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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/6/2011 9:54:44 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know.


Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/6/2011 10:39:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: notthetongs

Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know.


Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body.


... and see, that would make sense!  But nooooo.  I get these guys who describe themselves as if they're trying to impress me with their uber-dom-ness and then say, "but I've always wanted to worship an Asian dominant woman like you.  Just give me a chance!"  *rolls eyes*


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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/7/2011 5:12:39 AM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/7/2011 5:22:38 AM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/7/2011 7:38:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: notthetongs

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: notthetongs

Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know.


Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body.


... and see, that would make sense!  But nooooo.  I get these guys who describe themselves as if they're trying to impress me with their uber-dom-ness and then say, "but I've always wanted to worship an Asian dominant woman like you.  Just give me a chance!"  *rolls eyes*


Last time I bottomed was 93. Ain't happenin' that way again.

By the way, welcome to the forums notthetongs.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/13/2011 10:14:09 PM   
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All of that is insanely expensive as well. Which is why we live in our mother's basement (way easier than remodeling a cave).

Ooh. I think I hear some prey approaching.
Where's that damn club?
God I need to get this place cleaned...
I am sick of McDonalds, beer and cheezits....I need someone to cook.
Will the Salvation Army pick up dirty clothes as a donation? I can always buy more.

Damn, what do we do without our subs?

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/14/2011 9:40:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thats a good question as I've been pondering it since my last sub and I ended things, however we didnt meet on a lifestyle website so this is all new to me leading me to question the success on can have in using CM to actually FIND a real sub looking to meet, or if just vanilla life hoping to find a sub is more efficient?

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/14/2011 10:57:46 AM   
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I hate it when you find yourself fresh out of slaves.  I don't know about others, but I would be taking applications for an immediate replacement.


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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/14/2011 12:44:47 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/15/2011 10:56:39 AM   
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Thats a good question as I've been pondering it since my last sub and I ended things, however we didnt meet on a lifestyle website so this is all new to me leading me to question the success on can have in using CM to actually FIND a real sub looking to meet, or if just vanilla life hoping to find a sub is more efficient?


The M:F ration being what it is, the odds are not in your favor. Also try attending local BDSM events and putting kinky keywords in your profile on a vanilla site such as OKCupid, which is where my D found me. OKC's kinky quizzes are a way to screen.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/15/2011 3:24:41 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/15/2011 3:28:07 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/18/2011 2:18:48 AM   
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Number three would have it to the closest.

i myself when i had no Dom did not stop me from attaching nipple clamps to myself i would go in the tub actually and spread my legs under the water faucet with clamps attached, sometimes with a butt plug too. haha It is easy for a sub to grab one of her own floggers and stike the sides of his or her own legs etc... On other occasions i would light up candle sticks and drip them on myself. i do not suppose Doms would do such things, but maybe other things.


Why do you not suppose?

I've never quite understood why this idea seems so weird to people. This came up in a Fetlife thread I saw once, and pretty much everyone was saying things like, "I'm a masochist, so I hurt myself, but a sadist couldn't do that." Why the heck not?

That's pretty much what I did when I was younger and in a hungry mood - force myself to take whatever form of discomfort I knew I could actually make myself take (not a fan of discomfort, me, I'm rather known to avoid any and all discomfort, actually) until I'd gotten some satisfaction out of having forced someone to suffer my arbitrary and cruel whims. Over-exercise generally worked best, because I was into sports and that was a type of pain I was used to and would feel too lazy/ashamed to back out of.

I wondered for years (and well before I really knew what BDSM was) if this behaviour made me "some sort of masochist." Wasn't until I talked to a few maso friends about how they like to hurt themselves that I saw how our approaches to it and motivations were nearly polar opposites.

I don't really do it so much anymore, I guess because I'd be too aware of the mental processes involved for it to "work" now - this was something I did when I was very young and very clueless. I think now instead of watching myself suffer, I'd just end up watching myself watching myself and feeling ridiculous about the "masturbation" attempt. If I had less shame, I'm sure it would still "work," though.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/18/2011 1:57:41 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/18/2011 2:03:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Uh, Same thing I do when I have a sub, only, I do it without a sub. Work, shop, keep the household running, watch football and hockey if I have tha chance, go christmas shopping, have dinner, pay bills... Only difference is, instead of taking care of a sub, I look for a sub.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/18/2011 3:22:14 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 12/18/2011 3:41:15 PM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 1/3/2012 11:00:32 PM   
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This whole thread is brilliant.

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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 1/9/2012 1:57:48 AM   
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RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in thei... - 1/9/2012 6:16:38 AM   
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