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Casteele -> RE: Online domination (12/17/2011 6:10:49 PM)
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One thing I've learned very quickly in any fora, online or offline, is that there truly is an infinite variety of personalities, wants, and so on. I've learned to (at least try to) reserve judgment of most people, except in terms of "this is/isn't for me, and does/doesn't fit in with my life." I admit that there are people that I laugh at and make fun of; I'm not perfect and fail to live up to my own standards at times, but for the most part, I try to go with the "live and let live" philosophy, even when I think someone is a complete wanker--I've met people who "get off" on being on the other side of that wanker-coin (real people, not just the "guy pretending to be a female sub" thing that was mentioned). If they are happy with what they offer each other, who am I to judge?
This applies to the question asked as well. While I do not know many posters in this forum whom would jump to say "I want to play with a guy like that!," I believe it is more likely that those kind of people simply don't care or want to engage in the more genuine discussions that usually happens in forums. They come on looking only for a good time for the moment, find what they are seeking, then sign off without ever even looking in the forums. So most of the responses you will get to your question is from people who view such people as mere wankers or believe that all such people are just men pretending to be sub women, or some such. Just reading the replies so far reinforces this belief. But I do not believe it represents a truly representative and fair selection of all personality types and desires. It's kind of like walking in to Burger King and asking the customers "Which is better? Burger King, McDonalds, Wendys, or some other burger joint?" Of course, most people will say "Burger King" because if they didn't feel that way, they'd more likely be at one of the other places.
BTW, I'm sorry to hear that you live in Flint. Unless you're a masochist. :-P (I lived in Chesterfield, MI from 2000-2008, and still have a lot of friends from the Michigan area.)
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