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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 4:22:17 PM   
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Best bit of advice I have gotten so far is to ask for their current or past vets contact info.


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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 4:26:24 PM   
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As for fostering vs giving them away- I don't have the money to pay anyone to board them : /


Our agreement was that he would reimburse me for my expenses. (IOW, it didn't cost him anything than he would have spent himself.)

That's laborboleta's group's deal too:

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FYI, my group also has the ability to board cats long term (we do ask for a nominal donation to cover expenses, unless you want to continue to supply food and litter. I'm not talking about being in a cage continuously. they would be free all day with lots of people to be with, caged only at night. Think about this if it is possible that sometime in the foreseeable future you feel that you will be recovered enough to have them back.


Have you contacted her about that or this?

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I have to put my 2 cents in here. I have a very long history of involvement with rescuing and re-homing cats. Your absolute best bet is to go through a Bengal Rescue or other similar group. Many of them can post on PetFinder.org, where there is a lot of exposure. They also have the time and knowledge to properly vet potential adopters. If your vet has an adoption program, that is the next best choice. They will get the best care, but the exposure isn't as good. The hardest part of finding a home for an animal is trying to ensure that that pet will be in good hands. Charging a lot of money will discourage some people, but I could tell you many sad stories of people who paid a fortune for a pet but had not idea or inclination about proper care.

I adore Bengals and want to help you and them. I am very much involved with cat and kitten adoptions and have a detailed program set up. We are listed on PetFinder.org and have a Facebook page that features our available kitties. My staff are the best at making sure that all cats go to the best possible home. I'm also not far from you. CM me if you want to discuss having us help find them a new home. We also work with a number of non-profit groups who can cross-post on PetFinder.org.


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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 4:45:31 PM   
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I honestly think you should look into fostering tltl, it's not necessarily the same as boarding them. As kalik pointed out it could cost you no more than what you pay for their food and litter anyway.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 5:38:15 PM   
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I honestly think you should look into fostering tltl, it's not necessarily the same as boarding them. As kalik pointed out it could cost you no more than what you pay for their food and litter anyway.


Yes, typically fostering and boarding are not remotely the same. When someone boards and animal, it is often in a kennel type of setting. People who foster animals (as ToppingfromBottom is with Bones), they are keeping the animal for any length of time (sometimes predetermined, sometimes not). In TFB's situation, she is fostering a special needs dog that needs more attention than the shelter can provide until a permanent home is found, or she can adopt him herself. Other times, people foster animals while someone is sick, deployed or some other reason. They know they will never keep the pet, and if there are any monies exchanged it is for food and vet bills, not a fee for service.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 5:43:35 PM   
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I honestly think you should look into fostering tltl, it's not necessarily the same as boarding them. As kalik pointed out it could cost you no more than what you pay for their food and litter anyway.


Yes, typically fostering and boarding are not remotely the same. When someone boards and animal, it is often in a kennel type of setting. People who foster animals (as ToppingfromBottom is with Bones), they are keeping the animal for any length of time (sometimes predetermined, sometimes not). In TFB's situation, she is fostering a special needs dog that needs more attention than the shelter can provide until a permanent home is found, or she can adopt him herself. Other times, people foster animals while someone is sick, deployed or some other reason. They know they will never keep the pet, and if there are any monies exchanged it is for food and vet bills, not a fee for service.

Is there generally a length on this?
It could be from 6 months to a year before I am moved out and able to take them in again. And if I can't find cat friendly housemates... even then there is no guarantee.
I just hate the idea of putting someone to the trouble of fostering them when I have no set timeline for them.
I imagine it could be as frustrating for them as trying to figure out when my foot will start working and I can go back to work is for me.

Providing food and litter would never be a problem. My kitty daddy still has most of that stuff mailed to me.
(before you ask, he is overseas, so not realistic to take them)


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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 5:45:57 PM   
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Then explain that you don't know how long it would be. Why don't you contact Potty, she fosters all the time.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 5:49:42 PM   
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Depends on who you find. Right now, your cats are suffering living in a small bathroom at one of your parent's homes where you don't live. A foster home would keep them from being couped up and you could still visit.

You never know until you look and see. Craig's list is not a remotely ideal place to find a new home for a pet. Charging money isn't a guarantee of anything. The only reason the cats aren't with you is because you are injured and not able to do your previous job. If six months down the road, you are back on your feet, you can take them back. If things still aren't looking good, then either the foster home may want to adopt, or you can search for a new home while they are in foster care.

In either case, as someone who has had reconstructive surgery on my ankle two years ago now and still have foot issues from it, you might want to consider a career change as opposed to get yourself further in the hole waiting to return to a job that offers little security and no benefits.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 6:06:36 PM   
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Working on the career change via school. 
Serving just seems to be the best way to get me through it, with such nice flexible hours I can wrap around any semesters schedule.


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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 7:44:42 PM   
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Is there generally a length on this?
It could be from 6 months to a year before I am moved out and able to take them in again. And if I can't find cat friendly housemates... even then there is no guarantee.
I just hate the idea of putting someone to the trouble of fostering them when I have no set timeline for them.
I imagine it could be as frustrating for them as trying to figure out when my foot will start working and I can go back to work is for me.

Providing food and litter would never be a problem. My kitty daddy still has most of that stuff mailed to me.
(before you ask, he is overseas, so not realistic to take them)



Please check your CMail

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 11/27/2011 8:41:20 PM   
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Working on the career change via school. 
Serving just seems to be the best way to get me through it, with such nice flexible hours I can wrap around any semesters schedule.



I know how waiting table is flexible and puts instant cash in your pocket.

But how much longer do you have in school? Because at this point, you have been out of work for quite a while. Even a part time retail job would be paying you more AND you could have gotten disability/unemployment out of the deal. With waiting tables, your on the books "take home" income (if you are on the books) is not usually enough to qualify.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/5/2011 7:01:55 PM   
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Well, tolovetolaugh's gorgeous Bengals arrived today and are settling into their deluxe suite, complete with double bed and room service. They are a bit nervous now but I'm sure they will settle in nicely within a few days.I'll give updates periodically if anyone is interested.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/5/2011 7:21:39 PM   
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Yes, very interested, thank you!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/5/2011 9:07:37 PM   
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Miss Butterfly, you are something else with wings...you are an angel.
It makes me so happy that love2laugh may someday be reunited with her babies. And that they're not cooped up any longer.
Happy endings are...HAPPY!!!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/5/2011 9:38:54 PM   
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YAY!!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 12:04:20 AM   
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That's terrific!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 2:57:01 AM   
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Oh yay a happy ending! Yes please updates would be awesome.

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 8:26:29 AM   
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Great news!!  CM really does work in ALL ways!

Btw, Fire I couldn't have fostered the cats.  I have Jilly & Jolly who are special needs cats and they have been inundated w/animals this year so after driving the last 2 foster kittens to their forever home on Sat., I promised J&J they'd get a break!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 9:28:36 AM   
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Thanks again for all the good wishes and especially to laborboleta and her big heart. 

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 6:08:13 PM   
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Pics and updates!

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RE: Adopting out my cats, any advice? - 12/6/2011 6:11:33 PM   
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Great news!!  CM really does work in ALL ways!

Btw, Fire I couldn't have fostered the cats.  I have Jilly & Jolly who are special needs cats and they have been inundated w/animals this year so after driving the last 2 foster kittens to their forever home on Sat., I promised J&J they'd get a break!


Nonono silly Potty I meant to ask you for advice about fostering because I know you've done a lot of it.


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