thread that had all the "original" drama on it, but my search function isn't working right now.

Fastlane- you had a big cyber blow up that was quite public and quite nasty.  Before that you had major cyber open flirting which simply fueled the fire and let everyone know who they players were when the drama broke out.

And since then, no one has seen much change in you- posts about going poly, wanting new people, not sure of where to go, as well as your clear pattern of 95% of the time posting only one liner humorous type posts that don't add anything but fluff.  You aren't really projecting an attitude of someone who knows what's going on, where he wants to go and how he's going to get there.

Even with all of that- no one would really care.  If I left this site tomorrow and came back in a month, maybe 3 people would notice and care.  A few would be happy.  But, no one is really THAT important online.  As you can see here, hardly anyone even remembers the original drama fest that you had going. 

You're the one who keeps bringing it up, you're the one who remains trapped by your habits.

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If nothing has been learned from the past except for regrets, then maybe the past bears humble, reflective, private revisiting... not another public rant.

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Maybe some here are wondering if you are human, flawed, sincere and reformed, or just 3 out of 4.