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RE: Renaming slaves - 11/30/2011 2:46:21 PM   
agirl


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I use pet names as terms of endearment and very seldom address a sub by their given name unless we're being sexually intimate.
I'm not going to have someone legally change their name though...that's a little sodding ridiculous...lol.


M gave me a name just for him and I, years ago, it was nothing to do with re-naming ME as a person but is as personal as our M/s is.......When he calls me my real name I know I'm in deep shit.

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RE: Renaming slaves - 11/30/2011 7:29:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		my name by no means is legally changed and never will be, but Master does address me by something else not a persons name but a derogatory name and it is on my tag along with Masters initials. The way i look at it is that i am Masters property and i would want it no other way. When speaking with other Doms i do prefer to be called slut as with me it is very empowering and of course the initials on my tag indicates who Master is. i suppose it is a form of degradation and would depend on how far a couple wishes to take it. if one wants a number so be it and if one wishes numbers so be it and if one wishes a total legal name change, well that is their decision too.

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RE: Renaming slaves - 11/30/2011 9:23:57 PM   
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i suppose it is a form of degradation and would depend on how far a couple wishes to take it. if one wants a number so be it and if one wishes numbers so be it and if one wishes a total legal name change, well that is their decision too.

I disagree, at least in my case. I don't like/do degradation and neither does my Master. I don't see my Master giving me a new name as degrading in any way; he took me in, and he chose a name for me, as is his right as my Master (with me as his property.) Honestly I see it as a loving thing more than anything else--him naming me was part of him making me his and giving me a "place," much like him placing his collar on me. It was done out of love, ownership, and care.

Who knows, maybe to others it is a form of degradation. But in my opinion and in my case, it is absolutely not. :)

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/1/2011 1:11:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think she was saying it had to be about degredation, just that it could be. Anyway, another lovely post, RaspberryLemon. :)

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/1/2011 2:44:18 AM   
RaspberryLemon


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Status: offline 		Why, thank you. And yeah, I understand--some people could interpret it as degradation (and some people might like that, others might not--different strokes, different folks.) Just my two cents on how it is for me. :)

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/1/2011 6:16:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv
i suppose it is a form of degradation and would depend on how far a couple wishes to take it. if one wants a number so be it and if one wishes numbers so be it and if one wishes a total legal name change, well that is their decision too.

I disagree, at least in my case. I don't like/do degradation and neither does my Master. I don't see my Master giving me a new name as degrading in any way; he took me in, and he chose a name for me, as is his right as my Master (with me as his property.) Honestly I see it as a loving thing more than anything else--him naming me was part of him making me his and giving me a "place," much like him placing his collar on me. It was done out of love, ownership, and care.

Who knows, maybe to others it is a form of degradation. But in my opinion and in my case, it is absolutely not. :)


i totally understand what you are saying and totally agree as i do not feel degraded at all by being called slut. i like it. :) Master is a Sadist and i am a masochist and in the end we are pleasing to each other. in the end i do totally agree with all you have stated above too. it is all very much mutual. :)

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/1/2011 6:13:20 PM   
RaspberryLemon


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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv


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ORIGINAL: RaspberryLemon

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv
i suppose it is a form of degradation and would depend on how far a couple wishes to take it. if one wants a number so be it and if one wishes numbers so be it and if one wishes a total legal name change, well that is their decision too.

I disagree, at least in my case. I don't like/do degradation and neither does my Master. I don't see my Master giving me a new name as degrading in any way; he took me in, and he chose a name for me, as is his right as my Master (with me as his property.) Honestly I see it as a loving thing more than anything else--him naming me was part of him making me his and giving me a "place," much like him placing his collar on me. It was done out of love, ownership, and care.

Who knows, maybe to others it is a form of degradation. But in my opinion and in my case, it is absolutely not. :)


i totally understand what you are saying and totally agree as i do not feel degraded at all by being called slut. i like it. :) Master is a Sadist and i am a masochist and in the end we are pleasing to each other. in the end i do totally agree with all you have stated above too. it is all very much mutual. :)

Indeed, that's a good point. It's all about the people involved. For example, personally I would not like being called "slut" and it would feel very disrespectful to me. However, I know that many others find it to be a term of endearment and are not offended by it in the least.

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/3/2011 4:01:50 AM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		renaming you say? Well...that depends, does "fuck meat" count?

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RE: Renaming slaves - 12/3/2011 5:59:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Haha, if you want it to. :p

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