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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 6:54:37 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: MissJaq

Hello, I am Mistress JaQ and I have a good amount of experience humilating and running the lives of pathetic men. But I have encountered something new. One of my slaves cried because of the thought of being released from my authority. I wasnt sure if I shouldve comforted him or punished him.
Please respond to this thread or message me.
Dont be misled, I'm a tough fucking woman and I dont put up with bullshit, but shedding tears... Struck a peculiar chord in me...
*-Mistress JaQ

First of all, because it screeched on my brain like fingernails on a blackboard, I took the liberty to spell check, capitalize & use punctuation in your OP where needed. lol

Secondly, pathetic men? His tears struck a peculiar chord? WTF?? You mean you don't care about your slaves? Maybe you're too young and naive to know it, but many of us DO care about our subs/slaves. Very much in fact.

I cannot ever imagine punishing someone because he cried. More likely, I would comfort him and, depending upon the circumstances causing it, maybe even cried with him. To me, anything else would be cold-hearted.

Please, for Goddess' sakes, do NOT....I repeat DO NOT....think we are cold and heartless, like you appear to be. We are NOT. I am NOT!!!! I may be mean somtimes, lol, but not cold and heartless for crying out loud!

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 7:05:02 PM   
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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 7:47:12 PM   
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Y'all might wanna check out her earlier thread before you answer.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 8:02:29 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3932467/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3932467

Y'all might wanna check out her earlier thread before you answer.

It's equally pathetic. hahaha I saw that one, rolled my eyes and didn't post on it.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 8:11:37 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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Status: offline 		Why? She made an introduction post, and everybody leaped aboard and gangfucked her for basically not saying what they wanted to hear. She doesn't come across as particularly bad or unreasonable in that thread, but just about everybody else does though.

She does sound like she's repeating stuff she read on some of the female supremacy and femdom sites to me, so I'm willing to say that slavemo's reading of the situation might just be accurate.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 10:32:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I see that the vast majority of you have bashed my age and my authority. This is very common. I dont believe there is a set age to become a Mistress, and in my profile i do claim to want mentors to teach me to better my skills. But this thread has obviously turned into a pride issue and a worthiness issue. My servants tears were genuine and it is true that i questioned whether to punish him or firmly console him. If this thread sincerely offended you, i find that to be quite juvenile. If you think that mentoring a growing Mistress is insulting, then thats rather humorous.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 10:44:30 PM   
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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/23/2011 11:40:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissJaq

... My servants tears were genuine and it is true that i questioned whether to punish him or firmly console him.



If you believe his tears were a genuine *involuntary* reaction, then why do you think punishment (as opposed to "funishment") over something he couldn't control might be appropriate? Ignoring, possibly (maybe even probably), but why punishment?

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 12:28:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissJaq

Hello, I am Mistress JaQ and i have a good amount of experience humilating and running the lives of pathetic men. But i have encountered something new. One of my slaves cried because of the thought of being released from my authority. I wasnt sure if i shouldve comforted him or punished him.
Please respond to this thread or message me.
Dont be mislead, im a tough fucking women and i dont put up with bullshit, but shedding tears... Struck a peculiar chord in me...
*-Mistress JaQ


lol ----> so you sound like youre playing some kind of Character. Let me guess:
could it be

A> Cruella De Ville ?
B> Valdemort ?
C> Wicked Witch of the West ?
D> Hannibal Lecter ?




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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 2:30:47 AM   
RoughChances


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Status: offline 		I am a cold hearted bastard most of the time, but damn girl punishing somebody because they showed emotion. He needed comfort, he needed the feeling of security. A quick hug and a there there would have solved it all.

On to your "fetish" of pathetic males... so many who start out think that because they are holding the leader position in a relationship as a female that must mean the men have o be pathetic and worthless. It is a popular kink on both sides of the power dynamic.....it bothers the hell out of me though cause I get so many messages as I suspect many others do.."may this worthless piece of shit speak Mistress?" I don't own worthless things, and certainly not pathetic things...I want males in all their glory of maleness.....makes my skin crawl when I see those words. I often wonder why somebody would want to own something that is worthless to them?? I should start a new OP on that very thing.

Oh and to all the grammar and spelling folks...sorry to your eyes I type as I talk which many times is inaccurate as well LOL

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 3:51:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissJaq

Hello, I am Mistress JaQ and i have a good amount of experience humilating and running the lives of pathetic men. But i have encountered something new. One of my slaves cried because of the thought of being released from my authority. I wasnt sure if i shouldve comforted him or punished him.
Please respond to this thread or message me.
Dont be mislead, im a tough fucking women and i dont put up with bullshit, but shedding tears... Struck a peculiar chord in me...
*-Mistress JaQ


Well I am going to ignore the fact that according to your profile you don't have any slaves and just try and answer the question. You say you were going to release one of your slaves and he cried at the thought. So why were you releasing him? And if you were about to release him why would you even consider punishing him at that point? Are you thinking maybe you should rethink the whole releasing thing? Personally if I was at the point that I was going to release someone, I really wouldn't care if he cried about it or not. If I were that concerned I wouldn't be letting him go in the first place.


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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 4:02:15 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		This is something that will happen, as everyone said we are 'human" and we cry also
he was distress upset and he need comfort, i would had not in way beat him and why did
you think of beating him instead of a hug or something?
He needed you to come to him, yes come to him and reasure him that what he thought
was not going to happen! 

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 4:24:07 AM   
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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 4:35:57 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: mons

This is something that will happen, as everyone said we are 'human" and we cry also
he was distress upset and he need comfort, i would had not in way beat him and why did
you think of beating him instead of a hug or something?
He needed you to come to him, yes come to him and reasure him that what he thought
was not going to happen! 

mons  


She told him she was going to release him. Now if that wasn't going to happen, she should not have told him it was and if it was going to happen why would a few tears make a difference?


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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 4:36:49 AM   
Hera462


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissJaq

Hello, I am Mistress JaQ and i have a good amount of experience humilating and running the lives of pathetic men. But i have encountered something new. One of my slaves cried because of the thought of being released from my authority. I wasnt sure if i shouldve comforted him or punished him.
Please respond to this thread or message me.
Dont be mislead, im a tough fucking women and i dont put up with bullshit, but shedding tears... Struck a peculiar chord in me...
*-Mistress JaQ


Was it you who implanted the thought of his release or was it a general worry? If it is the latter it sounds as though there are some trust issues you may need to work on. Talk to him. Find out what the issue is and see what/if anything can be done to fix it or move on if you are not compatible.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 4:43:05 AM   
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I see you edited your profile vastly.
My advice to you is to be honest, with yourself and others.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 5:12:33 AM   
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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 6:16:02 AM   
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hm...rough corral. of course you wouldn't punish someone who is basically crying and showing you adoration, though there is a time and place for everything. I would also think that you would know this slaves needs by the time it gets to this point.

Yes, you are 18 and young. Young people these days are pretty sharp...and no one knows your situation but you. But you are also learning and the only stupid question is the one not asked.

Take what you need and leave the rest as far as advice from here. Learn all you can, trust your gut BUT live your own life.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 6:25:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Since your profile mentions that you´re looking for a teacher ... I´m pretty damn good at demonstrating the correct use of the apostrophe. You definitely need some help with that ...


LOL

This site must be driving you nuts. I rarely use apostrophes. Just cant be bothered.

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RE: Fellow Mistress needs advice about slave - 11/24/2011 6:30:21 AM   
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So instead of berating this person, maybe we send her a helpful link on what a healthy BDSM relationship actually consists of. Maybe, instead of being so quick to dismiss, you could give a quick quip about how kink isn't any different than any other relationship, except that, you know, it's different.


I wasnt going to chime in with a serious post on this thread... until I read yours.

Maybe, at 18, she may want to realize that as someone's ( ) owner, that relationship IS different. Emotions are real, just as real as any vanilla relationship. Its the power dynamic that is different and could be damaging if mishandled.

My question to the OP would be...

What are you doing owning a human if you cant understand that human's emotions... or your own?

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