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JanahX -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 12:47:38 PM)
constantly seeking? seeking what dear? Stacy .. I have a question for you.. and can you answer me honestly? Are you mentally disabled in some way? If you are ... I wont bother with you further. Im not mean like that. but theres something here thats not adding up.

switchblademoi -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 12:52:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml And by the looks of things, I'm not too far off you in terms of my personal preferences - But really.... to set this up as some definition of what is "right" is to completely miss the point that there are plenty of women out there (smart, independent, sassy women) who would find your style of dominance (and mine) to be way way too softcore for them. That's it in a nutshell. If the guy had simply said, "Here is the approach to BDSM that I like," no one would have batted much of an eye. But when he says, "Here is the approach to BDSM I like, and my way is the only correct way," people are going to of course roll their eyes and tell the guy to stop being so full of himself. And when he responds with a weepy, "Hmm, I didn't realize the Internet could be so nasty," he just seems more clueless.

DesFIP -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 4:00:25 PM)
I rarely agree with Janah, but yeah, Stacy has obvious issues that she needs to address. Refusing to take the meds and do the therapy to deal with the diagnosed problem doesn't mean you don't have a problem. It just means it won't ever get better. BPD is what comes to my mind. If so, it's a bitch to deal with. But if you don't deal with it, then you won't have anyone willing to deal with you.

RexCorvus -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 6:39:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: switchblademoi If the guy had simply said, "Here is the approach to BDSM that I like," no one would have batted much of an eye. But when he says, "Here is the approach to BDSM I like, and my way is the only correct way," people are going to of course roll their eyes and tell the guy to stop being so full of himself. I had the same reaction you're describing (eyes rolling, sarcastic answers popping into my head). A possible counter-argument: maybe he's got an entirely different set of goals than most of us. Yeah, saying it that way will turn a lot of people off, but maybe the kind of sub he's looking for will see that and say "Yes! That's exactly what I want!" Kind of like sending in a resume consisting only of a picture of yourself chugging a beer with a Slave Leia cosplayer on your lap and the words "I am exactly this awesome!!!!" scrawled across the page in lipstick. Yeah, you'll get rejected 99 times out of 100 (at least), but when you hit just the right employer and get an interview then you've hit the freaking jackpot. quote: And when he responds with a weepy, "Hmm, I didn't realize the Internet could be so nasty," he just seems more clueless. Okay, that kind of detracts from the whole "I'm a True Master, deal with it" persona. If you're going to go with that pose I'd say you're better off being all in, no dipping a toe then jerking back when you find out the water's cold.

FrostedFlake -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 8:16:16 PM)
Wow! Now I "know."! Thank you, random anonymous poster from God only knows!

RexCorvus -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 8:27:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake Wow! Now I "know."! [image]local://upfiles/1323980/95BFD6FE6CF04BB2BE6F61F8D21032A3.jpg[/image]

AdorkableAiley -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/7/2011 10:08:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself You lost me as soon as you started bandying about the "twue" word [:'(] Seriously - your idea of "weal and twue" may not be the same as another dominant's. Who is to say there has to be a right and a wrong? The only thing that matters is that the dominant finds the submissive s/he needs, and vice versa. Yeah, my brain kinda turned off after that as well.

DFWMrWizard -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 6:28:26 AM)
I read the OP and instantly thought of that scene in Animal House where John Belushi grabs the guitar away from the sensitive minstrel and smashes it to pieces. Then I felt really relieved.

seekerofslut -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 6:34:10 AM)
It's twue. It's twue! It's TWUE!!! Blazing Saddles

SimplyMichael -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 7:37:53 AM)
Rex, The problem with.basing your relationship on fantasy/dysfunction is that it requires both people to not grow or change. Drug addicts are "happy" to get their next fix, women who choose abusive men fall hardest and are haopy at first. Real relationships are messy, are not 24/7 in the wanker sense. However the depth of actual power exchange is far deeper and most importantly...lasts longer. In other word holding my breath underwater for a short time doesnt make me a fish, jumping off a building and flying doesnt make me a bird and doing D/s for a couple months doesnt make it a valid relationship dynamix even if it.might be seriously hot.

thishereboi -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 7:40:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv Thank you for buying the vowel for her. Some people around here obviously need more clues as when to put a gag in their mouths and to finish instead of trying to bring on more. Maybe she is on the rag and is why she is constantly seeking. Was that supposed to make any sense? If anyone is acting like they are on the rag, it's you. So just what the fuck is your problem today? Someone piss in your cornflakes? And you still didn't explain why you went off on her and ignored the other posters who said basically the same thing.

RexCorvus -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 1:07:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael The problem with.basing your relationship on fantasy/dysfunction is that it requires both people to not grow or change. Drug addicts are "happy" to get their next fix, women who choose abusive men fall hardest and are haopy at first. Real relationships are messy, are not 24/7 in the wanker sense. However the depth of actual power exchange is far deeper and most importantly...lasts longer. Okay. It's not clear to me that the OP's relationship model is any more flawed than that of some other folks around here (including myself), but I'm not even really thinking about his long-term chances for success. What made me roll my eyes on first read was the whole "This is what a TRUE MASTER does" quality of it. On second thought, though, I wondered if maybe part of his theoretical appeal would be the whole "one TRUE way"-ness of his philosophy. Sure, he's likely to turn off 95% of CM readers, but does he even care if he hits that one jackpot with someone who reads his credo and goes ga-ga for TRUE MASTERS? I mean there's plenty of subs on CM that are reasonable and expect a certain back and forth when negotiating with a potential dom. But attracting them means competing with lots of other doms who are more capable of contemplating a whole spectrum of D/S relationship models. Could be he's just playing to his strength here. Better to be thought a goof by most and hotly desired by a few rather than respected by most and desired by none, maybe? I'm just spit-balling here, it could be there's no clever plan at all.

JanahX -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/8/2011 1:59:23 PM)
I think the real question is why did he post it here at all. I think Orionthewolf nailed it right on the head when he posted this: quote: This comes across more as justification and rationalization for how you are as a "Master". Was there some substance to discuss in this advertisement of yours? So many have already pointed out the obvious, but it is likely you may be too sensitive to understand it.

Casteele -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/10/2011 6:07:56 PM)
::sigh:: I misread the title and got all sexcited.. "What a true masturbater does"and was hoping to find some great tips and advice. Instead, all I got was a bunch of slapping around, back and forth bashing, trying to step back when it got too rough and intense to prolong it all, and a few hard whacks trying to prompt an explosive response. Oh, and something about sticking it in a sock then sticking it in an ass.. That sounds like it's got potential.. Anyone got a donkey handy?

seababy -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 12:55:39 AM)
quote: Submissives, by nature, do not assert what they want. A true submissive is a very strong person with the confidence to surrender control to a Master. A submissive is NEVER a victim. But, she knows that the very act of telling a man that she wants to be tied up, for example, can run the risk of "topping from the bottom" which ruins the moment and eventually the relationship. Submissive women always find a wonderful, but often subtle way of showing that they want you to take control but it is up to the Master to interpret nuanced behavior in order to uncover the details of what she wants through his own perceptions and experience. How about charades? Is charades considered nuanced behaviour or will that still be topping from the bottom? For any dominants out there who know morse, will I get away with saying this or is that the end of the relationship? .--. .-.. . .- ... . - .. . / -- . / ..- .--. / .- -. -.. / ... .--. .- -. -.- -- -.-- / -.-. .... . . -.- -.-- / .--. .. -. -.- / -... ..- -- edited cause damn it I can't type!

seababy -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 1:18:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Casteele ::sigh:: I misread the title and got all sexcited.. "What a true masturbater does"and was hoping to find some great tips and advice. Instead, all I got was a bunch of slapping around, back and forth bashing, trying to step back when it got too rough and intense to prolong it all, and a few hard whacks trying to prompt an explosive response. Oh, and something about sticking it in a sock then sticking it in an ass.. That sounds like it's got potential.. Anyone got a donkey handy? Its the OP using the "twue" word its like jumping into shark infested waters with a wetsuit made of ribeye steak. (your funny by the way and you look familiar but Im not sure why)

TigerBDSM -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 1:20:07 AM)
Been away for years, was totally happy with my girls. Now I'm searching again. I see that the quality of replies from the group has sharpened over the years. I will begin to author under this older profile name soon. I'm sure to get some push back from the group.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 3:24:06 AM)
Oh Jesus Fried Chicken...another true-way thread.

Casteele -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 10:39:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seababy Its the OP using the "twue" word its like jumping into shark infested waters with a wetsuit made of ribeye steak. (your funny by the way and you look familiar but Im not sure why) I'm more of a sadist than a masochist.. But I like the idea.. Any masochists out there wanna go shark diving with me? o.O (Go read my intro in the intro section.. I get told my photos look a lot like George Costanza from Seinfeld..)

Casteele -> RE: "What a True Master Does" (12/11/2011 10:43:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seababy .--. .-.. . .- ... . - .. . / -- . / ..- .--. / .- -. -.. / ... .--. .- -. -.- -- -.-- / -.-. .... . . -.- -.-- / .--. .. -. -.- / -... ..- -- Don't you "beep beeeeep beeeeep beep beep beeeep" at me, young lady! ::ties you up and spanks your cheeky bum::

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