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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/10/2012 6:45:03 PM   
angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: nipples4u
... they'lll fight you to the death to insist on opeing the door for you... these are all bad signs. you can never trust someone like that, so dont even worry about the sex stuff yet.


One can't trust someone who insists upon opening doors? Ummmmm, really?

I will be sure to inform my Master of this whom I met here 3 yrs ago.

I honestly hope your instant meet and greets work as well for you.

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< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 1/10/2012 6:56:03 PM >

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/10/2012 6:49:49 PM   
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< Message edited by Lucylastic -- 1/10/2012 6:50:43 PM >

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/10/2012 7:39:10 PM   
IntellectEqual


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Status: offline 		Many Doms can be content with limits in your comfort level. The better question to ask, as many have already expressed: are you patient enough to wait for a compatible One?

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/10/2012 9:06:50 PM   
Arturas


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I've greatly enjoyed my girl being helplessly restrained for several hours at a time. But it tends to be conditional that she's having a good time, too; preferably lost in sub-space. And I'd *never* waste such enjoyment by leaving her out of my sight for anything more than the odd minute or so.

Yea, I'm refering more to, tie you up, go out and party and leave you alone at home for hours, and maybe untie you 8 hrs later or something. Not sure..., I'm gonna enjoy that sort of things.
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Fisting? Well ok, but I'd at least wanna know why.... Hmmmm, for any limit, actually.

I don't even understand why is fisting a turn on for men. What is the kick out of putting a whole fist into a vagina? But it's psychological, I know a baby head could get out of that, but..., it scares me. And I find kegel a real hassle to do, to get it back in shape again after all that.
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No nude pics???? I like my little trophies - intimate yet tasteful. And me being the kinda Dom who's not into public play, whose relationships are strictly personal/private and exclusive of 3rd parties etc...., wellllll...., I've gotta think you're putting a huge trust obstacle between us virtually before the relationship's begun...!

Well, no matter how safe you try to be, you could get robbed, or you could die, and people would have to go through your things. Somehow, nude pictures could get out EVEN if it's not your fault.





Perhaps you should include a limit on leaving you bound alone for more than a minute or two as nobody leaves a girl alone tied up for more than a minute or two for safety reasons much less to leave them tied up alone for eight hours while the Dom goes out to party.
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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 5:06:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		If he didn't like or respect my limits, we are not compatible... though I haven't tried everything out there so obviously my limits would change as I experimented with things...

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 5:42:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: nipples4u
... they'lll fight you to the death to insist on opeing the door for you... these are all bad signs. you can never trust someone like that, so dont even worry about the sex stuff yet.


One can't trust someone who insists upon opening doors? Ummmmm, really?

I will be sure to inform my Master of this whom I met here 3 yrs ago.

I honestly hope your instant meet and greets work as well for you.

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If you don't want people opening the door for you, stay the hell out of the south. Down here, we call it 'common courtesy'. Ive even had little old ladies hold a door if I had a load of packages in my arms. In return, they all get called "Ma'am" as in "Thank you ma'am".

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 7:56:56 AM   
sirjake1379


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Status: offline 		The question should be 'what limits am I comfortable with?' To enter into a D/s relationship on terms that are uncomfortable to you is akin to committing a fraud.

D/s is a very personal relationship between two people, and whatever they decide works for them is therefore 'right'.

That said, in My opinion, any Dom/me worth their salt will ask you to complete a detailed checklist indicating your areas of interest, prior experience and indicating limits. That checklist should then be carefully reviewed by the Dom/me to ascertain that there is in fact enough of a range of common interests / common limits to make the exploration of a relationship worthwhile. Any Dom/me worth their salt will bring this step up without being prompted if they are truly experienced and knowledgeable.

your mission, should you accept to accept it Mr. Phelps (showing My age here), is to answer truthfully and neither hold anything back or try to second-guess as to what the Dom/me wants to hear.

Please, please, please be truthful as to your limits and comfort zone. It may take longer to 'find' a Dom/me, but it will be worth it.

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 12:43:23 PM   
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they'lll fight you to the death to insist on opeing the door for you... these are all bad signs. you can never trust someone like that, so dont even worry about the sex stuff yet.




Perhaps some of this can be explained by your living in New Jersey. People do hold doors open in other parts of the country and world.

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 12:47:15 PM   
Lucylastic


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ORIGINAL: sirjake1379

The question should be 'what limits am I comfortable with?' To enter into a D/s relationship on terms that are uncomfortable to you is akin to committing a fraud.

D/s is a very personal relationship between two people, and whatever they decide works for them is therefore 'right'.

That said, in My opinion, any Dom/me worth their salt will ask you to complete a detailed checklist indicating your areas of interest, prior experience and indicating limits. That checklist should then be carefully reviewed by the Dom/me to ascertain that there is in fact enough of a range of common interests / common limits to make the exploration of a relationship worthwhile. Any Dom/me worth their salt will bring this step up without being prompted if they are truly experienced and knowledgeable.

your mission, should you accept to accept it Mr. Phelps (showing My age here), is to answer truthfully and neither hold anything back or try to second-guess as to what the Dom/me wants to hear.

Please, please, please be truthful as to your limits and comfort zone. It may take longer to 'find' a Dom/me, but it will be worth it.


I always wanted to be dana lambert!!!! well.... until she died:)

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/11/2012 1:58:28 PM   
jaslyn82


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Am sure there is a conservative Dominant who is agoraphobic, religiously conservative, cameraless, anti social sexually, monogamous, missionary position only type of guy that lives in a padded room without any sharp objects that could draw blood.  But who would want him??? 

So you think a man who can accept these limits is gonna be religiously conservative and only do missionary? What a bummer. I am anti-religion and my fav position is doggy.
Yes it will be hard find. Sometimes you meet someone where bdsm matches, but not vanilla personality.

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/12/2012 11:01:26 AM   
bestloverever


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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/12/2012 11:55:36 AM   
tarikuhn


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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 1/13/2012 5:38:27 AM   
TheKingofHell


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ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

No anal or anal play or anything with anal
No public display
No nude pictures
No third parties involved in plays
No breaking skin or drawing blood
No making me eat feces or urine
No making me eat like an animal, from a dog dish or something
No tying me up for hours and leaving me be
No fisting






When can you start?

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 8/5/2012 12:03:41 PM   
Silentrunner26


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Status: offline 		I am ok with all but the first and even then we can talk and take things slow . Anal is not something that needs to be rushed into unless your already have done it .

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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 8/5/2012 12:05:13 PM   
chemeli


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RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? - 8/5/2012 12:19:28 PM   
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