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Hillwilliam -> Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 6:05:30 AM)

I know folks, your kink isnt my kink but hear me out here.

Lately, Ive noticed some slave profiles popping up and I check them out (I perve profiles imagine that) and Ive noticed lately people who identify as slaves that state they will do NO housework.
Have the Nigerian scammers gotten that stupid now?
I mean, seriously, who would send relocation money to some overseas bint with the expectation that when the vacuum needs to be run or dishes need to be washed that she's gonna lay on the couch in a neglige eating truffles while you do it. But but but, you get a blowjob afterwards. (OK, maybe Ron would).

Has anyone else noticed that or any other limits you would term unusual in 'slaves'? (sex acts that may have a traumatic past involved and therefore are off limits are not eligible for this list unless it's just a blanket "no sex")



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:12:21 AM)

i think i've actually seen weirder limits on Dominant profiles -- like can you really say an art gallery is a hard limit? hahaha



GreedyTop -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:13:24 AM)

I saw one once that said something like "I refuse to pick your icky underwear off the floor or put them in the washer".. not word for word, but that is what it amounted to..



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:13:57 AM)

That entirely depends on what they want to get up to in an art gallery.
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i think i've actually seen weirder limits on Dominant profiles -- like can you really say an art gallery is a hard limit? hahaha





Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:16:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i think i've actually seen weirder limits on Dominant profiles -- like can you really say an art gallery is a hard limit? hahaha


It depends. Modern or fine art?



littlewonder -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:16:35 AM)

I can see why some would say no housework as a limit. Many people put strange things as a limit because they usually don't see bdsm as extending beyond the bedroom. For most people I suspect they see bdsm as nothing more than a sex game and that's it. Otherwise you do your own laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc...

Also sometimes what you see as a strange hard limits, it may be something that caused them some kind of trauma in their past...the smell of a certain something or even just touching or looking at something. I have an aunt who if she even SEES a cat she is in tears and screaming at the top of her lungs...don't know why but she does. At first I thought it was funny and she was over-exaggerating but my brother said she does this all the time. She's just deathly afraid of cats.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:19:53 AM)

That's why I specified slaves wonder. To me, slavery extends outside the bedroom. I mean, I dont expect a casual bedroom sub play partner to come over and do my laundry and mop floors when I'm at work but if I have a live-in slave, I'm NOT gonna be the one doing the dishes and vacuuming.



MissImmortalPain -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:19:57 AM)

Oh how much do we get to say before we get slammed for saying anything at all. Yeah I have noticed it's not new. At least not from my point of view. It's up there with the "slave" guys that run off their kinks, say they don't want/will do minimal work but for some reason still think they are "slaves". Some people seem to feel if they are getting their kink you must be getting yours as well even if their kink and yours aren't the same. Some seem to think that trading sex for ..well anything...means they can sit on their butt like a bump on a frog too.



Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:21:25 AM)

You're prob right there MIP. I just don't look at a lot of guy's profiles for some reason so I don't see the other side.



littlewonder -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:21:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

That's why I specified slaves wonder. To me, slavery extends outside the bedroom. I mean, I dont expect a casual bedroom sub play partner to come over and do my laundry and mop floors when I'm at work but if I have a live-in slave, I'm NOT gonna be the one doing the dishes and vacuuming.


I don't think a lot of those types of profiles with such limits that you come across differentiate between sub and slave. To many people they are one and the same, there is no difference.




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:23:19 AM)

I might be pissing into the wind with this one but the exchange between Domme & sub has to extend beyond the bedroom just like in nilla shizzle each half of the relationship does stuff to help & please the other.
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Oh how much do we get to say before we get slammed for saying anything at all. Yeah I have noticed it's not new. At least not from my point of view. It's up there with the "slave" guys that run off their kinks, say they don't want/will do minimal work but for some reason still think they are "slaves". Some people seem to feel if they are getting their kink you must be getting yours as well even if their kink and yours aren't the same. Some seem to think that trading sex for ..well anything...means they can sit on their butt like a bump on a frog too.




GreedyTop -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:24:24 AM)

depends on the people, Nine..



xxblushesxx -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:25:53 AM)

I think I have housework as one of my hard limits. It was a joke.



Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:25:56 AM)

I cant post em here as it was a look, laff and go on to the next one case when I see them but they typically specify "Slave" wonder. Maybe they don't know the difference. My suspicion is they're scammers looking for relo money from someone desparate and dumb.



Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:27:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I think I have housework as one of my hard limits. It was a joke.

You do. shame on you. I have a feeling you do it for your SO tho.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:27:11 AM)

Furry muff
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

depends on the people, Nine..




xxblushesxx -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:29:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I think I have housework as one of my hard limits. It was a joke.

You do. shame on you. I have a feeling you do it for your SO tho.


Not all of it. In my defense he's a bit fussy...[:-][8|]



myotherself -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:30:14 AM)

lol - for a while I had housework as a hard limit, particularly after a first visit to a guy's house. We had met online, met in real life a couple of times and seemed to get on well. I made it clear that for him I was 'sub' not 'slave' (no real M/s vibe).

So the first time...I arrived. Dressed all purty in a dress and heels. Got through the door. Was told to pour drinks. Did so.

Then I was told to hold his drink to his mouth and feed him the wine. Ermmm...ok....

There was a plate of grapes next to the sofa. I was told to feed him grapes. Riiiiiight...

After a couple of drinks he asked for the phone. He called up a local indian takeaway. Ordered one meal. One.

I asked him if he'd already eaten. He said the food was for him, and if I did a good enough job of cleaning his bathroom, then there was some yogurt in the fridge.

I just stared at him. I got up, looked at the bathroom and nearly puked my lunch. There was a dark brown crusty ring on the floor beneath the toilet that extended a full foot away from the bowl. And embedded in this stale piss-crust was enough pubes to stuff a mattress.

The shower curtain had started off pale blue, but was thick black mould halfway up its length. The bath...well, let's just say it would need to be sandblasted before the Mr Muscle could come out.

I picked up my bag and my coat and left without a word.

But even more weirdly - he called the next day to say he'd enjoyed himself and when did I want to come over again?!



Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:32:38 AM)

posted on the wrong thread



kalikshama -> RE: Slaves with 'wierd' limits. (11/5/2011 7:35:09 AM)

Duh, she wants to be concubine to the sultan, not odalisque.

quote:

That's why I specified slaves wonder. To me, slavery extends outside the bedroom. I mean, I dont expect a casual bedroom sub play partner to come over and do my laundry and mop floors when I'm at work but if I have a live-in slave, I'm NOT gonna be the one doing the dishes and vacuuming.



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