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RE: I am about to wash my hands of this guy - 12/22/2011 7:23:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

One of my personal rules for getting on is Don't Piss Off The Psycho. No one does anything dangerous or violent until the first time they do, right? I am not going to say that this guy is the epitome of evil, but he sure as hell isn't a good catch, he's someone to be warned away from.

I hope he gets himself straightened out before he messes his life up.

Don't fuck with me....I know Peachtree.

(And I WILL use it).

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RE: I am about to wash my hands of this guy - 12/22/2011 7:25:10 PM

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That would be my hope too. He really has been a good friend.

A person that USED to be my friend is one of our local abusers--and that's not a word I toss around lightly. His friends tried hard as hell to get him to fly right but it didn't work. And yes, this person was a friend to me, and never caused ME a second's concern. I just couldn't be associated with him anymore, and many of his friends--his MALE dominant friends--felt the same.

Some people have to dig their own pit.

And all too often, when you hand them a ladder....they ask for a new shovel.

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RE: I am about to wash my hands of this guy - 12/22/2011 10:53:21 PM

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Well, I can't exactly get the fuck away, we work in the same building. I think you misunderstand. This guy is my friend, we have known each other for years, we go to lunch together, we talk a lot at the office. Kind of like office spouses, you know? Never has been, never will be a romantic relationship, I am in love with someone else. Besides, I am not convinced he is dangerous, but what do I know? I just see him every week day. I'm certainly not nervous enough that he is going to go all Ted bundy on me that I am changing buildings over it.

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Telling him may enable him to see that it is in fact over... for good.

So, tell him and if he weirds out on you you can make a decision then to tell him he needs to get perspective and you are going to take a break until he does.

No.

Say "goodbye" in a very friendly fashion, and then find someone appropriate.

There's a difference between passion/lust.....and love.

Discern for yourself those items clearly, determine where you stand amongst them and then....run like the fucking Devil.

(Now, notice, I didn't say...."move away slowly"....I said {essentially}...."GET THE FUCK AWAY NOW!!!!!!!").

(As in.....like....now....today...before you do anything else....put down the pen and make this occur....become a reality....STOP what you're doing!!!!!.....don't do what you've been doing....and.....when in doubt...read the above....rinse.....repeat).

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RE: I am about to wash my hands of this guy - 12/23/2011 7:40:27 AM

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I'll tell you what I wouldn't want to argue in court: that his behavior could be considered in any way dangerous to his x. There seems to me to be a big difference from giving away your girl friend's clothes to a hooker (very, very weird and self destructive) and physically injuring her (another mental problem altogether). Concluding that one flows from another would be a big leap in logic for most people, but obviously not for you.

Psychologically it shows that he's escalating. It's one thing to talk about your ex.....it's another to do weird things. He engaged in an erratic and illogical action by what he did. So, if he continues to engage in odd behavior, then there's a good reason to worry.

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