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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/7/2011 6:36:52 PM   
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How many have experienced pain sluts that just do not cry no matter what, even tossing in all sort of degradation. Now i understand quite a few of Sadists love tears. How important is tears to you? To what extremes would you go to create tears. Yes, you could keep pushing limits etc... and totally enjoy doing that too. But, what else would you do besides degradation, beatings etc... to create tears if it were important to you. Of course no inflicting permanent marks etc... more along the lines of mental is what i mean here. Other means of getting inside someones head without causing mental damage along side with a beating or other possibilities.


Tears arent important, but the mental state that results in them is. Ive never met someone who could not be reduced to tears within a day or two without violating any of their limts, without beating or marking them. How? If I told you it wouldnt work!

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/7/2011 6:39:02 PM   
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Try the opposite if she's used to extreme pain. Long, slow, sensual while blindfolded and at the end look into her eyes. Sometimes tenderness will achieve what harshness won't.


I dont think she meant "bored to tears".

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/7/2011 6:43:35 PM   
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That's too bad i would have shit my pants but had a good laugh at it afterwards.


It wasn't done for a laugh. It was done to prove a point.



OK OK Have a good one. i do not speak English maybe or if i say something like i do care or do understand and that i would help etc... People here just do not seem to get it so... tired of the ice. i do not need to prove anything to anyone and believe it or not i do not care to get anyone's acceptance or approval of things and it is not all about me. i think it is all about the main groupies here and if different appears the groupies seek things to attack. But OK believe i am abused, believe i am mental, believe i seek justification, believe all my posts are strange, i stopped posting in that thread and tried kindness to no avail in other threads, but alas the same posts keep coming up that i do not know the difference. Even though i did clarify that i do. So, think what you wish i owe nobody nothing and am not answering all the questions asked over there. Keep wondering all you want. i can move on unlike some. Have a great one.

Take care

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/7/2011 6:50:00 PM   
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What the hell does damaging someones sense of self have to do with BDSM?

Once again Stacy ----> the more you write, the more foolish, IGNORANT and out of reality you seem.

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Of course no inflicting permanent marks etc... more along the lines of mental is what i mean here. Other means of getting inside someones head without causing mental damage along side with a beating or other possibilities.


And how the hell does that work? Causing someone emotional distress without causing mental damage? I always figured people that were into extreme humiliation were mentally fucked up in the first place.

Are you okay dear?


It OK Socky it was an ill attempt just to make conversation. ta ta i have nothing to get, hope you get it.

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 8:02:45 AM   
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Oside,

She doesn't get that.

But I'm actually curious, what would the man have done if she was ok with it?


I have absolutely no idea.

I do know that he holds the view that there's a difference between a victim and a volunteer. You can't save someone else. You can only give someone the tools to save themselves.


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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 8:06:27 AM   
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That's too bad i would have shit my pants but had a good laugh at it afterwards.


It wasn't done for a laugh. It was done to prove a point.



OK OK Have a good one. i do not speak English maybe or if i say something like i do care or do understand and that i would help etc... People here just do not seem to get it so... tired of the ice. i do not need to prove anything to anyone and believe it or not i do not care to get anyone's acceptance or approval of things and it is not all about me. i think it is all about the main groupies here and if different appears the groupies seek things to attack. But OK believe i am abused, believe i am mental, believe i seek justification, believe all my posts are strange, i stopped posting in that thread and tried kindness to no avail in other threads, but alas the same posts keep coming up that i do not know the difference. Even though i did clarify that i do. So, think what you wish i owe nobody nothing and am not answering all the questions asked over there. Keep wondering all you want. i can move on unlike some. Have a great one.

Take care



I'm trying to figure out how you got from point A to point B here. But, whatever.....


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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 8:42:45 AM   
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I'm trying to figure out how you got from point A to point B here. But, whatever.....


Its kind of like having a conversation with someone who is schizophrenic. You just cant. They just dont respond right (when not on proper meds & even then ,....).

I called this out yesterday. Theres something going on there. Not sure what it is though.

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 10:18:40 AM   
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OK OK Have a good one. i do not speak English maybe or if i say something like i do care or do understand and that i would help etc... People here just do not seem to get it so... tired of the ice. i do not need to prove anything to anyone and believe it or not i do not care to get anyone's acceptance or approval of things and it is not all about me. i think it is all about the main groupies here and if different appears the groupies seek things to attack. But OK believe i am abused, believe i am mental, believe i seek justification, believe all my posts are strange, i stopped posting in that thread and tried kindness to no avail in other threads, but alas the same posts keep coming up that i do not know the difference. Even though i did clarify that i do. So, think what you wish i owe nobody nothing and am not answering all the questions asked over there. Keep wondering all you want. i can move on unlike some. Have a great one.

Take care


Well, let's see....if you speak English, you do it horribly.  Your communication skills are seriously lacking, so no, we don't get it because your posts make no sense.

There are no "main groupies" here and no one is picking on you.  You keep getting the same responses over and over again because your posts make very little sense.  Posts keep coming up all over the place because what you post makes no sense and is really indicative of someone who has someone who has serious problems.  You post disjointed thoughts and wonder why we respond as we do?

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 10:20:37 AM   
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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 10:26:58 AM   
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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 10:29:06 AM   
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i do not speak English maybe or if i say something like i do care or do understand and that i would help etc... People here just do not seem to get it so...


Is English not your first language? I'll try harder to understand you if this is the case.

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 10:39:03 AM   
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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 11:09:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Stacey are you posting on your phone?
Sometimes phones lose the formatting -- I go back and edit posts from my phone quite a bit. (And for whatever reason, it likes to double and triple the "n" -- apparently a lot of 'Droids do this. Ugh.)

If you're posting from your phone, try to be more mindful of formatting. Really, try to be more mindful of formatting, no matter how you post. Your posts come out as giant blocks of text with very little punctuation. It's nearly impossible to read your posts and think "I think I have an idea of what she's saying."

Just a heads up....................

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 11:14:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't cry from pain. I just don't. (I'm sure I would if you sawed stuff off, but generally speaking...).

Broke my fucking arm: Didn't cry.
Nail went through my foot (stepped on the fucker): Didn't cry
Broke glass table with knee and spent an hour pulling out shard: No tears

I only cry as a result of emotional trauma (death in family, high stress levels, etc.) or out of frustration. I once cried when I had the flu and had a headache so bad, I couldn't sleep. It wasn't the headache that bothered me, but that I couldn't sleep.

So, yeah, doubt I'll ever cry from BDSM play, especially since I HATE crying in front of people. I perceive it as humiliating, even though I know I shouldn't, lol.

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 11:59:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		That doesnt account for the fact that she is responding inappropriately and not in context to what is being written or addressed.

e.g.: what shes been posting on the "What a true Master does" thread going on/simultaneously.


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Stacey are you posting on your phone?
Sometimes phones lose the formatting -- I go back and edit posts from my phone quite a bit. (And for whatever reason, it likes to double and triple the "n" -- apparently a lot of 'Droids do this. Ugh.)

If you're posting from your phone, try to be more mindful of formatting. Really, try to be more mindful of formatting, no matter how you post. Your posts come out as giant blocks of text with very little punctuation. It's nearly impossible to read your posts and think "I think I have an idea of what she's saying."

Just a heads up....................


< Message edited by JanahX -- 12/8/2011 12:00:25 PM >

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 12:08:37 PM   
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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 12:50:47 PM   
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That's true... I dunno, mang...


You are soo fricken adorable!

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 1:04:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Aww ^.^ I shall have to compose a sonnet to your snazzy poise-ness. ♥

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 1:44:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do love how you keep trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, but really, this isn't a problem from posting on the phone.  I think poise might have been closer that the invisible collar she wears ALL the time (according to her), that we can't see on her picture is cutting off oxygen to her brain.

We all tried very hard to grasp some understanding and even explain what we felt made her statements grossly inappropriate, and she still doesn't understand.

I can't figure it out, but it is comforting knowing you are there to try and help what you feel is a "lost sheep" to find their way. 

PS  That was NOT sarcasim, but an honest compliment.

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RE: Degragation/pain slut - 12/8/2011 1:49:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a feeling the girl is a little eerr...slow. She probably has some mental issues plus the fact that this causes her to live in a fantasy world. She reminds me of some people I know who have mental incapacities. They don't really grasp the real world. I think this ties into a previous thread about using bdsm as a way to deal with traumas in one's life.



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