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WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Who needs help... (1/6/2012 3:58:22 PM)
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Hi allanbindre,
Not sure if you are still hanging in there or not, if so - welcome to CM. If not, meh, wouldn't be the first time I've talked to myself.
I know it may be hard to understand, but for many, our websites represent years of creative energy and insane hours of our life. I would rather invite a complete stranger into my house, than allow someone administrative access to my servers and web files. I've known friends online for over a decade, that I won't give more than limited administrative access to sites and they do a helluva lot of work for me. I think that is what others were trying to express to you. Not to mention, we spend a lot of time trying to do our best to protect our work and sites from spammers, phishers, scammers and thieves. When someone shows up, with a too good to be true offer - most of our internal alarms go off.
When I see someone targeting specifically young women, and blatantly stating (not even subtly inferring) that the women they are targeting aren't intelligent enough to form a business such as you can help them with, I tend to view that person as a predator first and otherwise if proven so. I know, one is supposed to be innocent until proven guilty, but that there are the breaks.
I only say this, because you probably are a decent guy, and we all have our own desires/needs/fantasies/kinks etc. It sucks when they go unfulfilled. Perhaps you can take what I have said to heart, and what others have said, and consider that perhaps you may be scaring off (not to mention insulting and condescending toward) your intended targets.
Anyway, best wishes and all that.
WinD
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