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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 5:15:24 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

It's like he threw sand in our faces and stormed off with his pail and shovel.

Genuine Doms are like that. We are thin skinned and insult everyone else unprovoked. One of these days, grasshopper, you may come to this awareness.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 5:44:41 AM

Fornica

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Fuck. I've been totally hanging out with fakies.
Show me the way, Dark Steven. I'll make you applesauce if you do. Just the way you like it.

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

It's like he threw sand in our faces and stormed off with his pail and shovel.

Genuine Doms are like that. We are thin skinned and insult everyone else unprovoked. One of these days, grasshopper, you may come to this awareness.

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There is no spoon.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 5:48:36 AM

Buzzzz

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applesauce?? what is with applesauce ? (curious mind wants to know) !!

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 6:14:51 AM

Fornica

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It's delicious!

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 6:30:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise

You know, you aren't forced to list yourself as Dominant here. There are other options.

Poise.....you ROCK!

I must say OP, your words do read with the same tone as most of the male bottoms that believe they are submissive. Those that create threads complaining about all the findommes but only want a woman that will meet when they can get away from the vanilla little woman (who of course understands his baser urges but won't be involved....

) and wants the 'other woman' to do exactly what turns him on, when he wants, and must have all of the toys required to do so. While he offers exactly NADA, but his 'service' of course.

And yes, my home made applesauce has an avid fan base.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 11/20/2011 6:31:12 AM >

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 6:49:00 AM

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The OP reminds of someone in this video, especially when reading the profile, journal entires and first pages of this thread.

However..

Okay, so you've been a teacher, right? Then surely you, as a teacher, will have first hand experience of getting people interested in something and inspiring them to want to find out more.

The subject is you, which I'm sure you're quite an expert on.

So why can't you just do that here?

And what's all this palaver about 'negative opinions'? Why are you so concerned over the negative opinions of people who aren't in your life and who don't mean anything?

I've been on this site for maybe around six years, I come and go, but I've met people, found friends, and even come close to getting into a long term relationship.

But none of that would have happened if I'd have acted like an adult three year old.

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 7:01:44 AM

kalikshama

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Well, the original profile, pics and journal entry are gone.

OP - if you come back:

!. Many women find pictures of other women in a man's profile to be a turn off. (Please don't replace it with a cock shot.)

2. Don't be negative. When I was looking, I kept my journal entries very light and vanilla. Use them to give women an insight into your vanilla life, not to complain about your experiences on the site. Keep a true journal private.

3. Your profile and journal entry displays approximately 40 words on the preview screen when one uses the search feature - think of your latest entry as a banner advertisement/conversation starter. You want this headline to be "clickable."

4. Bear in mind that a lot of women don't even use the search feature - we get plenty of email. I only used it when the fresh meat emails started trickling off. In addition to not needing to contact men, women may prefer to not, so do rethink your no contact strategy.

5. There have been plenty of posts on how to write a good first contact email so I won't go into detail other than make sure you say something vanilla that lets her know you read her profile. For example, I responded to a man who started a convo based on me mentioning yoga in my profile and we had several lovely Scenes together.

Also, if you send me a sample of your first contact emails I will be happy to constructively critique it.

Best,

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RE: A plea for some assistance. - 11/20/2011 2:30:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Deceptakon

I have been on this site for around 5 years now. Kept the basic ideal of my profile but have changed it 5 different times on here, due to not being replied too enough to keep the effort on going.

I have wrote a recent journal, that I would love for each an everyone of you to read. Feed back upon such can be emailed or written here on this thread. Regardless of such, I do ask you to limit your negative opinions and realize this is me pouring myself into text, and to come on here and say something other than positive or helpful, would be just showing your hand and exposing some sort of hidden agenda inside you. They have games for that, I swear.

Again, the journal entry is on my profile, enjoy and thank you.

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1251278/details.htm

First you literally beg for people to give you feedback. Then you beg them to not be negative. Then you throw a little hissy-fit when they ignore you and respond how they want.

Welcome to Internet 101. Some of the basic rules are:

1. Just because you start a thread doesn't mean you control or own the thread.
2. People will ignore your attempts to dictate how they can or should respond; so don't ask for people's opinions if you can't handle the truth.
3. No one cares if you "pour yourself" into a post if you self is stupid, obnoxious, biggoty, etc. If you are too arrogant or sensitive to let people answer how they want, this is the wrong place for you to solicit opinions.

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