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allanbindre -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 10:41:59 AM)

Contact me at (email address removed) ... I'm just waiting to be used...



searching4mysir -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 10:44:17 AM)

Allan,

You are putting the cart before the horse and making demands of a domme. Not wise. Most dommes will want to get to know AND TRUST you before they ALLOW you to build a website for them.

Desperation is rarely an attractive quality.



Fornica -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 10:46:23 AM)

You were asked some pretty specific q's, and haven't answered them.
I don't see the appeal for anyone to get you to build them a website or micromanage them. It sounds more like you want someone to pimp out via your mad skillz.



allanbindre -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:36:51 PM)

Sorry but the reactions here are just mind buggling.

People are paying me a lot of money doing what I'm offering here for free. Where does the venom come from? What the devil is wrong with my offer?

Where did that micro manage-thing come from anyway - it's like callimg me a fake and a liar which is not fair.
I'm ready to work hard for the right woman.



allanbindre -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:40:34 PM)

@Searching4mysir - some demands I'm making.

- Hello. I would like to work for you for free doing whatever you need me to do.

- Ah - a demanding little buggar - be gone with you!



Azonier -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:43:00 PM)

You've avoided many relevent questions, hooman.



Fornica -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:43:26 PM)

No venom. I'm not emotionally invested one way or the other.
I'm telling you what my interpretation of what I am reading is. Take it or leave it, it's no skin off my nose.



Azonier -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:50:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

it's no skin off my nose.


I see my reputation precedes me, lovely hooman.
I take your nose, and I leave you a faux...



allanbindre -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:50:44 PM)

Sorry - what questions did I avoid?



Azonier -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:52:03 PM)

These.

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Well, best of luck to you. The thing is...the things you propose to do, most of them must be (mostly) done by the lady herself.

From your post: "I'm not going to dictate anything. I will make suggestions based on what I know about business (and about male submissiveness) but mostly I would just do what the woman would ask of me: editing audio and video, answering mail, search for slaves, write about her on forums, write stories and texts for her site etc. etc."
 
What do you know about online businesses that are adult in nature? (taxes, marketing, etc.?)

What do you know (over-all) about male submissives? Most doms will know more than you, because they will have met and interacted with more than you have. The sub males are (generally) very open about what they like, want and need, and how to exploit those likes, wants and needs.

I can see how editing audio and video could work. That is a pita task, that most ladies do for themselves. But...is it because they have to, or because they want total control over what is done and how?

I would never have someone answering mail for me. My answers are variable from person to person, not question to question. And by that I mean, it sometimes depends on the way a person says something, rather than the actual question (and/or comment) itself. It may also depend on how the person appears to carry himself, online or phone. No one could answer my mail in a way that would be pleasing to me even fifty percent of the time. It's too personal.

Same with searching for slaves. (and honestly, if as a submissive, another sub contacted me to tell me about this great goddess, I'd wonder why I hadn't found her, or if she were interested in me, why she hadn't contacted me herself.)

Writing about her on forums would be good. But if I did allow someone to do that, they would have to run everything by me for a trial period, before I gave them carte blanche. Stories can sometimes be written by someone else, and some girls hire others to write their blogs. I don't blog as much as I should, but when I do, it's all me, all the time. Everyone has a certain "voice" and it's difficult for others to get that just right.

I do wish you luck in your search. I would advise you to be patient, for, even though you don't realize it, YOU are asking for a lot.







allanbindre -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 1:59:11 PM)

Sorry - I only see two questions there and I took them as rhetorical.
But the answers are: I don't know much about adult business online and I do know a thing or two about submissives - but I would never argue against it that there are dommes that know a lot more than I do.

But consider this:
How much does a young woman know about adult business online? From what I see around the net precious fee dommes know anything about business. Even the seamingly most succesful ones spend time on Niteflirt earning relatively little.
Secondly: It doesnt have to be adult business. I could help build any kind of site or service.



seekerofslut -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 2:05:49 PM)

<Makes Popcorn>[8D]



xxblushesxx -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 2:25:27 PM)

You took my questions and comments as rhetorical?
You'd be very surprised at the amount of work, time, networking, and thought that goes into most (popular) ladie's business.
The ones I know (although admittedly, they are very successful) have educated themselves regarding the law, taxes, hardware and software, fetishes, payment options, lighting, scheduling, and more things than you could conceive of.
How can you help someone if you are not at least proficient in these areas? (preferably an expert)

And how, praytell, can you tell what anyone is making on Niteflirt?
The women there make money not just on calls and cams, but also selling pics, vids, stories, games and other assignments. An outsider has NO way to know how much is being earned. There are some cam sites I'm aware of where you can get a pretty good idea of what someone is making (but I won't go into how) but on NF, there are just too many variables and too many hidden (from the public) transactions that may or may not be occurring.

You are requesting to "serve" someone in the way you want to serve. Someone who wants to be served will have their own ideas about what they want and need, and probably won't mesh perfectly with yours. I'm really just trying to give you an idea of what you're up against. If you truly want to serve someone in the ways you named, at least educate yourself in the areas you propose to help her in.



searching4mysir -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 3:04:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: allanbindre

@Searching4mysir - some demands I'm making.

- Hello. I would like to work for you for free doing whatever you need me to do.

- Ah - a demanding little buggar - be gone with you!


But that isn't what you are saying. What you are saying is, "I want to serve you by having you trust a complete stranger to run your business website even though I know nothing about the business that you run".

She would have to be pretty fucking stupid to do it.



Fornica -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 3:10:53 PM)

I read it as "I'm looking for a chick that's hot that I can turn into a superstar! But not for me. For her, of course."



MastersPetgirl -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 3:15:47 PM)

We smart ones are very leary of anyone that claims to do something for free...remember there is no "free Lunch". Welcome to CM. Good luck finding "the one"



lizi -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 4:33:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: allanbindre

Actually - maybe this wasnt clear from my first post:
I can help create any kind of site. I can build a site from scratch if needed - and it doesnt have to have anything to do with findomme or fetish. A beautiful, young, arrogant woman could make me build her just about anything - for FREE.
Where do I go to find someone smart enough to act on this, I wonder...


You weren't clear about much in your first post and have been attempting  to come in later bit by bit to explain your position- which still isn't very clear. During that time you have been more than a little condescending and criticizing to the audience you would like to help, and you are also acting butthurt. Let's start over....

Pretend you're looking for a job. You'd set out to make the best impression possible from your resume, your appearance, your mannerisms - all of it would try to convey a degree of professionalism. You came in here with a vague offer and proceeded to denigrate your target audience, I'm thinking neither of these things helped your cause. Then you acted shocked and appalled that no one wanted your 'services', and you came back in yet again to offer once more- which starts to look like desperation. Would you hire someone like that? I wouldn't. I'd turn around and give the job to someone who came in speaking clearly, politely, and seemed as though they could rise to amazing heights in order to get this job done for me.

You came in dithering around and did not put out clearly what you had to offer, or what type of thing you were looking for. If I wanted something, I'd make bullet points, I'd be clear and concise,  I'd make damn sure people knew what the hell I wanted so there might be a chance that I could get it. Just saying you want a beautiful young woman to make money is pretty darned sketchy. Not sure why you're 'surprised' at the lack of interest. It seems like a million other shady offers that beautiful women run into all the time. I know I've heard my share, and even though I'm old and not so beautiful anymore I'd have no problem walking on by your 'offer' today since it seems like something nebulous and unscrupulous. Since you're not getting anywhere maybe you could try to figure out how to come across as being trustworthy and professional. You say you do this in the business world but i'd have never thought that by your amateurish postings on this thread. Or you could sit back and keep complaining about your lack of success- seems to be working well for you so far...



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 4:47:46 PM)

Assuming I was taking this seriously - which I´m not - there is no way I would allow the OP to write or post anything on my behalf. Both for the reasons that others have stated, and because they have made several spelling mistakes. On my own website I prefer to be represented by correct English. Fortunately I´m perfectly capable of fulfilling that myself.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 5:41:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: allanbindre

But isn't it strange that there isnt even a 19 year old Russian beauty with nothing to loose that would reach out when a chance like this presents itself.


quote:

Even the seamingly most succesful ones spend time on Niteflirt earning relatively little.


I'm with Miss Kitty. Dude, at 19 (even at 10) I knew the difference between 'lose' and 'loose', 'seemingly' and 'seamingly' (the second of which comes up as a red underline on here so that should have been your first clue.)

You'll know if you have something worthwhile to offer when someone worthwhile wants to take you up on it. While you're waiting for a bite of your pie in the sky please find something worthwhile to do with your time...like volunteer what skills you may have at your local foodbank, animal or homeless shelter.

Good luck with all of that and welcome to the boards.



BurntKitty -> RE: Who needs help... (1/5/2012 7:26:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: allanbindre

But isn't it strange that there isnt even a 19 year old Russian beauty with nothing to loose that would reach out when a chance like this presents itself.


quote:

Even the seamingly most succesful ones spend time on Niteflirt earning relatively little.


I'm with Miss Kitty. Dude, at 19 (even at 10) I knew the difference between 'lose' and 'loose', 'seemingly' and 'seamingly' (the second of which comes up as a red underline on here so that should have been your first clue.)



OP- welcome to CM's discussion side. Listen to the ladies here. You've been given good info.

I do agree with Miss Kitty & MDA. communication isn't your forte.

(Here's the best I could find after a loooong day at work.)

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