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A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 11:41:42 AM

Deceptakon

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I have been on this site for around 5 years now. Kept the basic ideal of my profile but have changed it 5 different times on here, due to not being replied too enough to keep the effort on going.

I have wrote a recent journal, that I would love for each an everyone of you to read. Feed back upon such can be emailed or written here on this thread. Regardless of such, I do ask you to limit your negative opinions and realize this is me pouring myself into text, and to come on here and say something other than positive or helpful, would be just showing your hand and exposing some sort of hidden agenda inside you. They have games for that, I swear.

Again, the journal entry is on my profile, enjoy and thank you.

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1251278/details.htm

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 11:54:01 AM

Lockit

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If you cannot figure out if your profile is good... how do you expect to lead another human being?

My agenda... well... to be a mean old woman picking on dominant men that ask questions for attention to up their viewer list numbers, over something that is pretty basic and I saw nothing wrong with... and not fall in line with what they ordered.

Did you see my hand? Watch it closely... it might just whack you up side the head without you even seeing it was coming. That was my true agenda.

Just another man hating dominant bitch... Good day...

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 11:56:44 AM

myotherself

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The profile is fine, but to be honest the journal would turn me off.

There are soooo many male profiles which do a bit of a rant in varying degrees of eloquence.

It's not easy to find someone on here - it took me 8 years on here and other sites to find the man I have now. One of the things I did was to pass by anyone who had a negative profile. I don't need negativity in my life, and I guess others may feel the same.

Also, your bit about not contacting anyone - well, that's not going to make things any easier for you. I contacted guys, but mostly they contacted me. It is a numbers game - women get a lot of mail when they're new, but it does tail off. A nice message from a nice guy always catches my attention.

The ones with a good profile and a nice line in chat were the ones I responded to, and ultimately met.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 11:59:41 AM

Deceptakon

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Awesome, thank you for replying, Although, you feel as if you already know who I am just like the rest of the sub missives and subs.

I am not asking if my profile is good enough, I am asking why we as a human race feel we know everything, to the point we can easily and instantly know who is shit and who is gold...

Sorry that I appear as shit to you, but again grouping me in some sort of imaginary box, is kinda showing what kinda person you are inside, which I really don't know you, but isn't seeming pretty.

If you read that I didn't want the negative comments, and posted anyways, you are just proving to be one of the mentioned in my journal entry.

I am glad you have reading skills, an a opinionated sense of self, there are plenty of house boys who need house breaking that your attentions will be better focused on.

Do have a great day.
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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:03:51 PM

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I agree with what you said, but also after 5 years being on this site, I've done many of what you mentioned, and I'm just not pressed to spend another 5 years doing the same.

The ratio game is not worth it in my honest opinion. Didn't work well when I was in High school, Air force, or College, internet is just all 3 combined with 2 million other things. That journal was my closing argument to my profile and attendance here.

But thank you for the reply.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:04:26 PM

Lockit

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Ohhh so this is what you were really asking. Well then... why didn't you say so?

I am not asking if my profile is good enough, I am asking why we as a human race feel we know everything, to the point we can easily and instantly know who is shit and who is gold...

So if people don't answer your question... and the one you said was really the question... and do it the way you instruct, they are... bad.

Well shit... many already know I'm bad... but really... I'd rather be bad than a bit clueless and then change the story. The dominant directives given in threads, is hardly ever worth the ink its posted with. I just thought it funny that you would try.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:08:57 PM

myotherself

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*shrugs*

Your choice.

If you give up now, you choose not to find what you're looking for.

I guess life is all about choices.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:10:55 PM

Deceptakon

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No the negative undertone is never worth the reply, nor the read.

If you would of came on and wrote in a more ( you met me on the side of the road passing ) than maybe I wouldn't be so quick to defend. Is kinda why I mentioned DO NOT feed me your Negative comments. I've had enuff of them to build a jail to house all of you in. :)

And if you're talking about following directions, you kinda didn't based on not reading that one crucial part and still interjecting as you saw fit. Thought that was number one of following directions?

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:11:13 PM

littlewonder

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so you don't want any negative comments, only positive ones but yet you want us to critique your profile...how the hell do you do that without any negative comments unless you just want us all to just agree with every single word you have written.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:13:04 PM

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Not that I am giving up, I am just realizing this isn't the place to find any remote inking of what I am looking for / would even want to be around. If these replies are any sort of an impression of others on here, kinda leaves me to know I have it right to bounce off this site for good.

Collarme is a place where WOMEN find what they are looking for. Men too if they are after Men.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:14:57 PM

Lockit

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Deceptakon

No the negative undertone is never worth the reply, nor the read.

If you would of came on and wrote in a more ( you met me on the side of the road passing ) than maybe I wouldn't be so quick to defend. Is kinda why I mentioned DO NOT feed me your Negative comments. I've had enuff of them to build a jail to house all of you in. :)

And if you're talking about following directions, you kinda didn't based on not reading that one crucial part and still interjecting as you saw fit. Thought that was number one of following directions?

I obey no man... Its okay, you are not a failure in dominance. Its your general attitude that is a failure.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:15:55 PM

Deceptakon

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When teaching a class, you don't teach by telling everyone how they are fucking up, You point out what they are lacking in, or otherwise not maybe getting to heart and explain it a bit better in a sense maybe they would be able to understand better.

I have never heard of pouring negative comments into someone's ear and having them do better in life, for the most part that just depresses some, and makes others see it as a means of spite or just being rude.

Teachers, professors and Any other job that instructs, helps people everyday without calling negative interjections into the mix.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:17:12 PM

Deceptakon

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I am sure we can agree on disagreeing.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:17:21 PM

Lockit

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So the dominant came to be taught after all. Got it.

Dude... if you think I'm bad... wait until some of the submissives get to you!

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:17:56 PM

myotherself

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Deceptakon

Collarme is a place where WOMEN find what they are looking for. Men too if they are after Men.

I'll be sure to mention that to Master next time I see him.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:25:59 PM

Deceptakon

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Do you just talk for the sake of talking?

I don't think you're bad, just immature and petty.

Honestly, who the fuck died and made you queen of the damned?
Just move on to another post that appeals to you, since mine is so appealing yet you depise me so much, I almost feel some love here.

And to be taught by you would be to undo everything I have already learned. I treat people with respect, regardless of who they are. This will be the last thing I say to you,

Please grow up, people do exist that are real to themselves, and real to others. When people ask for help, they are not asking for a headache and the loudest mouth.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:27:12 PM

Deceptakon

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Sounds good
I didn't say it was a concrete idea, just that it wasn't a probable one.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:32:59 PM

hlen5

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Nevermind.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:35:51 PM

Lockit

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NM too! lol

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/19/2011 12:37:08 PM

Alecta

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Deceptakon
Awesome, thank you for replying, Although, you feel as if you already know who I am just like the rest of the sub missives and subs.

I am not asking if my profile is good enough, I am asking why we as a human race feel we know everything, to the point we can easily and instantly know who is shit and who is gold...

I didn't read your profile or journal. I already know if Lockit disliked it and has to go on the defensive for reading it I won't be disagreeing with her. I will answer your secondary questions instead.

The mistaken assumption you're making when you reference people judging or deciding about you in any way is that we as human beings make decisions about associating with a potential mate based on everything someone is. It is not. The decision is based on the perceived highlights. If they decide they dis/like a person just from their profile, it is because the profile indicated certain things that they already know are very important to them. No amount of "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" is going to change anyone's mind because at the end of the day, we don't need to know "YOU", we just need to know what we (don't) like about "you".

Liking a person is wholly subjective. You could guilt people into giving you more time by harping on the popular acceptance and don't judge a book by its cover speech, but that rarely works because whatever the person is turned off by is still a fact and it will not stop bothering them or magically go away, especially if it's in your personality. Different things hold different importance to different people. Some people love Country music, for example, some cannot stand it, some don't love it but don't hate it either. Some could dislike it but feel that their relationship with someone who loves it is more important than their personal dislike.

We don't decide on a broad empirical level who is shit and who is gold, we decide if to each of us individually this person is shit or gold, usually based on whether we think they'll treat us like shit or gold, and others decide if they agree or disagree with us based on their feelings and expectations on the same subjects.

Which is why I'm not going to give a toss when a male thinks I'm a man-hater just because I don't want to throw myself at his feet and suck his knob. Why I do not feel that the local government should elect me to be their leader just because one or two people feel I would do a good job at it. Why I do not begrudge others being critical or disagreeable of my methods and philosophies (although I will defend and debate it if I thought that was wanted). Why I would sometimes dis/agree with what most people think of one thing or another, or dis/agree with what they think but for different reasons.

Honesty is the best policy, but to wield that policy you must first accept its validity and power.

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