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Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 9:22:03 AM)

LMAO. What's the 1st thing you see when you log on? Beware money scams. Well Duh! Fleece the muppets I say.



tj444 -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 9:32:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I know that look!

So if I start sending emails asking for carrtons of copy paper, do you think it could work? I could shop somestranger onto pics of Ghita...get her some oil for the trucks, and a load of pea gravel, maybe...

I haven't thought this through properly, I know...when money dudes write me (which they do, bless them) and I say Send $25 to Charity X and send me the receipt, they get all huffy.

I fail at the interwebs.[&o]

lol The money dudes want to see a pic of you modelling that sexy lingerie they bought from your Amazon wishlist.. giving to a charity just dont do the same thing for them, ya know.. [:D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 9:37:58 AM)

Yeah I know it... food banks hold no glamour!

Yeeeeears ago a foot guy I chatted with sent me pedicure money, Just Because! Really sweet, and I had no problem telling him about my pedicure.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 9:40:03 AM)

Hell I wanna see that too!
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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I know that look!

So if I start sending emails asking for carrtons of copy paper, do you think it could work? I could shop somestranger onto pics of Ghita...get her some oil for the trucks, and a load of pea gravel, maybe...

I haven't thought this through properly, I know...when money dudes write me (which they do, bless them) and I say Send $25 to Charity X and send me the receipt, they get all huffy.

I fail at the interwebs.[&o]

lol The money dudes want to see a pic of you modelling that sexy lingerie they bought from your Amazon wishlist.. giving to a charity just dont do the same thing for them, ya know.. [:D]




darchChylde -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:07:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i do imagine it sucks for dudes like Peon and NineBelow, Roch, Darch, et al to see another "sub men are annoying!! -- oh but you're one of the good ones!" type of threads..............



I got here late.  To be honest, it doesn't really bother me.  I found out, that in the real world even; that most unowned men who call themselves submissive are actually mostly do-me wankers who will kneel to every woman in tall boots and a bustier without a thought of what she might be looking for in initial conversation.

I've actual seen one kneel and grovel to a woman whilst trying to introduce himself, with the obvious tell-tale motion of masturbating under his coat.

So, my opinion of submissive men is generally very low.  Most, if they're not inconsiderate wankers, are the kind of perpetual victim "everyone's bitch" that really turn me off and make me want to punch them in the throat.  How dare you make me look so damned good in comparison?  No wonder I am often mistaken for a dominant when I go to a social or something in the real world.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

A question for the menz: do you get spammed by money gals? Or just the endless parade of them on your feed?


Seldom do I get approached here by a dominant woman looking, big surprise.  Unless they just want to complement me or know me from the forums.  But the amount of male from submissive women who either want me to dominate them or would just like a friendly snuggle is ridiculous.

Though I must admit that I met a local submissive woman from this site who just wanted a movie/snuggle date.  We had a good time, it became a what movie?, this is fun sex date.  She's now a good friend in real time and has been a great comfort during some of my more difficult times.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:21:33 AM)

another coffee everywhere post. Thanks very funny.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:23:17 AM)

Wow! I leave the thread to sleep for the night and it mushroomed into three pages!! [:D]
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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu
To get the full Domme-on experience, did you actually respond to any unsuitable msgs, to bask in the curse-riddled misspelt threatening replies when you write 'Thanks very much but no thanks'?
Until you get the '**** you, you *****-******* ****, you should **** **** and die, you **** ******* *****' msgs, it's just Domme-light.

haha Well, yes, I actually did reply to all of them. Which was really hard because there were a LOT. Most of them, like I say, were very polite, obviously read my profile, and used proper spelling and grammar. I've tried to redirect the wankers among them and, so far, it hasn't worked. Haven't checked that cmail yet today to see if I'm supposed to F off yet. lol
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
On the one hand it does indeed suck to see another one of these 'aren't males terrible' threads - it's always a little depressing. On the other, well, some people may remember my experiment with LadyNTrainer, in which she gave me access to an account she'd once used. It wasn't so much the offensiveness of the people who'd contacted her, or the stupidity - it was the coldness. It was an ugly experience.

In all fairness though, I did say that "for the most part, the guys were very polite and most referenced something that I said in my profile, so I know they read it. That and they were listed on my Viewed Me page, which means, theoretically, that they read my whole profile or at least looked at it." And they really are nice guys for the most part. I really was not intending for this to turn into a bash the male subs thread. I think I may have made a mistake starting it?



Lockit -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:29:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i am confused by people who don't read profiles. personally, i really like to read them, too.

there are a lot of profiles by dominant men that are a few lines about "job = no pics. be skinny and real." so maybe it's not just sub men, but a difference in male/female psychology.

a lot of women have long profiles, and journals too. a lot of men have short ones. maybe if profiles are so long, they zone out. =p i've pondered shortening mine.



I've done all sorts of things with my profile either because I get tired of the current one or think of something I would rather highlight and then there were times I changed it just to see what the response would be. (The funniest responses were to my hard core... you worthless pigs. Hehe) I've had as little as a paragraph or as lengthy as mine is now. Those that aren't reading, will even fail to read a paragraph. [:D] I've found that the more detail I put in it, helps me to weed people out that do read and wouldn't be interested for one reason or another. I can always see when someone hasn't read, but shows up on the who's viewed me list, because they say something that proves they didn't read. I can always tell them to go read the profile when they come at me with all the questions that are actually answered in the profile, but by then, I am not interested. If they can't take the time to get to know someone they want to meet their kinky needs... good for me, less time spent on time wasters.

On the plus side, those that are serious and sincere have enjoyed the information and I get a lot of compliments, whether it is someone interested in me or not, on things that I say and what type of dominant I am. I'm sticking with the long profiles that are easier for me and if they don't like it... they wouldn't like me in person. [;)]



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:37:44 AM)

all good points Lockit =p 



Tantriqu -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:48:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
On the one hand it does indeed suck to see another one of these 'aren't males terrible' threads - it's always a little depressing.

Not my intention; there are some LOVELY sub men on here :-D.
It's just that there are far more who aren't either, and they're the most vocal, including a couple of recent psychopathic examples.
I suppose it just makes the fabulous ones shine out the brighter against the muck and the darkness, as long as they don't get buried [anyone seen 'Black Book'?].



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 10:51:53 AM)

Yes I have & get your point exactly.
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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
On the one hand it does indeed suck to see another one of these 'aren't males terrible' threads - it's always a little depressing.

Not my intention; there are some LOVELY sub men on here :-D.
It's just that there are far more who aren't either, and they're the most vocal, including a couple of recent psychopathic examples.
I suppose it just makes the fabulous ones shine out the brighter against the muck and the darkness, as long as they don't get buried [anyone seen 'Black Book'?].





LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:03:02 AM)

I've gone the opposite route from Lockit and used few words. It's worked! I sometimes wonder which of the words scare them off..is it "princess"? Or The Dreaded Grey Parrot? :)

~wouldn't mind a friendly snuggle from a few of the menz here~

I wish I didn't share your opinon of many of the self-styled submissve men, Darch. I've lost count of the frustrating conversations I've had with men who were so utterly bonded to their fantasy that they seemed robotic. But Real Life bears it out. Hence all the fantasy gals raking in the benjamins. It's a vicious cycle. What's sad is when the men are actually decent guys who would be good companions if they would wake up and see past the DOMINANT to the woman. Fantasies must be more fun.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:10:41 AM)

I think there are a few who see the relationship as the prime mover & kink as a benefit while still being an intrinsic part of it.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:20:35 AM)

Maybe, Nine. I'm thinkng about this sweet man who was with a local lady for awhile. He said he was "owned", a word that makes leatherfolk cringe when it's misused. Basically, he was *sexually* owned, and got to be the fucktoy du juour as long as he was entertaining. I wanted to shake him and say look! This is not all there is!! But what's n Auntie to do, it's a world of folks, and I am out of the rescuing biz.



darchChylde -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:21:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~wouldn't mind a friendly snuggle from a few of the menz here~



Warning, very seldom is it that my friendly snuggles do not become very friendly snogs, or at least some fun exploring... i actually love the snuggling and the exploring much more than the sex, but i've found that a woman can only be pushed so far without getting her satisfaction

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

it's a world of folks, and I am out of the rescuing biz.


Do you at least still have the tights?

Sorry, I'm feeling very randy today... just set up my first date to Venus when I get back to LA



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:24:11 AM)

Heh. Dude, you think I don't know that? YOU'RE A GUY. [:D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:25:19 AM)

And yes, I still have the fishnets.



darchChylde -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:27:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Heh. Dude, you think I don't know that? YOU'RE A GUY. [:D]


Hey, I am actually never the one who initiates touching anything covered by a standard bikini... i have slept nude with attractive women and manage to never put my hands anywhere naughty... even if it was very obvious that i was interested... snuggling is better than sex, in my opinion; much less pressure



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:28:17 AM)

Best get on the big bird over here then.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

And yes, I still have the fishnets.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme's Inboxes........ (11/6/2011 11:40:15 AM)

Nine, sweetie, you dig that I'm all about Peon, right? But you can send me a plane ticket...heaven knows there's not much happening here!



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