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MariaB -> RE: Stuff about stuff (12/13/2011 3:19:24 AM)
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ORIGINAL: hausboy
Certainly, and I recognize that there are those out there who live as slaves to a different level than what works for others.
That said, I also suspect that sometimes there's a bit of, shall we say, creative license with how some folks represent their daily lives as slaves. I don't really care--as you said--it's their life, not mine--but it's when that is presented as the slave that is more "real and true" than others that I get a bit....annoyed.
I think there is a hell of a lot of creative license. Many of these so called Masters and slaves are thespians. They have made slavery and Mastery an art form.
Some learn to adjust and live within a totally different lifestyle than most of us are familiar with and that isn't just the slave but the Master too. If two people want that badly enough then I do believe its possible to enter into and thrive in such a setting.
These are not the people that go to fet clubs on collar and leash or eat their dinner from a dog bowl under the table and brag about it on the boards. These are people that have learnt and embraced the subtleties of a lifestyle that differs very much from the norm but can easily remain invisible to the outside world.
As far as 'real and true' what a nonsense that is [8|]
Steve would do well with a slave because his personality is that of a leader and yet he has absolutely no desire to own a slave. Does that make him less of a dominant than all those guys out there calling themselves Masters?
He has low tolerance levels that never waver when it comes to how he enjoys his home, his food, his company. His personality didn't evolve like this when he found this lifestyle. He was always like this. I think his type of personality would slip smoothly into being a lifestyle Master if that's what he desired. When I watch how he interacts with Chloe I can but stand back and admire the naturalness and ease in which he entices her to submit to him.
Being with me, a dominant woman, doesn't intimidate him in the least. A fem Domme friend said to me recently that I am one of the most intimidating women she knows and yet Steve has the ability to lead me as smoothly as melted butter across a slice of bread. I'm not subservient or submissive in the least and yet I continually find myself dancing to his tune! He is like the magician with magic powers that removes all of my usual stubbornness and has me questioning the ease in which he manages to do that!!
There are many weak personalities out there. Many so called Masters that need that ready made slave so they can jump into that role-play figure that makes them feel good about themselves. They will always be in role-play mode when with their slave. They remind me of performing puppets. You watch these people move from one relationship to the next, often becoming bitter about the lack of 'real slaves'. Slavery is enticed before it is fed to a Master on a silver spoon and so many people just don't get that.
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