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littlewonder -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:13:50 PM)

Life's not fair. Buck it up kiddo.




ShaharThorne -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:17:47 PM)

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PeonForHer -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:31:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
I have actually run across several male financial dominants, on the profiles side.


Really? Fascinating! How does that work? Have any of them a 'marketing style' that you think might be at all successful with the ladies?





LillyBoPeep -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:37:51 PM)

I'm probably not the person to ask; I don't "get" fin-domming for either gender.




Fornica -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:38:27 PM)

This entire sentence baffles me. I'd ask you to elaborate, but I don't think I wanna know.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Uncleduke316



No I wasn't and I wasn't aware Sunni muslims are any more tolerant of women than Shiara. I was speaking of Islam in general. Muslim men DON'T take the crap men in the west do. Correct me if I'm wrong but chivalry never translated into islam.

Dule





poise -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 6:39:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Uncleduke316


I resist female supremacy in any form.
I've said my peace about it and from now on am not going to


If you could truly resist female supremacy, than why were you looking at
Domme profiles to begin with?

And then to go on and on about the injustice of being a man..Oh woe is you.
I don't know how you expect to inspire anyone to follow your lead, when you are
cluttering the path with this nonsense.

You are asking for a woman to surrender her whole being for your pleasure, and the
only joy she should experience from that is the fact that she has pleased you.
Is that not tribute enough for you?




littlewonder -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 6:44:38 PM)

I've seen a few and met quite a few financial doms. It's not entirely female. A few advertise their services as a pro dom....they whip you, spank you, bind yet, etc....and you pay them for it. A few are straight up that you will work outside the home while you provide for them. I've known femsubs who are perfectly fine with both of these scenarios and actually want this.

I personally don't have a problem with financial dom/mes. The person who responds to them obviously want the same thing or they wouldn't respond to them. What's the big deal? For some people it's a kink or fetish just like any other. It's not like they're being duped or deceived.




PeonForHer -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 6:56:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

I'm probably not the person to ask; I don't "get" fin-domming for either gender.


Neither do I. Well, clearly, lots of men and women are put together a different way to ourselves and it'll ever be thus.

[Hell, that was a spectacularly bland comment. :-( Right, my bed time.]




LillyBoPeep -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 7:00:21 PM)

indeedily, everyone's different, and that's the way it is. Some people enjoy these kinds of relationships. If they're happy then there you go. And if you don't want a fin-dom relationship, nobody's forced into it.
I don't "get" it, but some people don't get punching. :p same difference.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 7:01:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Uncleduke316


I'm just saying this board seems a little one sided and the hypocriscy is one more reminder of why I resist female supremacy in any form. I've said my peace about it and from now on am not going to lose sleep over any personal attacks. :)

" I late my haters be my motivators!" - The Sitter


"I've said my piece"

"I am at peace with myself"

I had pea's for dinner".

(I'm here to help....M-F, 8 - 6, noon to four on Saturdays, please tip your waitress).




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 7:06:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
"I've said my piece"

"I am at peace with myself"

I had pee's for dinner".

(I'm here to help....M-F, 8 - 6, noon to four on Saturdays, please tip your waitress).

Actually, it's "I had peas for dinner."[;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 7:06:52 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

indeedily, everyone's different, and that's the way it is. Some people enjoy these kinds of relationships. If they're happy then there you go. And if you don't want a fin-dom relationship, nobody's forced into it.
I don't "get" it, but some people don't get punching. :p same difference.


Yep, once you've got past the tricksters, of either sex, that's about it.




PeonForHer -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 7:10:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
Actually, it's "I had peas for dinner."[;)]



Or, at a pinch, 'pease', if you happened to have had pease pudding for din-dins.

Right, that was a terminally pointless remark for me to make and I must *not* allow you ladies keep me up any longer. Well, not for more than ten minutes after I've gone to bed, that is.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 7:24:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
"I've said my piece"

"I am at peace with myself"

I had pee's for dinner".

(I'm here to help....M-F, 8 - 6, noon to four on Saturdays, please tip your waitress).

Actually, it's "I had peas for dinner."[;)]



(FUCK!!!!)

(Thank goo'ness for "edit" LOL)




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 7:29:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
"I've said my piece"

"I am at peace with myself"

I had pee's for dinner".

(I'm here to help....M-F, 8 - 6, noon to four on Saturdays, please tip your waitress).

Actually, it's "I had peas for dinner."[;)]



(FUCK!!!!)

(Thank goo'ness for "edit" LOL)


lol




LadyPact -> RE: tribute (12/11/2011 9:09:58 PM)

quote:


I DO see the difference . when it comes to services like selling equipment it's OK but paying for session is a thin line isn't it? don't say what I want I'm just pointing out the discrepency. I DO see the male doms following board rules, and while I AM probably wrong I just haven't seen one offering payment for sessions. they seem to be looking for sex and relationships and I can also say that someone challening me on what I want could be looking for the same thing and MAYBE be feeling as I do. BUT in the interests of board peace I won't bitch about this uneveness. Women saying one thing and doing another is an unfortunate reality of life.
I just don't have to enjoy it.

I DO very much want to find someone so in the interest of getting along PEACE! Promise.

Duke

Thank you for acknowledging that you are wrong.  I can only assume from your original that you aren't very familiar with the fact that there are male pros as well as female.  There's more opportunity for such as a male if you are willing to service gay clientele.

If you are talking about sessions alone, there is a much bigger market for those who are willing to top males.  This has to do with basic supply and demand.  Most women don't pay to play (or find a relationship) because darn near any female (top or bottom) can find play or partners that won't cost them a dime.  Think of it like sex.  Most women can get laid any time they want (if they want) while men don't all have that luxury.  Men go out and hope they'll score.  Women know they will.

Since your complaint is really about the members who told you that your odds of being a fin dom were low, that one is really kind of on you.  I don't much subscribe to allowing other people to decide what will be included in My dynamic.  One who will might want to figure out who is really in charge if he is so easily influenced by other people.




Casteele -> RE: tribute/ response (12/11/2011 9:28:48 PM)

o.O
Still got it wrong.. It would be "pees" or "peas", no apostrophe as there is no contraction and no possession.
(That'll be $0.05 for my editing services.. And double if you try to point out my own horrible grammar :-P)




MistressDarkArt -> RE: tribute (12/12/2011 1:46:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Uncleduke316



No I wasn't and I wasn't aware Sunni muslims are any more tolerant of women than Shiara. I was speaking of Islam in general. Muslim men DON'T take the crap men in the west do. Correct me if I'm wrong but chivalry never translated into islam.

Dule


FFS, duke-dude. Yet another generalization. Perhaps you'd like to have a discussion about this with my devout Muslim Lebanese friend/submissive. He's been in my service for 13 years, and is the epitome of chivalry. I could go on and on about the dozens of times he devotedly held me up though the years as life threw challenging events and losses. I haven't touched him sexually in over 10 years so it wasn't about trading a blow job for an 8 hour emergency drive on New Year's day through a horrible storm to bring me to my mother right before she died. As long as I've known him, he's been there for me. In case you don't find that astounding enough, let me rock your world with this factoid: I'm Jewish.

An open heart transcends artificial barriers. I guess a closed-off, sad, lonely, abusive (you get the belt, hard!) man wouldn't know anything about this. I find you a PITA, but I also pity you.




txurinal -> RE: tribute (12/18/2011 9:16:08 AM)

Although this subject has been beaten to death, here is my 2 cents worth of tribute.

We are such diverse people here and there are so many things that could "flip one's switch". If a guy is jerking off while putting the stamp on the envelope full of cash, then he is obviously getting something out if it.

Personally, i would not send tribute to someone i had not met. How would one know this was a Dominant MISTRESS or just some guy out to make a quick buck?

Having said that, i have offered "tribute" for professional services from both males and females. (i put quotation marks because MASTER LANCE told me that is not tribute but payment). But here i am actually getting something for my money and i have had professionals refer to the payments for their time as tribute.

Part of the experience of seeing a professional for me is that THEY are taking money from me. The act of offering tribute both excites and humiliates. So if someone is getting pleasure out of sending money out into the world in the hopes he will be laughed at, verbally humilated, or just cheated out of his money then who am i to judge?




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: tribute/ response (12/18/2011 10:23:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: Uncleduke316


I resist female supremacy in any form.
I've said my peace about it and from now on am not going to


If you could truly resist female supremacy, than why were you looking at
Domme profiles to begin with?

This!!!^^^^^^^^ Poise, I find your reply both accurate and very funny!!!![sm=rofl.gif]




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