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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:04:59 PM

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As an invariable rule, Dommes refuse to take on any submissives that are younger than 35 or older than 35 and six months. You missed your chance.

That's what I read too.

Sorry Nick....yer basically fucked.

(Shoulda read the manual).

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:07:41 PM

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I've noticed that many sub males lust after older women. However, for me the feeling is not mutual. I cannot be with someone who does not meet or exceed my own maturity level. This usually means that a younger guy will not do, though I have no hard and fast rule.

I've found, so long as the Domme (in my case...me being a sub) knows all the words to every Beatles song...we're 99% of the way there.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:14:53 PM

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I hate to piss in everyone's Cheerio's here, but I really have to go and you left the bowl out.

I see a lot of women talking about how they wanted a man to be able to meet them on the same grounds when it comes to maturity. Sorry, but guys generally don't work like that. Trust me, beyond being one; I know a lot of them.

If you're over 30 and a woman, you're not going to find a level co-ed playing field. Unless they're to the point that their plumbing is broken, 99 percent of men are still thinking with their dicks. Or at least dick first, brain or heart much later.

What you call maturity in a man is the ability to keep his mouth shut long enough to let the semen-induced brain fog dissipate and have a rational discussion where it appears that he has noticed that your eyes are about a foot above your nipples.

*edited, because I think that whatever pluming is (hair or feathers maybe?), it's likely totally different from plumbing

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:18:52 PM

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My definition of maturity has nothing to do with that...

Hib, doing it rong.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:27:25 PM

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Dammit man this is supposed to be a man secret!!!

Tis true though.

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

I hate to piss in everyone's Cheerio's here, but I really have to go and you left the bowl out.

I see a lot of women talking about how they wanted a man to be able to meet them on the same grounds when it comes to maturity. Sorry, but guys generally don't work like that. Trust me, beyond being one; I know a lot of them.

If you're over 30 and a woman, you're not going to find a level co-ed playing field. Unless their to the point that their plumbing is broken, 99 percent of men are still thinking with their dicks. Or at least dick first, brain or heart much later.

What you call maturity in a man is the ability to keep his mouth shut long enough to let the semen-induced brain fog dissipate and have a rational discussion where it appears that he has noticed that your eyes are about a foot above your nipples.

*edited, because I think that whatever pluming is (hair or feathers maybe?), it's likely totally different from plumbing

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:28:30 PM

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Just wanted to say, I forgot that tone is easily lost on a message board. At least half of my previous post was intended to be snarky, though I'm not sure where the line is.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 8:46:03 PM

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Tis cool, snarky moves with the tide.

I'm 47 now & at the last parents evening my kids teacher was telling me that he is easily distracted yadda yadda yadda & all I was thinking was. Great rack oh soorrreeeeeeeeeee what were you saying.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:03:43 PM

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Yet I consider you both mature men. See!

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:13:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Yet I consider you both mature men. See!

And if it wasn't for the human female's ability to delude itself, I would still be a virgin and not a slutpuppy.

ps: LadyHibiscus, I would thank you not to ever insult me in such a manner again. *wink*

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:22:56 PM

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it's true that I have low expectations of men...note I never offered my definition of mature, just said that Y'all fit!

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:27:24 PM

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it's true that I have low expectations of men...note I never offered my definition of mature, just said that Y'all fit!

I can sink to that level.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:30:38 PM

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Oh, JJ, you know you keep the bar high on purpose!

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:33:01 PM

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Oh, JJ, you know you keep the bar high on purpose!

(It's a gift and a curse).

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 9:35:30 PM

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You carry the burden well.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/23/2011 10:12:57 PM

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You carry the burden well.

Well, I do have a brain the size of a small universe.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/27/2011 9:13:49 PM

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All of my subs have been under 40; most so far in their late 20's to early 30's. I don't rule out men my own age or older, but younger men seem more comfortable with powerful women and their own submissiveness, and likewise my sexuality and theirs. And as above, age is no guarantee of maturity, as evidenced by the hate-mail I get from older dudes.
So being interested in her and comfortable with yourself are good starts. Good luck.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/27/2011 10:21:46 PM

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well, i have one 23 and one 64, and i like them both ... think just depends what you want ... you have to train both anyways, lol

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/28/2011 4:28:47 PM

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i think in the end, it just boils down to one's preferences. some dommes may look for a younger sub while others could look for ones that are the same age or older. when you think of it like that, the argument kind of becomes a little pointless

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/28/2011 10:39:35 PM

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I look for a good man, Nick. One I like, laugh with, and want to f*ck. Don't much care about the carbon dating as long as those 3 criteria are met.

Cabin Boy and S are both a couple years older than me.

Wayward's 43, 10 years my junior. Only tough thing about that is he must still strive for career, including potential relocation. I'm retired, well-settled here on the coast and won't move for him or anyone. Them's the breaks; nobody has a crystal ball and while he's here I'm going to enjoy the hell out of him. FYI, his thinning hair and 'cuddly' physique work just fine for me, thanks.

Good men, all.

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RE: Question for Domme's Do You like younger or older ... - 12/28/2011 10:58:35 PM

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At 35, I had a boy of 65.

Now, at 61, my range is 35 to 55. Was recently CMailed on other side: "Sir, do you have an age limit on the slaves you are looking for?" How's that for an intro one-liner?

Turns out he's 35 and was worried that he was too old. Turns out he's almost not old enough. LOL!

Hey, DS.... how's your sig line go? Something about breasts and hair? Maybe you should add age. LOL!

A friend once said, "The best time to find a 19 year old boy friend is when you are 19 years old." Probably true for all gender combos, but after 19 or 20 or 21 - bet's are off.....

At 61, I'm not about to teach "life-experiences" to a 20-year old. Not that they'd listen anyway. A 20 year old could very well be my grand-child. YIKES! If I had a child at my 20, and they had a boy at their 20 (my 40) that boy would now be 20!!!!

The proble is NOT age, it's generational - loved the comment above about "Beatle's lyrics." Vietnam draft? The sexual liberation? Stonewall - more than 35 years ago.... and on and on. Early computers compared to what is called the "connected generation." Sorry, just can't "do" it.

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